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female
age
36-40,
*landestine
writes:Help, anyone, please?Before my bf and I got together, he was wooing his friend, MS. X. She told me that he’s dumping him and he don’t want him. I know she’s still hung up on him coz she flirts with him in front of me. It’s not like Ms. X and I are really close friends. We just happen to be seatmates in class and we seldom talk with each other. Lately, I found out that she’s saying nasty things about me, said that I snatched bf from him and that she should be in my place (as the gf). When bf and I broke up, I found out that he and Ms. X start to text and phone each other again. Bf and I are both working out the relationship and I don’t know if they’re talking/going out, I just can’t tell from Bf.What do I do with Bf? Do I confront Ms. X about it? Do you call that cheating?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (28 May 2008):
Hmm, there are 2 schools of thought in this.
At the moment, all three of you are single, so you two girls both have a shot at getting him.
You could either:
Fight for him. All's fair in love and war. Flirt, be sexy, make him see what he's missing, so what you have to make him pick you.
OR
Tell him that you don't want this other girl and her mind games on the scene. Back off, let her take her shots and hope that your boy realises she's no good and comes back to you for good.
I wouldn't confront Ms X directly as it could very easily lead to hair pulling and screaming.
It's a tricky one and you just have to decide if you want this guy, who may have gone straight to another girl rather than trying to work it out with you, badly enough to put up with it all.
Good Luck!! xx
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