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writes:HI , i met someone we get along great, he lives an hour away. We have been together a months. We are both finalizing our divorces but have been separeated for over a year. He said he wants to move to my town to be close to me and probably with me, what do u guys think? has anyone does this and had a successfull relationship? or do u think its better to wait a few months? what difference will it make if i wait? thanx.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Seems a bit fast to me. You will have to slow it down to the pace that you feel comfortable with. However, slowing it down may push him away. That's a risk for you but it's no good just rushing in. The divorces can make people lonely and scared of the future hence the rushing. Hannah xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): Seems kind of fast, the fact that you are asking seems you are a bit uncomfortable with it, so just slow it up a bit! no rush, you have the rest of your life!
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Everyone moves at their own pace - how fast you want to take things is entirely up to you.
If you are uncomfortable or unsure about him moving in, then wait.
There's never any hurry, and it's always best to be certain.
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