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*inqingy
writes:My boyfriend is breaking up with me, and actually this is not the first time. The fisrt time was one year ago, and we got back after 10 months. He made us back, he only said that he missed me so much and I have the same feeling as him. But we’ve only been in a month, he want to break up me again. He said he like me a lot, but he don’t think this can be love. He’s comparing to his fisrt love, he said that was love, because he’d love to do anything for her, and he think he can’t do the same to me now, at least he’s not totally willing to do. and he don’t think it’s fair for me. It hurts me a lot. I’m feeling crushed. I don’t want to break up, so what I gonna do? I do really wanna be with him.
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reader, NomoreIloveyou  +, writes (8 July 2008):
I'm in the same boat. These answers fit my problem. I wish I knew what to say. I can barely breathe, myself. It kills me that he acted like he loved me so much, and I FELT the love, but then says he sees no future.You're not alone, remember that.
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reader, Qinqingy +, writes (29 May 2008):
Qinqingy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all,
I'll try to over it. yea i should go and stay strong after take a deep breath
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reader, 19agegap +, writes (28 May 2008):
You should go. Do what you want to do. If he comes back, he's yours.
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Hi there,
Have you ever heard the saying "if you love someone, set them free". Your boyfriend i am sorry to say does not see you as a long term partner.
Why would you want to be with someone who says to you that says he cant see himself doing anything for you, in other words cannot give you 100%. When he breaks up with you like this over and over again is soul distroying and it is not fair on you, as he has stated.
The best advice i can give you is to be strong and try to walk away from this relationship, i know this will be very hard for you as you love him so much. I dont think he is the one for you and i think this is what he is trying to tell you.
Sweetheart the is no point is trying to hold onto someone who wants to leave, as they will do it eventually anyhow.
It seems very hard now i know, but in time it will get better. You are hurting at this moment so it will only keep on like this if you persist in trying to hang onto him.
Good luck and try to be strong.
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