New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in May, 2008, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (65), 2 (86), 3 (85), 4 (85), 5 (77), 6 (95), 7 (100), 8 (101), 9 (90), 10 (62),
11 (92), 12 (92), 13 (98), 14 (112), 15 (93), 16 (79), 17 (89), 18 (85), 19 (100), 20 (87),
21 (112), 22 (86), 23 (75), 24 (88), 25 (65), 26 (83), 27 (115), 28 (119), 29 (119), 30 (100),
31 (92),

Archived questions from: 16 May, 2008 (see latest questions)

(More questions from May, 2008)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I am attracted to another woman at work, how can I find out if she is the same way without letting on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old woman, I am attracted to another woman at work. It is a very awkward situation. How can I find out if she is the same way without letting on?... (37 words)

I want to look sexy and appealing for the opposite sex, any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - how can i make myself look so sexy and appiling to the oppsite sex? im a girl that just wants a boyfriend but i have no idea whatsoever as to make me look appealing, can anyone on this website help me?... (41 words)

Will it always be this hard or will it get better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i see all the answers posted on here about the same situation as mine and maybe im looking for trouble asking but want some outside advice.my boyfriend is 14 years older then me and has 3 kids, none of which will go near their dad because he will only visit them if they agree ... (215 words)

Can a relationship make you depressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age - Do you think a relationship can make you depressed? My boyfriend is taking me for granted and it is making me depressed and it is to the point where I am starting to avoid him. It seems like when I make an effort to connect with him, I get shot down and it makes me feel e... (395 words)

What should I do with my parents' rules, because they're straining my relationship with my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - soo... my parents rules since i've moved back in are a lot more tight then what i wanna live by bc they are really putting a strain on my relationship with my gf of over a year.. so i've started looking at appartments and i'm going to get one here pretty soon but i owe my ... (182 words)

He's gone off with this other girl! Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

- Ive been friends with this boy, jon, for 10 years. We went out with each other at the beginning but now we are just good mates. A couple of months back, we talked about getting back together but then things happened in my life which stopped me from doing that so we didnt speak ... (253 words)

How do I even out this body fat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (M) - dear cupid i have the follwing issue with my body. since i strted losing weight, i have recently saw that my left lower side of my stomach has a bit more fat than my right side, i went to the doctors but all he said was theirs nothing to worry about. i would like to know doe... (113 words)

I've never met a guy who's wanted this much sex... and I start doubting myself if he's just using me for sex. Men's opinions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my bf about 2 months ago, and I've noticed that he lovessss to have sex. In the beginning of our relationship, we would have sex atleast 5 times a day, and then it eventually went down to 3 times a day, and at the least twice a day. He treats me veryy well outside the ... (100 words)

Does he still have feelings for me or is he just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Just like some opionions from you all as I'm a bit confused by what is going on. Me and my ex were friends before anything happened between us we finally got together and it was great but he split up with me and went travelling around the world. This was all about 2 year... (263 words)

Am I a horrible person for having lied?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

16 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Am I a horrible person for having lied? My ex broke up with me yesterday. It was because I came clean about some stuff after I had lied to him some other times before. It involved my past. I hid a lot of things about my past. According to most people, my past isn't bad. But m... (316 words)

I want him to make the first move to hold my hand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and me discussed the other day tha i wanted him to make the first move ect..cos he's so shy and it's starting to bug me, according to him he's had loads of gfs so surely he's okay with girls? we have kissed once but we have been seeing each other for about 1 ... (153 words)

Is this leading to infidelity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend had a friends with benifits relationship with a man her senior year of college. They had been friends since high school. After college they went their seperate way, and only "met up" occasionally. Well her so called friend, had a girlfriend, and married her with ... (172 words)

This is PASSION unbound, but I have to contain myself!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age - I'm a dancer and I'm single I help others to learn this style of dance (Ceroc) I have become very accomplished at it and hardly ever sit down because the fact that men are in short demand at any dance venue, good male leads are even rarer ! so I am sort after by lots of women ... (374 words)

I think I'm properly in love with myself!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

16 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I have a problem....it's serious. Don't laugh when I say this cos it might sound a little wierd. I think I'm properly in love with myself. I just can't stop thinking about me. Nobody seems to be anywhere near as good as me and even when I tell myself it can't be possible... (75 words)

I need ideas for flirting with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK i fancy this boy like mad and im not sure if he likes me back yet. Well i have flirted, i have tried everything lol! I needs ideas quick! x... (37 words)

Do these things mean he likes me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked him out a year ago. He’s shy and is in the popular group but is really focused on his studies. He said 2 days later that it was too close to exams but maybe after them thanx for asking. After summer he was showing loads of signs that he was interested. Trust me. He wou... (508 words)

This former friend is taking all my mates away from me! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My questions to do with a relationship but not love, it's a friendship question. Well i have these mates and one in particular was really close with me like we were good mates but all of a sudden she has changed always being mean and really hates me, when i talk to my other... (561 words)

Tell him I like him or keep it at smiles?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy but i'm really spotty and struggle to get guys. This guy is unpopular too and smiles at me when I say hi. Should I tell him or should I just keep it at smiles? I really like him, really really really like him.... (48 words)

Why doesn't he at least show me the respect to call me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been good friends with this guy for 2 years. We were both in other relationships so we were just friends -he was friends with my ex which is how we met.after my ex and i broke up we admitted our feelings for each other - but it was too close to home for me so i asked 4 ... (215 words)

My boyfriend's gone away, and we seem to be not bothered by the fact we are drifting apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6034 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello people, I've never asked for advice on this type of thing before but just needed some unbiased opinions from people, so here goes. My boyfriend of 6 months is in the British army in the Infantry, he has just recently gone to Belize for army training for 6 weeks. He is d... (491 words)

How do I make him see the reason he is single is his bad hygiene??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles, I have a bit of an odd problem. I've been friends with this guy for about 8 years, and I have tried to bring this up to him numerous times in different ways but he won't listen. The problem is, he has given up on women because he thinks he can't get a g... (217 words)

Can anyone give me some advice on employment issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this question isn't strictly relationship advice, but I've had so many helpful people answer my previous questions, I thought someone out there might be able to help me on this one! I am currently working as a barmaid. It's a small, family run business, with m... (229 words)

We are ready for sex. Recommendations?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about different methods of contraception and are thinking about a condom since they're easy to get. I'm just wondering though if intercourse feels better without one-especially semen pouring into my vagina.Any recommen... (46 words)

I've lost interest in my baby's father

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I got a great issue goin on for of all I just had my healthy babyboy born on easter and am very happy about that. To continue I have this ex-boy that I can't let go. Reasons for that is cuz when we did go out I had many friends and lifestyle tellin me not to stay but now ... (933 words)

After marriage is over, how do you start again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How so you start life al over after u go are going through a separation from marriage headin for divorce especialy when u care someone about that person but they dont care much back? :(... (35 words)

The worse it gets, the more I'm in love with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid In March i wrote to you and i got very helpful responses from other members. Last month i was ready to move out and he cried begging me not to move after i found sms's in his phone that he's been sending his so called ex-girlfriend. I am still thinking of moving o... (97 words)

I want him to notice me. I need tips on flirting

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

16 May 2008 (F) age 51-59 - hi, i like a guy and i need some tips on flirting, is it wrong to flirt with one whose got a girlfriend? how do i get him to notice me even if he has someone? and how do i get to win his heart, we work together.... (48 words)

I love my husband but there has never been that spark. Have I missed out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age - I have been married for over 15 years and my children have left home. I married my husband because I got pregnant by accident and because his family were catholic I felt I couldnt get rid of my baby. I lived away from my home town as felt very lonely. Anyway, I married him ... (146 words)

I dated another girl. How can I go back to how it was?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend have known one another for a very long time and were friends for part of this time. A few years back I made a huge mistake, and I can honestly say it was the worst decision on my life. We were talking about our feelings for one another for a while, and in the end, ... (247 words)

He has a girlfriend. I get jealous.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

16 May 2008 (F) age 41-50 - hi, they is this guy that i like so much, well i think i do have a crush on we have talked and also we have gone further even having sex. he told me that he had a girlfriend i told him i dont mind. so we hit it off. these days i like get all jealous when his with her. i told h... (79 words)

It was sex and nothing else, but now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age - Me and a male friend, whom i have known for a couple of years, both have been single, both want someone special but havent been able to find someone. So, we decided to have mutual sex, and on a regular basis. This is a agreed on sex relationship, one day he gets to choose what ... (166 words)

Do I tighten the leash and stop him flirting?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together for a year, I don't know how to explain our relationship but our friends always say they wish they had what we had and we obviously love each other and etc...He's a sweetheart but in the past he's had problems with commitment because he has only ... (567 words)

My boyfriend blames me for everything. Are all men like that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend blamed me when things went wrong for him and wouldn't consider that there were MANY factors well beyond his (or anyone's) control! Is it traditional for men to blame women, and if so is it an indication that he actaully feels very close to me? I try so hard to be ... (108 words)

He's going to marry someone else. I can't stop crying.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

16 May 2008 (?) age 51-59 - Can't stop crying... I'm feeling so low today. I keep thinking about my ex and his girlfriend. I'm thinking about how happy they are, I'm seeing them in bed. They've just come back from holiday, so I'm seeing them holding hands. Kissing, lying together. I know I'm torturi... (109 words)

He doesn't call me like he used to. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been seeing this guy for 4 years, i love him so much, but this days he is gone to drinking and partying and never calls me as frequent as he used to. when i call him and ask him why he says he has no money also he tells me he really loves me but he never says the words ... (160 words)

Emotionally unfaithful and it's hurting my conscience

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Please Help! I'm married with 2 beautiful kids and husband is working abroad. We are quite different in alot of ways. I'm a very affectionate and loving person where he isn't even though I've tried again and again but to no avail. He does look at other women but doesn't let me ... (341 words)

Bumps on my penis! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, Feel a bit embarrassed about asking this but, on my penis skin (not head/bell etc) I have like little bumps, kind of like little spots but there not on the outside its as if they are on the inside with although still attached to the skin, because the move it when ... (111 words)

We have two relationships: drunk and sober. How can I sort it out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy since last July...he is going to be 40 this summer, and I am turning 21. When we met up, he was going through a divorce, and I had just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. We started seeing eachother a few nights a week, went out, and had a ... (273 words)

We took an instant dislike to each other. Now I love him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy two years back. He is 5 years younger than I am. We took an instant dislike to each other as he though I was too proud and I though he was too arrogant. A year back we got to talking to each other and discovered that we share a lot of things in common. We became ... (316 words)

I met someone through online dating and now I don't want to mess it up. Advice please.

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

16 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently met someone through an online dating site and, to my surprise, I really like him. We seem to have lots in common from things that seem trivial to really important things. My problem is that I have had some really bad experiences with men in the past and now ... (163 words)

Sexually explicit emails on his Facebook page. Should I get rid of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - recently found my boyfriends facebook page and found emails he had sent and received from a girl in work. (Very sexually explicit) He has said nothing ever happened and that it was all on Facebook and just for attention. We have an 18month old baby and I was diagnose... (202 words)

Does she want me to see other girls or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl online, and she lived in my area. We met and talked and what not, and I really began to like her, and she felt the same way about me. She had to move a few hours away, but we kept the relationship going. We had never really talked about our past, or anything. ... (345 words)

Should I leave my abusive husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been married to my husband for 4 years and we have a two year old son. I am fed up of my married life as my husband can be verbally abusive towards me and slags off my family, he is also screams, shouts at our son and his idea of disapline in severe. I was prescribed ... (120 words)

I'm confused, am I missing something here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Me a my boyfriend of 4 years have talked about marriage, i wanted to go ahead but he's not so keen. He says he's not in to marriage, what difference is a piece of paper going to make, and that he loves me. Then the other day his friend came around and i noticed he shook... (106 words)

I am a changed person. How can I convince her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I am in the military and on deployment right now. i cheated and hurt my fiancee worse then i can imagine, she ended up moving back home before i went on deployment and we didnt talk for almost a month. i ended up going home and spending every minute with each other just talking ... (350 words)

My paranoia is ruining my relationship. What can I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i wondered if someone can help me.i feel as im now going insane i have been with my boyfriend now for 8 years (on and off) and at ever since this year i have been going through a major paranoia frenzy. me and my bf meet at 14 and it was young.well basically we both werent a... (773 words)

I checked the condom and there was no split - so why the white stuff?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - The other day me and my girlfriend were having sex, after we finished we noticed this white stuff around and in her vagina area. I checked the condom and there was no split in it or not one i could find at least. d Does anyone know what this could be?? ... (52 words)

No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go to sleep. Well when we w... (545 words)

Is it normal to bleed after fingering? I'm still a virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok...Im a virgin and haven't really done anything...But recently I have let my b/f finger me, however when he's done and i go to the bathroom or i notice that i've been bleeding. There's no weird odors and i haven't felt pain or discomfort of any kind, it's just after ever... (79 words)

We're both too shy to ask the other out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this boy and I'm pretty sure he likes me. However we're both to shy to ask the other out. What should I do?... (25 words)

I'm in a hole and can't see which way to go!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age - Morning everyone. Can you give me your thoughts please. I'm in a hole and can't see which way to go. My husband is in a job where he works very long hours. He always did ever since I met him, so nothings changed there. But before, he worked very close to home - thats how ... (578 words)

Does he love me or am I trying to make this seem like love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was messing with LMR for 3 yrs. Then one day he goes overseas for his job. I haven't heard from him in a year. Then one day i receive a call from overseas and LMR tells me that he has been looking for me the whole time he had been overseas, and he was just able to catch up 2 ... (166 words)

He says he loves me, I believe him, but the moment he's gone I ask myself lots of questions,

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my boyfriend January this year, he told me that he does not have a girlfriend, and i did not believe him because all man say that. Later my friend told me that he has girlfriend, a long time one, that did not bother me much... until he told me he wants us to start a fami... (180 words)

My friend likes a 30 year old... am I blind or is this not wrong?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and my friend is 16. We met this guy through an online game, he's 30 years old. I was the one that introduced him to her, little did I no that it would ever result in some sort of gross relationship. First of all, my friend is the most sensible person I have ever ... (285 words)

Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I can get over him fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been Five months since my boyfriend and I broke up. Well we didn't break up...he decided not to call me and ditch me so he could get back with his ex(who insidently left him for his best friend). I haven't seen him since last november and I thought I was doing fine. I thou... (205 words)

Should I tell him that I want him to be my first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've been bestfriends with a guy for a year now. He'd always liked me and I wasn't sure. We just started dating a few months ago and I was in love with him before I even went out with him. He is just an amazing guy. I could never picture myself without him. I know this... (166 words)

Is daily vaginal discharge normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I guess this is more of a question for the ladies. I've had a yeast infections before, and I don't think I have one now, so is it normal to have vaginal discharge daily? I would like to know since it's not very pleasant during sex of any kind because of the smell. I've hear... (70 words)

Please help me gain my confidence back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - For five months I had been seeing a girl only to find out from a mutual friend that she had a boyfriend the entire time, which she hid from me. Because of this my confidence with girls has been hurt greatly. I know I need to meet some one new, but I have no confidence anym... (72 words)

I accidentally started a new birth control pill pack! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Oh no! I was supposed to take the last off day pill, but I accidentally started a new birth control pill pack! What do I do?... (26 words)

Men, did you ever pressure a girl into sex when you were in your teens?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age - This question is for the older male uncles and visitors here. When you were in your teens, did you pressure any girls for sex or sexual activity? And if so, how do you feel about that now? Do you regret it or was it just part of growing up? Thanks in advance for your ans... (91 words)

It's been two weeks since I heard from him... I'm confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently started dating a guy 2 months ago. We immediately hit it off and started spending a lot of time together. About 2 in a half weeks ago, he ended up moving out of the state back to his parents house since his brother had been murdered about 7 months ago. When he got to ... (134 words)

I'm Nobody's child... I don't fit in.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically, I have four friends and we call ourselves 'sisters'. However I feel I don't fit in. They are popular, etc etc. And more or less I admit I made friends with them for status purpose. But you need that popularity in my school to sorta survive. Now there's this girl in ... (152 words)

I want to give her a good romantic time but I can't get it up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi im 22 i can get any girl i want i've been with more than 8 girls i did every thing with them but sex, i just get so nervous when it comes to sex most of the time i get orgasm during the oral sex and it last for a minute, or some times i cant just get it up becasue i get ... (126 words)

How do you train a man to be more respectful towards women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

- How do you train a man to be more respectful towards women? My b/f of 3 yrs. blows hot and cold constantly. One minute he's all, 'ooh baby you're the best thing that ever happened to me...' and the next minute he's yelling at me over something trivial, calling me all kinds of ... (106 words)

I'd like to go out with her but I'm afraid what people will think!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey I have a question concerning one of my friends. WE have known each other for quite some time. but just recently have become interested in each other. Like at the moment we are just friends with benefits. But she wants to go out with me. i'd love to go out with her. But ... (149 words)

Is he crossing the line?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Alright try to make this short, been with my bf for a year and I have an issue with some flirting I found out he was doing. First off I know he flirts, as long as he doesn't do anything I don't care, he's coming home with me anyways haha. Oh a couple days ago we had this ... (306 words)

I need immediate help.. please! I'm being blackmailed!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need immediate help, please. Before I explain my situation, I just want the people to know that I'm not really.. 'this' kind of a person. I don't know why I acted this way, and now I'm paying the price for my stupidity. I've always been independant and none too trusting... (625 words)

Odd rash, should I see a doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15(16 next month) and a virgin but a few days ago I noticed--umm, I'm not exactly sure what it is... like, red and white bumps/rash/or whatever located on the outer lips of my vagina. it is extremely itchy and I am worried about what it could be. my boyfriend has fingered ... (91 words)

What are the rules of cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was just thinking... what are the "rules of cheating" or what would be considered cheating?... (17 words)

Twistedly confused... I understand him but want to keep my reputation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I just recently became good friends with a former acquaintance at my school and we have been inseperable ever since. After knowing him for a few weeks, I began to realise he is attracted to men (i'm not sure if he's gay, or just bi... Every time i ask he doesn't deny it, he ... (159 words)

He told me he was clean, but I cannot believe him because of his actions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been with my fiance for 2 and half years, and im feeling very confused at the moment when I first met hime he told me about his past that he used to take herion, but assured me he was clean. He has now found out he has bipolar we are always arguring adn I can not ... (204 words)

I need help with getting her to open up more to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm referring to my girlfriend. Her and I have been going out for a while now (half a year or so) and she hasn't really opened up too much to me yet. I've done my fair share of talking, so I don't get why she isn't talking. Please help!... (49 words)

I gave my virginity to him. How should I take revenge on him?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm single and fell in love with a married guy. He is 10 years older than me. His wife was pregnant and got a baby daughter on my b'day. I gave my virginity to him, but after he got his wife back in his bed. He started acting weird, like ignoring and not ready to listen to my ... (137 words)

He tries to act all macho, but if I tell him I love him - he cries!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I get my husband to be more intimate in bed? I know he loves me very much, we have been married for six months and we have sex every night. The sex is good and all but he is killing me, it's like wamb bamb thank you mam! I want eye contact! It is extremly hard for him ... (118 words)

It hurts to the point where it impedes me from completing the orgasm. Please tell me why.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - When I have penetration, I rub my clitoris so I can at least feel some kind of pleasure, because if not then I don't feel a thing. Anyway, when I am cumming close to having an clitoral orgasms, I feel my vaginal muscles contract--like my vagina is tightening around the peni... (94 words)

How will I know if he's an abuser or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

- There are some things about this new guy I met which make me think maybe they are huge red warning signs for me to back off. I know he likes me alot, but the thing is, I feel like he's too forward and likes me too much, considering we only just met. He asked me out on a date... (314 words)

Am I a whore for liking so many guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

16 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - am I a whoRe because I like so many guys i.e. 2-6 I just can't decide between them I know which ones I like more but it does really change much some I think are cute some I really like but its hard to choose which one to go for?... (51 words)

I'm getting married soon but I'm still in love with my ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

16 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm getting married soon but I'm still in love with my ex. I'm twenty years old with a good job and two kids. I met my fiance about a year ago when I was on vacation in the Bahamas. Sparks flew instantly and now we're getting married. We've decided to have the wedding in my ... (651 words)

Please Ladies or anyone tell me does she have mental disorders or insecurity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

16 May 2008 (M)

age - I am feeling really confused whether to carry on or end my relationship of 2 years. I love my girlfriend and she says she loves me but she has severe mood swings and she has sent me home from her house twice simply over minor issues. She then waits aweek and phones to a... (187 words)