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writes:Right, I've just been to see my girlfreind for the first time. she lives about 200 miles away, i really liked her and she really liked me, i came home and cried on the way back. she broke up with me today because we live too far away and we'll only see each other once every month and she doesn't think it'll work. what can i do to get her back without being a doormat?? please help me, i've never loved anyone so much before.
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Hi there,You could arrange with both your parents who can assist you two to be meeting more than once in a month. you could also try saving up for bus tip to her place and vice versa. i can undersand the hopeless situation she's in and she feels that its easier to let go. if the two of you are determined to work out a plan the better. wat is important is if you both love each other and work on a plan B or even C. if it doesn't work then, just relax and if its meant to be it will if its not just don't push it too hard for your own sake. wat is also important is that she realises your efforts. if you the one that makes that effort to go see her once a month, then she should make the same effort so tht you see each other twice a month. if the both of you make double effort, there.. you can meet once every week. but dear if she is not willing just to appreciate the effort you make then just let her go... i think twice a month is not as bad as not at all especially if the two of you are in school. don't worry dear just try talk it over with either of your parents/guardians or both that understands this things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): Hello, long distance relationships can be hard and will take a lot of comitment. Just talk to her and then give her some time to think about things. Stay friends for the time being and see what the future holds. True love never dies remember!
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