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writes:Hey all.Ok, this is something that has been praying on my mind over the past month or so, and not being one to tell people what I'm thinking I thought I'd bash it out here to get a general opinion.Ok, so well I'm 20, and have been seeing a girl at Uni for around 3 months now, its not particularly serious and both of us would probably say to our friends its not a relationship, as she is moving away soon, she's alos not long been broken up with a boyfriend of many years. However, we spend a lot of time together, and I do really think about her a lot. I want to tell her what I'm feeling and thinking but I'm rather worried that it will scare her off ... she puts up an amazing facade to others of not being bothered but when we're together its amazing. My dilemma is thus, do I say something before she goes away for around 6 months to law school, or do I just leave it and see what happens ...L2B Reply to this Question
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Yeh, tell her how you feel. she probably MAY feel the same. she could be telling other people that you are just friends becoz the 2 of you have had that agreement. Your the man!! dude tell her she'll understand.. better say it before its too late...
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 This sounds like one of those things you will regret if you don't do it.
You're only concentrating on the negative outcome - it may well come to pass that she feels the same way. And if it doesn't, then at least you know.
I'd advise you to tell her before she goes, because a lot can happen in six months. Tell her now, and that way you will know for sure, instead of having to wonder 'what if?'.
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