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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

There just has to be some other ways to deal with this rather than talking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, im just looking for some advice please. Ive been with my boyfriend 2.5yrs. I love him loads but i just dont think he's as in2 this as i am. I do everything to please him. Im always affectionate and tell him i love him all the time. He's quite the opposite. He does tel... (274 words)

Any of you had experiences like this before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This one is long and complicated. So im 17, and have liked this boy [michael] since november. its not that i liked him from november, but rather my friend [claudia] was talking about how she and he were talking about music, and it was then i realized he a) existed and b) liked ... (461 words)

Its my first time, I'm 13! help!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hey, my name is maria. im 13 years old, and my boyfriend is 15. weve been together for a year, and im ready to have sex for my first time. im not scared or anything, but i am nervous! its not his first time, so i dont know what he expects out of me. we both really love ea... (83 words)

Problems with my body.. help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i have a couple questions here about my body.. 1. My boobs seem to be getting smaller sometimes, i don't wear a bra to bed but sometimes when i wake up they seem smaller.. is it possible that they can shrink? what can i do to stop this... 2. i am a skinny girl but... (178 words)

Why Does Love hurt So bad?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Why Does Love Hurt? Yeah love can be a great and a amzing feeling. But it can hurt sooo bad.. Love is very a powerful and yet beautiful emotion. Life without love is meaningless and empty; However whenever we love someone there is always a chance the person won't love yo... (322 words)

How do I let my boss know I am interested, I am leaving soon!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F) - I'm a 39 year old woman who has been single for a good few years but always have my share of dates. It is quite rare for me to really like someone because I suppose I have quite unusual taste. I am looking first and foremost for a good person and due to past experiences I would ... (239 words)

Can a relationship ever be the same when a partner has cheated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - can a relationship ever be the same when a partner has cheated. my boyfriend cheated on me about 9 months ago. we had been together for 3 years and hes my first love. he said he was sooo sorry and that he loved me. we got back together but it was never really the same. i... (220 words)

Ok so I'm a 17 year old lesbian...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm a 17 year old lesbian and in my first year at college. I was taught by Miss X in years 10 and 11 and developed feelings for her. Even now I can't stop thinking about her. During my time being taught by her, I'm pretty sure she knew. She openly told me she was ... (315 words)

Would it be stupid to send her a message saying something like if it doesn't work out and I'm still free to give me a call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, a girl ive been seeing the last few weeks has decided to go back to her ex. he cheated on her, they gave it another go but it wasnt the same, but theyve got back together again. would it be stupid to send her a message saying something like if it doesnt work out and i... (212 words)

I can't trust my friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone!! I met loads of new friends when i started secondary but i feel i'm loosing them quite quickly cause they either lie to me non stop or i can't trust them!!They make me feel as if it's my fault when they tell people my crushes or they tell my secrets to the whol... (103 words)

The girl I've fallen for has lots of male friends.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl who ive been seeing who ive really fallen for likes to have lots of close male friends. Why does this make me so uncomfortable? Is there anything i can do to make it better?... (36 words)

I'm having fantasy of a threesome. Am I normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

19 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Ok I'm bi I don't tell many people this because I'm afraid of what they will say but thats not the point of this message. Today in 5th period I had both people I like together in one class . Boy and a girl. I don't why but I started having this fantasy and like totally... (143 words)

I don't mention to her I like her, but I have a very vague feeling she knows

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, well. Im a lad, whos 16. Im taking my exams, finishing coursework and have a big group of friends. A girl i like is in this group of friends, and ive liked her for 4 years now. I dont mention to her i like her, but i have a very vague feeling she knows. This girl is a part ... (120 words)

I think if I were to ask her out again or something it would only hurt her. How can I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl that I like and I told her I liked her but she said she didn't like me. Except I kept bothering her and eventually she got really mad at me but so I stopped. I tried to forget about her but I really couldn't. Everyday I'd start to get over her but every night she ... (155 words)

She's got cold feet after I proposed, should I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My g/f and i are on a break for a reason, i need help with this please.. I asked her to marry me, she said yes to me, Then i talked to her parents and they might have talked her out of it or not i do not know. She had told me it wasnt her parents it was me i was rushing it.. ... (268 words)

Where shall I begin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyyy Where shall i begin? Well i'm a girl of 15 and bisexual. [Moderator note]Rest of post deleted. Re-submit and next time try and refrain from putting double spaces between every single sentence. ... (38 words)

Gag reflex. How can I stop it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. My boyfriend and I have a really healthy and liberal sex life where we try lots of different things. He really loves it when I go down on him and deep throat him, I enjoy it too but after 4 or 5 thrusts my gag reflex kicks in and I have to stop. Is there anyway I can ... (69 words)

What is spooning??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

19 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - What is spooning, and why do people seem to make such a big deal out of it?... (17 words)

My wife since 4 years told me she is not happy with this anymore, what can I do to win her love and heart again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a young man married to a pretty lady who is my life and my one and only queen. She is more romantic than i am. For some time now we have been having a lot of problems in our relationship and i want to make her happy for the rest of our lives together. She just told ... (125 words)

I thought he really liked me, but then he told me it was just a fling for him. I'm so hurt right now and don't know what to think or do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

- Hoping someone can help. I am so hurt right now. My ex left town three years ago and moved back to his hometown. He was with someone and they split about six months ago. He called me in February and I stopped in and visited with him in March.We have been in regular phone ... (252 words)

I feel very disappointed he hasn't tried to make much contact after the break up to know how I was doing. Are people really that callous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 May 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Could someone please help me understand? My boyfriend (?) and I broke up in October last year. I also found out later that month that he had lied and cheated many many times. We actually tried to do the whole friends bit on his insistence. Didn't work out too great. We have had ... (130 words)

I had sex a couple of days ago and I'm still bleeding, why??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 15 years old and i just had sex a couple days ago. i'm still bleeding from this. i can't figure out if it is because he scratched me or if it i "you know what"!! please help me!!... (39 words)

If you haven't had sex for several years, will it hurt over again like the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello,i am a 30 year old woman and i have a question and hopefully u can answer it for me I havent had sex in about 3 years i would like to know if it would hurt all over again ... (47 words)

How do I get over this married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,i have been involved in a situation and would like some advice. I have been working for this company for a year now and part of my job is dealing with reps based all over the uk.There was this 1 rep in particular who i got on well with-we had never met before just via emai... (483 words)

I sweat really bad, anyone knows how to stop it???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - this may seem a little funny but its a porblem that i dont konw how to solve. i sweat really bad. i use deoderant all the time and if its too hot ill look at my armpits and there will be massive sweat patches. even in school, i know that i wear the big hot jumpers, and ... (167 words)

I fear being alone and find myself jumping from one short relationship into another. How to move forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 27 and have been separated from my husband for about 20 months. I moved away after the split and found myself changing, becoming more confident, independent and enjoying life but I seem to have relationship demons. I seem to find myself jumping from one short and unst... (128 words)

What do boys think of girls that get horney?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - do boys think it is good if girls get horney ? i am embarresed to ask that question. ... (19 words)

Thinking of giving him sexy pictures of myself to be remembered during the short while he is away, how to have them done professionally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My BF is going abroad for about two weeks, and I want to give him something so he can remember me ... I was thinking about some "sexy" pictures for each day ... but dont know where to go to have them done (want to have it professionaly done,so they look good). Can anyone h... (61 words)

Why was she afraid to tell me about meeting her ex for dinner? Is this ok?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age - why would my gf of 4 yrs.not tell me about her talking to her old bf? then i found out she met him for dinner and are now just friends.we were planning to get married,but the trust thing just went out the window.help! we love each other so much.she was afraid to tell me.is ... (63 words)

Any tips on reaching orgams (excluding oral or manual)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i am very aware that it is a lot harder for women to reach orgasim than men. now ive had a few orgasms during sex with my ex. my new bf and i have slept together twice now and its great but i just cant get to the point of orgasm. could somebody plese give me tips on how ... (73 words)

How do I avoid the stains?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :] hope someone can help me, this may seem funny but really its getting rather expensive :D, basically me and my boyfriend have only recently tried out handjobs and he prefers me to be on bottom. Is there anyway he can finish and not make such bad cum stains on his tee shir... (71 words)

How do I get rid of this smell?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok...this is a bit embarrasing...but here goes...well when i retact my foreskin i get this really strong smell of fish hit me, and i really dont understand it because i wash down there thoroughly everyday. can anyone help with how to get rid of the smell (Bearing in mind... (77 words)

In it for the kids, how do I choose a life of my choice instead of a life for others??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - THIS IS WHERE I'M AT RIGHT NOW IN MY LIFE... QUOTES I FOUND ON LINE.. HOW DO I CHOICE A LIFE OF MY CHOICE INSTEAD OF A LIFE FOR MY CHILDREN? I can choose to stay married until the pain of staying married becomes greater than the pain of leaving. I choose to rem... (174 words)

How do I get a boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my freinds are doing stuff with boys n i wish i cud but no boylike me but everyone says i am pretty how do i get a boy ?... (29 words)

Is this site legal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i no this isnt a relationship question but ive heard some other aunts talking about it before, is ******.com illegal in the UK? thanks xx [moderator comment: site name removed. No it's not illegal. Just inappropriate]... (42 words)

How can I forget the feelings for my first love, that came rushing back once we reestablished contact via mail? We're both married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Many years ago, I dated a wonderful man, who was probably the love of my life. Unfortunately, I treated him terribly. I was mentally ill at the time, and after our breakup, he decided that he shouldn't have any contact with me. It hurt me, but I tried to move on with my ... (232 words)

Should I make the next move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi again i have had one reply to my question but i still dont know what do do you think that i should talk to him . I did go there saturday night, but my mum was with me that night, because her friends cancelled on her, so she came out with me. Anyway as soon as we wa... (226 words)

Can I get rid of a UTI without prescription drugs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is there anyway to get rid of a uti without prescription drugs? I've had several in the past, so I'm pretty sure I know I have one. But I don't have insurance right now, and can't afford a doctor visit. I've heard of home remedies, but don't know if they really work or not.... (56 words)

Did I make the wrong decision by temporarily breaking up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So I was dating this guy that I was friends with for two years...just to give you a little bit of a background, his best friend and I were 'sleeping together' for 6 years...he knew coming into the relationship that I was with him but one night when we were having sex he pushed ... (297 words)

I've never kissed. Should I ask this girl out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 i really like this girl but ive only met her once we talk alot on msn but i really dont know how she feels for me how can i tell if i should ask her out or not? and im also very shy ive not actualy kissed a girl and ive had only 1 girlfreind should i askher ? o... (76 words)

My match is 10 years younger, which worries me. Share your experience please, if you've lived a similar situation.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Has any woman had a long-term relationship with a man at least 10 yrs younger than her, how did it go? i have met a very mature man that is 10 yrs younger than me and it is getting serious but i have some concerns about the age, i look very young for my age which is good. Any ... (67 words)

Has anyone had problems reaching orgasm with a new partner after being with another for a long time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyone had problems reaching orgasm with a new partner after being with one person for a looong time? and how did u over come it. With my ex i had an vaginal orgasm almost all the time!! and with the new partner i have to use a vibrator while he is inside of me or fingering ... (105 words)

Do you think I can ever regain his trust, and without his trust do we have a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend just over two years we have a son together, he broke up with me 3 weeks ago then 2 days later got back together with me. he said he broke up with me because i seemed like i didnt care about him because of the countless arguments we have had, how ... (228 words)

Why these itches after I use my vibrator?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

- After I use my vibrator, which is just a normal metal-type one, i itch really badly down below. I dont get this after having sex with a boy tho.I know its not STI as I have been checked very recently and got the all clear and that included thrush. It lasts for a couple of days ... (63 words)

Would pregancy via a second cousin risk a deformed child?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to know if I fall pregnant by my second cousin would the baby be ok or could the baby have health problems... (24 words)

Our arguements are getting out of control is this a sign that the end is near?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for two years. We love each other very much. Throughout our relationship we always seem to get into arguments that sometimes just get out of control, it always seems to start because of something he says and the fact that I over react, the arguments ... (109 words)

How do I approach the popular boy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like a popular boy. But i don't think he notices me. How can i get him to see me or talk without him knowing im being pushy.also its hard because he hangs round with peoplee who are qutie popular too.. Help!... (43 words)

If you are married a crush should stay a crush and not be taken any further right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

- An old friend of mine (NOT a boyfriend!!!) said that he thinks that nowadays it is common expectation that a crush -- even one felt by a married man!!! -- should end up "consummated" whereas years ago this wasn't true. I think this is terrible and not even true, and that most ... (79 words)

What do I do about my bullying husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age - my husband is a bully. ive been married just two years and things are horrible at home. everytime we have a few words he flies off the handle and then starts calling my family. he never takes me out but when weve had an arguement he goes out to our local night club and doesnt ... (151 words)

He cheats and he lies why cant he tell the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3yrs. I know he has cheated on several occasion but he wont admit it he constantly lying to me and when i ask him things he cant even remember what he had told me before its just one story after the other and i dont know what to ... (197 words)

Any tips on how to overcome shyness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 i am very shy only had 1 girlfriend it went no where i have no self confidence and find impossible to start a conversation i always seem to say the wrong things.i cant stand being around people i find it really awkward is there any advice for this?... (52 words)

My ex and I were perfect, he wants me but can't guarantee a relationship, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I split up 5 months ago. We were great together, we were totally comfortable with each other, in a way that I never have before, we had fun, made each other laugh, the sex was good. But for some reason, we made each other insecure. I felt insecure about... (385 words)

The woman I am dating is a very private person

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I Have a woman I care deeply for. She is very big on keeping private stuff private and avoiding pda. She also has had horrible past relationships. We had been dating for about 4 months. She told me early Sat morning before we went to bed, that she loved me, this is the ... (392 words)

My ex got violent

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I posted this yesterday and had no replies so thought i would try again.. Me and my ex had a row the other night, and he grabbed me and pinned me up against a cupboard. I fought him off, and got him out the house. My children and his child were in the house at the time, an... (468 words)

I feel marginalised and treated like dirt by this group of girls. I don't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i started college this year and met some great people however some of these people turned out to be not so great. they started treating me like dirt to be honest, a group of girls i made friends with from the begininning gradually started leaving me and eventually i started ... (214 words)

The only thing keeping us together is sex...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend who is 2 years older than me is leaving school and either going to collage. He says that things between us wont change but i no it will. I am madly in love with him but he doesnt understand as he keeps on thinking i flirt/or change in frount of other guys. He ... (110 words)

I think my boyfriend is still in love with his ex!! What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i think my boyfriend is still in love with his ex. we have been together eight months and i have found two dvds of her and he said he name in his sleep. he has also gone to meet her at the start of the relationship and i dont knoe if i can trust him. he says he would never go ... (76 words)

We've been married for 7 years, yet he rarely kisses me or tells me he loves me...is he cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - okay today we are married 7 years, together for 8. he sleeps on the couch 99% of the time.never kisses my except on occasion as he is leaving for work.doesnt hold me,rarely says he loves me. and he tells me i get on his nerves. now he swears he is not cheating,but what am i ... (58 words)

I had sex for the first time on the weekend...and I'm still bleeding...is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey!! ok well i lost my virginity on the w.e and me and my boyfriend had sex like 4 times! anyway...there was blood but 2 days later there is still a little bit of blood!! whats going on?? also...im really dry when we have sex..how can we make it a little bit more exciti... (72 words)

We broke up due to it being a long distance relationship, but I'm seeing her in the summer, any chance of a real relationship then...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts and uncles well you see me and my GF broke up today but i took it alot easier today but it might be the fact that the relationship was long distant.Well anyways she said she was sorry and all i said it was ok and i respect her decision she said that she didn't want ... (179 words)

Can you get pregnant the day you finish your period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F) age 30-35 - can you get pregnant the day you come off your period.?... (11 words)

My stress level is so high after the divorce; how will I find the strength to rent a new home and then move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age - My husband left me in October.. We are not divorced yet. He has had a girlfriend soon after or before he left. We just sold our home of 8 years. I am left to pack and find a place to live. I have till June 11 th to get out. I am in the process of trying to find a place to rent... (134 words)

That disappointed look on her beautiful face when she is not satisfied in bed... discourages me even more!? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been with my girlfriend for almost two years now, and i plan to marry her soon. everything seems to be going well except for one thing. our sex life. we are both 17 and have been tring everything to make sex work but something always goes wrong. the main problem seem... (411 words)

Is it nature or is it nurture that make us pefer different types?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i am not sexually attracted to blue eyed blond women. It seems that there is hardly anything but blue eyed blond women on tv, in movies and i really find them boring. Let a black woman, latino or asian appear on the screen and i pay rapt attention. I am a young white guy and ... (513 words)

My testicles are sore after having sex with my gf is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my gf had sex for the 1st time 2days ago and my balls have been hurting since is this normal? if so how long will it last? and can sti's be passed on to our kids when we have them if we have an sti?... (51 words)

My boyfriend is moving 3000miles away for college!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6061 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright.. im 16 and me and my boyfriend thats 18 have been going out for 7 months and i know im young but i know that i love him and he loves and we are for eachother and he thinks the same thing.. but he is moving in 2 weeks to Wisconsin for college! i knew he was going there ... (131 words)

He is always hinting that I am fat and he pressures me into doing things in my life I am not happy with

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my partner for 2 years, i am madly in love with him and he knows this. i know he is not happy with how i look as he is always hinting that i am fat and he pressures me into doing things in my life i am not happy with, but i go along as i am scared of losing ... (132 words)

He's not spending enough time with me, how do I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

19 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel that the guy I'm currently dating doesn't spend enough time with me. I only see him once a week for about four hours and I feel that this little time isn't enough. He's a full time student who is about to graduate, and I understand he's busy with classes, but he ... (160 words)

Should I just forget about this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age - I've been talking to a woman on the phone for several months now, and becoming emotionally involved. She's in a kept-woman, loveless relationship with a live-in boyfriend who, she says, she has not had sex with for months. Our own relationship is becoming very complicated, on ... (255 words)

She says she loves me and wants to marry me, but she lied to me.help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

19 May 2008 (M)

age - my girlfriend of 4yrs. met with her x-boyfriend for drinks and dinner.she didn't tell me about it,but i found out anyway.she said she didn't tell me about it because i would get mad? well,why wouldn't i be upset. she says they are just friends. she says she loves me and wants ... (59 words)

I feel dumb even asking this, but was it an orgasm?

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just turned 18, and I've never had an orgasm. I've tried masturbation and that certainly feels good...but so far no orgasm. Recently, however, I was masturbating with some pretty hot images in my head, and I felt the urge to masturbate faster, and I got this weird tingly ... (113 words)

He pinched the brides butt at the wedding, am I overreacting?

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband was groomsman at his best friends wedding. I attended as a guest and enjoyed meeting family and friends on both sides and was proud to say my husband is groomsman and looking stunning in his suit. We endured wedding speeches for 2 hours, with the bride then ... (125 words)

What do you do if he is not attracted to you?

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what do you do if you like a boy but he does not like you. My name is lola and i need boy help... (24 words)

I'm not as good on top as I thought I would be...he's different than my past lovers! Help!

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19 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I told my boyfriend 'I'll kick your ass in bed' meaning that I'd be really good...Until I got on top, that is. The two other guys that I've had sex with gave me 'rave reviews', you might say because I was very skilled at being on top. They, however...are not my current ... (119 words)

I lied about my past, now he's dumped me, I cant get over him, help me

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19 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Help me please, I'm feeling awful here...! I had a great first relationship. We lasted a year and 8 months. We had everything in common. but he disliked my past, and i lied repeatedly about it (like 4 times) I was always scared to be honest because I didn't want him to thin... (587 words)

My boyfriend (now fiancee) never buys me gifts, not even on my birthday!

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend (now fiancee) never buys me gifts, not even on my birthday. In truth i feel he never has the will to to do something special for me, even when occasion calls for it. What does this indicate? Don't such things come naturally when one loves their woman?... (49 words)

Why would he make plans with me if he has a girlfriend?

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i feel incredibly depressed, i feel like i've lost my self confidence and i'm not worth anything, i started seeing this guy a while ago...it was my own fault to get intimate with him only after a few dates but the chemistry and his genuine personality fooled me. he seemed 2 ... (247 words)

Is this my ex's way of telling me that she wants to see me and possibly be with me?

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19 May 2008 (M)

We just started having sex, but he cums to quick!, what can we do?

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for guy to cum in like the first few minuets of sex? M boyfreind was a virgin and now we do it all the time but he seems to not take long to cum, what do i do to help this situation? ... (45 words)

How do you get girls to like you?

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19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My question is simple. How do I get a girl to like me?... (13 words)

Has anyone got engaged young, and if so, did it last or not?

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfreind asked me to marry him and i said yes. I just wonder if anyone else has been engaged so young? Im so happy;-) ... (25 words)

I'm going to my dad's for the summer, and it's causing a lot of drama in my relationship.

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been dating a guy for a little over a year now, and we're really happy together. We go to different schools (he's a freshman in high school and I'm in my last year of jr high) but we see each other as often as we can. Now, every summer I go to my dad's, and for ... (291 words)

He doesn't think I love him like he loves me...What should I do?

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19 May 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 2 months. We said I love you last weekend. We live 3 hours apart, and see each other about every other weekend. I went out with friends last night, so said i would call him today. He got mad and said he was hurt i didn't take 15 minutes of my night ... (467 words)

Is my penis big enough?

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19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 13 and my penis size is 6 inches and 5 inch girth im amberresed because i dont know if its big enough and my girl freind wants to give me a BJ is it an okay size... (42 words)

Should I send her this email telling her that I'm sorry if I pressured her? She's still hung up on her ex!

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19 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i met a girl a few weeks ago that is still a bit hung up over her ex. he slept with someone behind her back but its her first bf and they've been together for years so she finding it hard to get over him. anyway we both like each other and have met on the weekends a fe... (415 words)

Have I crossed into the dreaded friend zone with this married woman?

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19 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've just met and have been spending time with a married woman. She'll be here away from home for a few more months. I know that she has been messing around out here, but everytime I come on to her she says that she won't because she wouldn't want her husband to do it to her. ... (116 words)

Scared about losing my boyfriend

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 years. and he has trouble controlling his anger and the smallest things make him angry. if he gets in a fight he will get sentto lockup and/or sent back to Florida where he used to live and got beaten everyday by his parents and ... (70 words)

How can I stop teasing my boyfriend, sex-wise?

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - everytime i am with my boyfriend alone we have sexual attractions towards each other. but i always seem to tease him and ever get anywhere sexually!! how can i stop teasing my boyfriend?... (33 words)

He didn't use a condom. Should I be worried about being pregnant?

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i just had sex a couple of days ago. He didn't use a condom. I have been having major cramps ever since. I can't buy a pregnancy test because my mom will know!! Should i be worried about being pregnant? ... (44 words)

I asked her out on a date but she didn't respond, is this a no?

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19 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked her out on a date but she didn't respond, is this a no?... (15 words)

My boyfriend never washes his hands!

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We don't live together and only see each other 1 or 2 times a week. One thing that drives me crazy about him is his level of personal hygiene is not up to mine. Especially when it comes to washing hands. He doesn't wash his hands ... (138 words)

I kissed a man other than my fiance while I was drinking!

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am engaged to my best friend. I feel so blessed to have him in my life and I have always been so content being an old married couple with him. However lately I feel like I missed something. I have been with him since I was 19. I really haven't had the chance to date around ... (295 words)

What to do, bring the ring with me when visit her, or wait?

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19 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So I met this girl online, I live in canada she's in the US. Shes been married before and it didnt work out, also in a pretty shitty relationship where the guy turned out to be married. Im a single dad, my daughters 11 and they've met and are fine with each other. We talk a l... (261 words)

What's best for my child's sake? Do I stay or leave?

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19 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i'm in a relationship of 8 years, and in the end we don't sleep with each other, or ever kiss or hug, i dont want to kiss her. I have one child and i think that i'm in it for her, so i can look after her. Our relationship has been dead for years, so should i leave or shoul... (87 words)

What does an inclusive urine pregnancy test mean?

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - what does an inclusive urine pregnancy test mean ? im on day 26 of my cycle and still no period or signs of it. my nipples are brown and brest are sore. can some one help?... (36 words)

How can I finally make a clean break from my secret relationship?

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 years old, and have only really cared about one man my whole life. We worked together and eventually slept together (the first time for me). At first we tried to stay away from each other because we knew it wasn't a good idea to date at work. Eventually, we fell in love ... (166 words)

I'm stringing him along before I end it, is this wrong?

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19 May 2008 (F)

age - I've figured out I am being strung along and I think I will just string him along. I've stopped the sex and have become unpredictable and unavailable. He doesn't seem to like that much. Am I wrong for doing this for a few weeks before I end it? It does make me feel a little... (86 words)

Should I just accept him making new beautiful female friends?

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19 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my Boyfriend for just under 6 months. We are very much in love and are planning on marriage and children. He is a beautiful person and everything I have ever wanted. We have been in a long distance relationship from the beginning and this has added many ... (272 words)

Sex with 67 men in the past, is that high or low in your opinion?

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19 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife had sex with 67 men before me...is that number too high or low for a woman?... (18 words)