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writes: Hey guys help needed!I need last minute confidence on giving my lap dance. i'm planning on giving him one tomorrow night! i just know i'll feel silly, as though i'm acting sexy but he's just thinking i'm totally not sexy, or just over-doing it.really in need of confidence, and any tips you have too. thank you all so much! once again, you have all saved my life in advance! lol =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): just want to chirp in here: this is very thoughtful i think its very sweet: im sure he will appreciate whatever you do. as you are 16/17, watch a few videos of stripper movies (like, i dunno...striptease?) and practice a bit.
also dont be disapointed if he doesnt react the way you think he will. there could be a shock factor or w/e so you may not feel him getting hard but he will like it no matter how you read his reaction...trust me..
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reader, a-g55  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 I am the perfect person for this! Now a lap dance is all about showing him what you would be doing if you both had no cloths on. and when u dirty dance in a club you do similar. You have been blessed with a vagina, nice legs, nice bottom and breast and a pretty face. With your legs you want to squeeze around him occasionally, with your bum you want to rub it against his cock lightly with your back facing him then change to your front where you pretend your having intercourse lightly then you go really near to his face like your going to kiss him and make him think that you are so he tries to kiss you and when he does you want to stand up and brush your breasts up and down his face teasing him. Now you take off your bra and do a little more of these moves and then what you want to do is walk around him once and take his hand and lead him to a place where you can seduce him but tease him as much as possible. Now when on a bed you must continue dancing and grinding and rubbing whilst slowly taking his cloths off. When your naked you still want to be grinding but not letting him penetrate until you physically make him. You have to be in control. You cant let him touch you with his hands remember. If he does say no and put his hands away. Your doing absolutely everything to him whilst he sits there and watches and does whatever you let him. You always want to be teasing him with your lips. Nearly kissing him and you also need to do oral in this kind of sensitive teasing way. Now after you have finished those bits and you want knuckle down to business you say “ did you enjoy that” when he says yes .. You say “ now you can do to me what you want”HEY PRESTO Aftermath. You now have ultimate seduction control over your man in the future and it will be like he is under your spell.You need to add your own sexy swagger to it and some smooth music to set the scene.Now I have just told you the perfect lap dance that will be a pleasure for you both but you can add and take away anything you like so long as he is being teased and seduced and he is in full anticipation the whole time. !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): Girl just go 4 it.Ways 2 know if he is enjoying it:he'll make sounds that makes u feel good,he might lick his lips, or sit on his lap and c if u feel "it" poking out his pants.Or either he might just say he is enjoying it.Good luck!Play "Take You Down" by Chris Brown, while giving him a lap dance!Dont b afraid 2 kiss him during the lap dance!GOOOOOOOOOO GURRRRRRRRRRRRRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOVEEEEEEEEEEE yOUUUUUUUUUU
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): Girl just go 4 it.Ways 2 know if he is enjoying it:he'll make sounds that makes u feel good,he might lick his lips, or sit on his lap and c if u feel "it" poking out his pants.Or either he might just say he is enjoying it.Good luck!Play "Take You Down" by Chris Brown, while giving him a lap dance!Dont b afraid 2 kiss him during the lap dance!GOOOOOOOOOO GURRRRRRRRRRRRRL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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