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writes: HeyyWhy can't I tell my BEST friends who i like ? If they are supposed to be my best friends (as i have 2) I should be able to tell them but something holds me back when it comes to it. Do i trust them ?x
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reader, Cyg79  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 If your not conferable telling someone something, then don't. You should never feel pressured to divulge information for the sole purposes of fitting some standard. In this case the the standard of best friend. Do what your conferable with and if at some point you wish to share the information you will. Until then just tell them you like to be mysterious in your ways.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): At first I didnt want 2 tell my best friend bout my man,because she LUVS 2 flirt.But his little bro was looking 4 a girl,so I hooked them up.Now there like the 2nd best couple in the world.Me and my man is #1!I think u should tell her bout boyz u like cause thats wat best friends are there 4.If she does something stupid then she is not a true best friend!Good Luck!!!!!!!!!! Luv u, Mrs.Stancil
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reader, Angels Eyes  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 I'm in the exact same position you do trust them but at the back of your mind you know that there is that chance that it won't be a secret for very long.If i was you i would definetely have a long think about who you tell cause you might think they are your best friend but you realise if they are not when the school knows who you fancy by the end of the day!!
Hope this helpedxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): of course you trust them, if they're real freinds they'll keep your secrets and they won't judge you for who you like.
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reader, Teenage-Rebel +, writes (28 May 2008):
 They are your best friends.
You do trust them. Don't worry if you can't tell them maybe your just not ready to tell. It took a while for me to feel that i'm ready to tell my best friends who i like.
Some people find it easy to tell their friends who they fancy other's don't.
hope this helps x
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