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writes:it's my first time giving oral how do i make it good for my boyfriend without making it obvious that it's my first time...any tips thanks xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): actually not only should you use one hand and your mouth, most guys like it when you play with their balls with your free hand as you give him head...
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reader, a-g55 +, writes (28 May 2008):
 You could make believe that u are the queen of blowjobs. if ya think about it. when a man is having intercourse with u the penis is being pleasured there by just going up and down slowly and quickly and round and hard and soft u get the picture. we all agree with that. all u got to do is simulate that with your mouth. but u have the disadvantage that u dont have vaginal walls in ure mouth so like the advice giver above me said use ure hands aswell. u might want to make a semi firm grip towards the bottom of the penis to avoid any unwanted explosions. but the art is anticipation, teasing, sensitivity and variance. im not gay and i am not sayin i know how to give a perfect blow job but u can simplify it by breaking it down to what you know is true already. like i mentioned about the vagina.now u might want to put ure neck into it a bit. make ure motion more intense. then lay of a bit and be more gentle and use ure tounge around the head then go for it again and maybe stop completely and ask him "how did u like that" in a cheeky teasy way so he thinks its over. builds up expectation. use ure mind! and never take blow job advice from a male ever again lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): Well first of all let him know that it's your first time. I'm sure he'll be honoured that you have decided to do this for him and he'll really appreciate it.
It will also take less pressure off you.
Don't take him in deeply as it is your first time, otherwise you will probably gag (Don't worry if you really don't want to tell him it's your first time. He won't think "This is such a beginner thing." He'll just think that it's your technique). Concentrate on his head as this has more nerve endings than the rest. Use a hand or two aswel so that his whole penis is simulated. It will make it easier for you whilst being great for him. Take it slow at first until you get used to it.
Good Luck.
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