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writes:My name is Anthony, and I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly two years. Without getting too graphic, certain area's of her body have changed since I took her virginity and we started having sex casually. I don't find her as attractive anymore (even though she has gotten better looking), and I can't even have lengthy sex with her. Advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): You are the one that changed her body if you are talking about what I think and you are not likely to find another virgin. You should be happy with what you have.But then looking at your age, you are very young and probably having too much sexy anyway. Even still you changed her body so I don't see what you are so upset about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): ALL girls fantisize about anal. durring sex, lick her ass-hole.. she will cum sooo hard! :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): If u guyz been 2gether 2yrs. y waste such a good relationship?She has been putting up with your flaws for 2yrs too u know.I know she wants 2 b with u for the rest of her life,bcause she she gave u something really important 2 u.Her VIRGINITY!!!Dude y dump something sooo special? I know she is special 2 u cause you've been with her 4 2yrs.Remember:what goes around comes around!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): Hey, well obviously girls bodies change as they get older! You need to look at your relationship, like the things you have in common ect is that worth throwing away? But if you want someone more attractive break it off with her, its unfair to be leading her along! x
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reader, Gio  +, writes (28 May 2008):
Hi Anthony, women's bodies do change when they get sexually active. What you need to think about is that relationships are more than sex. Yes, it is a major plus if you have a great sexual relationship, but that will wear off with time. Look into your relationship, and see if you were attracted to her just because you wanted to bed her. Or if there is good conversation, hobbies you share, etc. If you find that it was only sex, then, sadly, I can't see you staying with her for too long.
Good luck!
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reader, a-g55  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 i cant work out weather u want to make ureself attracted to her again and find a way around it or u want to end it and find sum1 new. those are ure two choices. my advice to you wud be to explore those options. what will option 1 bring u. what will option 2 bring u. or even add an option 3.. for example " have a break, shag some attractive girls at some house partys " get it out of your system. i can tell u realy want to shag somebody u find attractive. now i sounds mean on her but at 13-15 ure not married and u will have alot of other girls before u do get married so discover ure value and just follow them.
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