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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I have to tell my parents right away about our marriage plans?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfreind whats to marry me, he wants to have a long engagment. Im totaly up for it and we are perfect with eachother I just wondering I dont have to tell my parents straight away do i? ... (39 words)

I don't even know if I can trust guys anymore..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do guys change their minds so quickly???? I had a very serious 7 month relationship (albeit long distance but incredibly intense) with the most wonderful and reliable guy. Even though we had been together for such a short period of time, it was almost unspokely implie... (243 words)

I feel like I'm sexually frustrated! Please help me get back to normal!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Can you help? I've been without sex for over a year now, and it's starting to make me quite frustrated. I don't know why that is, but it has started to affect my mood. Today I was quite grumpy, and the only conclusion I could find was that it has been so long since I last had ... (141 words)

How long does it take before the chlamydia takes effect and makes her infertile?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have a friend who might have chlamydia. She doesn't want to tell her mom so she can get treated. How long does it take before the chlamydia takes effect and makes her infertile?... (35 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want to make out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend isnt interested in making out. i feel like im pulling teeth. he always has some excuse. we dont even kiss unless i steal one from him. hes interested in other stuff, it makes me mad but he has stated that he isnt a affectionate nor romantic person. should i settle ... (86 words)

Help me please- beat up my mate and dumped gf because they slept together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - help me please, my girlfried has told me that see has slept with my best friend. ive beatin the hell out of my mate and dumped my girl friend. now i regret doing them both. what should i do?vplease help me.... (41 words)

My dad beat me....im worried my bf might do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i have a question that invloves any guy that i know! when i was 13 my dad beat me physcically and mentally and always lied cheated on my mom! i really believe that ever since then i cant trust a guy because i believe that the guys i hang out with might do it like ... (198 words)

How do I attract her when I have only one or two weeks to do it?

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8 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Every Christmas my mom and I visit this women's family in the states(They grew up together) . There’s this cute girl that I like but I rarely ever talked to her on any of my visits. How do I attract her without her consciously knowing? I really like her but I don't want to ... (76 words)

What sort of women do men really like? Real? Or fake dolls with fake breasts, fake nails, fake hair...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Ok, I know this topic gets old fast, and that I'll probably hear the same answers that are usually given, but let's have a try and I truly do expect honesty... PLEASE... It's always said men prefer natural beauty, natural looking women. But if that were the case, wouldn't e... (351 words)

When he hears your voice and instantly turns, is he interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - when a guy hears your voice and he instantly turns around does that mean he is interested?... (17 words)

I tend to go for older men, but he is so much older...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 17, nearly 18. I have a tendency to go for older men, Normally about 24,25. But in this case i like someone who is much older! He's 59. Im not normally attracted to men this age but he is a huge expection! I see him everyday, at a sports club where i also go. He's always ... (148 words)

I have no libido after breaking up. Does anyone else feel like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my gf there a few months ago after a long period of not being sure about whether I wanted to continue the relationship and going on 'breaks'. It was really tough cos she was my first and only proper long term gf and she was also my best friend and when I lost h... (194 words)

He wants to be free. I don't understand what I did or how to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, im 19 been with this guy since i was 17 and he is my 1st love, my heart is breaking at the moment as he has decided randomly that we fight too much and he is better off without me. He just wants to be the happy care free person he was before he met me, when we split we were... (218 words)

I discovered my husband enjoys porn. Now I'm going off sex. How can I rebuild it?

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8 May 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Okay. So, after I discovered my hubby enjoys watching internet porn, a little too much, I have not felt sexy...at all. I have accepted my hubby's hobby, because it's just who he is, so that isn't my concern as much as my scarred sex ego. Im only 25, and have been told ... (117 words)

What's a slag?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Whats a slag? ive been called it by some girls and boys at school.... (14 words)

He only has to touch me and I feel I've had an orgasm

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really horney all the time. Im 14 and I have a boyfriend and When he hugs me or even touches me , I feel like ive had an orgasm and I always gasp and He doesnt know whats going on. We have done stuff but nothing as far as sex but Im hormones are too Active. Is this Normal... (68 words)

I'm scared the boy I like might have said something unpleasant about me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this boy who i really like and he is freinds with this boy who is in my i.t class. he knows i like his freind and he said(to the boy i like) "oh yeah,i told him you really fancie him and he said Never" and then after that he got distracted by this girl that wanted his ... (95 words)

I know we could have a future but she says only as friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Before Christmas me and this girl got together. We had known of each other for years and used to see each other on public transport but never knew each other liked each other. Fast forward 7 years and I have come out of a long relationship and am not looking for anything... (599 words)

Suggestions about new positions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i love being on top and missonary just as much as everyone else... but could someone please give me new postions that will keep me on my toes?!??!??!... (30 words)

We have agreed to take it easy but it's hard when we are together so much. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been single for 3 years now and up until now, I had no desire to change that. For the past 4 months I have been hanging out with this guy that I dated 15 years ago, we haven't kissed or even held hands but, have discussed somewhat, what's going on between us. We'v... (100 words)

I'm worried boys will be put off by my ginger hair...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im a ginger girl, 16. whenever i go out to town and places and meet boys im always worried that boys will be put off by my ginger hair. I don't know if its just me being wierd or weather boys don't actually like ginger hair. What do you think? :)... (56 words)

Anybody give me any tips on how to back off with the flirting etc without seeming like I'm going cold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I started a new job about six months ago and its great. I get on really well with everybody but there is one girl in particular who I've got close to really quickly. We flirt quite a lot at work, and we text each other quite often outside of work, a few people at work have ... (270 words)

I want him in my life, I couldnt bare it if I never heard from him again

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im not really gd at explaining myself but il try. This guy who i completely think the world of has gone all distant on me. we clicked str8 away.. we met up for about 6 months..we got intimate..we were so close now its changed. He says he hasnt got the time or the head... (301 words)

What does "Be Yourself" really mean?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age - Can anyone really define "BE YOURSELF" properly, so we all know what it means? People use this expression all the time, yet it does not parse in an intelligible way. If I were to "be myself", I would never leave my land, and spend most of my life just working on my projects. ... (83 words)

I told her I won't wait. Should I really walk away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. Just a quick one after your views. Had a deep passionate emotional sexual affair with a women who was in a relationship with a man she feels no spark, attraction for, lasted a year and a half. She does however love him and he is like her best friend. It broke down as ... (405 words)

Page 3 model on his phone. What next? Heaps of porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were out with his friends the other day, and my boyfriend wanted to show us something on his phone. When he flipped the phone open, there was a picture of a page 3 model which he told us he is using as a screensaver. My boyfriend looked sheepish, ... (369 words)

I don't trust him Am I going paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey my boyfriend has had a very bad past. he has had a lot of girls that slept with him and co he was a bit of a player. he was really tempted to luk at girls n touch them and he was a real flirt. ive bin 4 him 4 3 years now and he says that he has changed and i believe that ... (267 words)

In love, but the sex isn't right

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in an amzing relationship and have been for several years children marriage and all...There is absolutly nothing missing I'm blessed Loved in Love...But Sex is not what it should be has my partner does not last more then a few minutes...I Love him to much to say anything so ... (67 words)

Near perfect marriage and then she says she doesn't love me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age - Ok..long story..I,m 51 yrs and my wife is 41yrs. We both were married to other people. Her ex cheated on her causing a strain on there relationship. We meet thur mutual friends and started seeing each other. I was in the process of an divorce as well. WE hit it wonderfully and ... (567 words)

What's the best first-time sex position?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - what is the best sex possition for first time sex and what gives the most pleasure? what is the best things to do before inserting my penis into my girlfriends virgina?... (31 words)

Invited to the reception but not the wedding. How rude.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I got an invitation to my cousin's wedding reception, but not her to actual wedding. She didn't go to my wedding or reception last August. I don't want to go to her reception, she's a spoiled little snob, and she treats ppl. like crap. My mom got a wedding and reception ... (156 words)

They told me I had an infection but the tests were clear. Is this possible?

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8 May 2008 (F)

- This is soooo bizarre and ive been going out of mind wiv worry today. Basically, I went to the sex clinic on Friday to get tested for STI's. I have only had 1 sexual partner (my ex) in the last year and before him I had got tested and was all clear. Recently I noticed I was ... (457 words)

Advice, please, before we have sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Me and my girlfriend have been discussing sex and we are probably going to have sex soonish, like within the next few months. She has two issues though: Firstly she has heard all the shock stories like it hurts sooo much. Can anyone confirm this or tell other... (138 words)

I'm in luv but I don't know if he is gay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in skool and im like in luv with this boy in my 1st and second period classes. I dnt kno if hes gay or not. And tha twist is he has a girl friend. But at tha same time he always flirts with me. Like yesterday he wanted me to smell his calone that he got from victoria ... (112 words)

I want to find out his birthday so I can surprise him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm trying to find out someone's birthday! Are there any free birth data websites? I really need to know it so I can surprise him but I don't want him to know that I know... if that makes sense! ... (44 words)

Help me with subtle flirting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone have any good advice on flirting, it needs to be quite suttle tho. Thanks... (20 words)

Sex life with my babies father is gettin dull and boring-any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I am 31 yearold with2 chilldren and it seems like my sex life with my babies father is gettin dull and boreing aand sex with him is something worth not waiting for what can I do to spice up our sex life.? I also have cerebullar degeneration it is nuerological con... (74 words)

Should I be worried that he could of said something to hurt me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6016 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this boy who i like who catches the bus as this boy (and my freinds) this boy is in my art class and he knows i like him and he said he told the boy who i like that i like him.he said to me in art today "yeah i told him you like him and he said never" rhen the teacher ... (100 words)

How do I handle this? Is he moving on or is there a way I can win him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex 8 months ago after being together 5 years. We were agreed to move in, save for a house, and discuss wedding and kids. HE initiated all of this, and I agreed to it. Over a year ago he was involved in a serious accident that left him jobless but he w... (285 words)

My husband had an affair but seems to show little remorse!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband had an affair but seems to show little remorse. He says according to Darwins theory he is just an alpha male and i should be glad to be with him, and he will continue to sleep with as many women as he can. I do love him but i find his attitude strange. He was brou... (71 words)

29 and I cant ejaculate, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - well i am 29 years old, and i cant ejaculate. i feel like i am about to but then the feeling goes away. during sex, or even oral sex. it just gets numb feeling or i run out of breath. i also take anti depression pills. but i have ejaculated about 5 or 6 times before within the ... (73 words)

How to get over a partner where you have children together ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F) - Hi Im just wondering if anyone has any tips on how to get over a partner where you have children together and so have to see them at handover times and have to listen to news and stories about him and be enthusiatic to the children. My ex has gone back to a childhood sweetheart ... (97 words)

I'm nearly 18 and have a tendency to go for older men but he's 59?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

Young and not sure I want to commit yet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have dated only one guy for my entire high school career. I love him so much. There isn't really as much of a spark anymore, but we still think of each other in a romantic way and we know each other better than anyone else in the world. It's a more quiet kind of love. Which ... (286 words)

Have any anemic people (you or someone you know) experienced the same symptoms and gotten no where with a doctor?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I understand that you're not doctors (or may not be!) but I'd apprecitate any advice. A few weeks ago, I started craving ice real bad. I didn't think it could be pregnancy because I had not long finished my period so at first I thought nothing much of it. Then I decided t... (248 words)

Does he really not have feelings for me or just doesn't want to admit it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey!! ok i just want to know what you think of this, for the first time in my life i feel in love with a lad on my course. We are kinda friends but not good friends but all of us as a group han around together so i spend a lot of time with him. Over the past 6 months i ... (678 words)

I still want to be with her, even though I have come along way in "getting over" her!

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8 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me just over 10 weeks ago. I asked her out a couple of weeks after the breakup and she said no because she thought it would be awkward and she wasnt ready. Since then we have spoke on maybe 1 or 2 occasions when she has contacted me, I havent ... (238 words)

Is it just pillow talk or does my wife really want a threesome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age - Hello Over the past few months whenever my wife and i have sex she like to talk about other men, mainly friends of ours. The more she does it, the more it turns me on. she says i perfore better. I have always had a fantesy about seeing her with someone. can it work... (79 words)

Used to been with my boyfriend I've never thought I could feel this way about anyone else but I do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years but lately we have'nt been the same and i don't no if i love him anymore, i really like someone else and i think he liked me but now im not so sure has he has'nt been the same with me lately and i really miss him, like i ... (144 words)

She broke my heart , took it back and now another guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok heres the deal I have been dating a young lady for 1 year now. We have always been friends.last year we grew closer and became best friends and then of course decided to pursue a relationship. The love between us has been so amazing! We broke up twice and in Jan was the last ... (317 words)

I feel I'm being isolated from people at college

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am in a bit of a situation that is upsetting me.I go to college and before I went there I didnt know anyone.On the first day I was sat by myself so on the second day I decided to go over and chat to another girl who was by herself. We got chatting at lunchtime and wh... (433 words)

I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'd been using his ebay account... (988 words)

Has anyone else experienced a rekindling of feelings for an ex from the distant past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age - Many years ago, back in high school, I dated a wonderful woman whom I was deeply in love with. For various reasons, we broke up but I never forgot her. After high school I saw her a few times but was never able to reconnect with her. I have thought of her often over the years ... (406 words)

I can't really feel him when we have sex what could the problem be?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so ive been dating this guy for a while and we recently had sex, twice. both times i was on top and both times didnt last to long. ive only slept with three people now (inlcuding him) and i usally love sex but i couldnt really feel him.... he's not "small" but his male ... (74 words)

She doesn't want to break-up but wants to experience "Single Life"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My partner and I are both deeply in love with one another. We have known each other now for 5 years, and are very serious with one another. She has told me that she would like to marry me, and spend her life with me. I would like the same. However, the problem is, that she ... (296 words)

What do most women feel bout men going to strip clubs?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been in a relationship for 6 years and am now living with him. Last year he went travelling for a month in Europe and by accident i found a diary from when he was away saying that he'd been to a strip club and had two lap dances. One with one girl and then another with two ... (201 words)

Why doesn't he care? is it just me, making something out of nothing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance just doesn't care about my feelings. His brother and wife don't like me becoz i don't wear name brand clothing (that's exactly what was said)and now they ignore me when we are family functions and when i ask my fiance why does he not stand up for me, he gets angry ... (474 words)

My boyfriend's lack of parenting skills is driving us apart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf's lack of parenting skills is driving us apart! I talked to him about some other issues we were having - and that went well but yesterday again his kids were there at his house ( they are there 2 days a week and every other weekend) I had gone for groceries and he... (647 words)

I'm newly married, but still have feelings for my boss.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married to a guy i met last November, but before then i was having an affair with my boss. The problem now is that i enjoy my bosses love making more than my husband even though we have done nothing since i got married. I get jealous when i see him with other girls. I ... (87 words)

Two years...and he still hasn't introduced me to his family!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I have a relationship problem. My boyfriend is 12 years older than me. He is currently working and i am still in Varsity. The problem is, he was married and has a child from a previous relationship. He doesn't call or give me any attention but insists that he loves me... (102 words)

I'm feeling jealous and insecure, and it's wrecking our relationship, can you help, please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 41 years old, single, with four children under the age of 14. I have been seeing a wonderful man for the past twelve months. He is caring gets on great with my kids as I do his. We have a great time together and are a great team. The one problem I have is when we arou... (119 words)

It's so hard to work with someone I love without showing my feelings!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age - I work with a married co-worker who flirts with me constantly. The thing is he has flirted with me for so long that I now have feelings for him. I know He has feelings for Me too. I know it's wrong. The thing is I can't quit my job. It is hard to work with someone you love with... (73 words)

Should I be worried about the girls he chats to on the pc or should I just brush it under the carpet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, any suggestions or help would be gratefully appreciated. My partner and I have been together for 3 yrs and had a baby son 4 mths ago. We've had our ups and downs as most couples do, mainly to do with money as we own a house together and its very costly with a new baby in ... (185 words)

My weight problem is getting me so down - I wont even leave my house!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 17 year old girl, and weigh 8 stone 5 pounds. When i was 12 i weighed 15 stone and i myself admit i was overweight. After the passing of my grandad i lost weight dramaticly, i couldn't cope, and went down to the size i am now. I feel very fat and uncomftable with my ... (131 words)

Should I tell my husband about a fling I had?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, well my situation is, i was wondering should i tell my husband about a fling i had. (Sorry this is a bit long) We hit a very rough patch in our marriage at the time. My husband left me for three months, no reason given, i was devastated and cried for most of this... (404 words)

Will he feel hurt if I don't tell my parents about our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

- Do most teenagers tell their parents about their love life? I've never felt the need to tell mine, partly because they never ask and partly because it's just not the kinda thing we all talk about. The main reason though is that they would act weird. I am 17, but even if I bri... (167 words)

I understand he is upset that I up and left, but I was going through some things that he should understand.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend of seven years were living together, once again finally, he got clean and sober and I was having difficulties, I moved in with him and got clean for two months. I was having nightmares, trouble sleeping, and one morning I just up and left in my car with no m... (135 words)

She's uncomfortable being affectionate in public, she says. What can I do to make her feel comfortable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I just started seeing this girl who is kinda shy and on our first date i was her first kiss. At school however, she is strongly against p.d.a.(which i agree) and told me she's uncomfortable being affectionate in public. She says she doesn't like being touched and is ... (76 words)

How to make our parents trust us, as I feel we are really responsible and play safe?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

8 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Hello, I have a big problem and this seems the right place to get some advice. Well my boyfriend's brother has got his girlfriend pregnant and now his mum is trying to keep my boyfriend from staying around mine. I respect her views because being pregnant at my age would be... (147 words)

I can't make small talk when introduced to a new group of people. How can I find my voice and use it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i have a serious problem i'm shy beyond belief. I've always been this way. At school i used to blush intensly, so much so after any encounter where i had to speak my face felt like it was burning up. In small groups of friends i was o.k but still not the most talkative. I... (188 words)

She dumps her boyfriends because she gets bored. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

8 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Since i said before that i like her a lot, i told her about my feelings and she replied to me that she doesn't have any feelings for me and she takes me as her best friend. If she had any feeling for me it would have been in the start of our realtionship. she says that she had ... (198 words)

Should I stop seeing him or take him as a friend?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have known this guys for over 6years, work in the same place and we make love anytime we meet i cant resist him. When i have a problem or stress he is always ready to help me and give me suport. My problem is that he has never told me that he loves but he shows he cares and ... (124 words)

I am very pale and want a new foundation, so my boyfriend can notice how nice my make up is... any ideas?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im not sure if this is the place for this question.... It starts off a bit weird but then i explain myself. I am very pale and want a new foundation. I can't find one anywhere, that dosnt have an orange tint. i dont want to look gothicy i just want a nice pale foundation f... (216 words)

I'm constantly tired .......help?

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8 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm always really tired, and i've been to the doctor about it but he basically didn't help. I had a blood test to test for anaemia because i'm pretty pale and faint a lot, but my blood didn't show signs of that type of problem. But it's getting me down because i'm ALWAYS t... (80 words)

Can marriages actually improve after an affair? Or am I just kidding myself?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner 8 yrs, married 2. I discovered he was having an affair about 6 mths ago - at which point he ended it with the OW (he'd seen her on and off for 1 year). I know their connection was emotional as well as sexual - which hurts me deeply. I also feel tha... (176 words)

My girlfriend is overwhelmed by life and is unsure of my love for her! What's best here, space?

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8 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My g/f seems unsure of my love for her. Shes overwhelmed by life overall and me, and needs space(but not breaking up). What would be my best bet here? I don't want to give her too much time, I'm afraid that may lead her to think I really don't love her. ... (51 words)

How does someone increase their libido?

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8 May 2008 (M)

- Do people have a certain amount of control over their own sex drives/libidos?? Or is it something that is just the way it is? If you lead a healthy life are you more likely to have a healthy sex drive to match? If someone has a low sex drive would quitting smoking, mo... (69 words)

Is my boyfriend just using an "upgraded excuse" by saying he has a low sexual libido?

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8 May 2008 (M)

- After a few years together and quite a while of sexual frustration my boyfriend tells me he just isn't much of a sexual person. Is this a cop out? If this is true why didn't he just say this before instead of saying he ddn't know why or that it was tiredness or not enough ti... (73 words)

How do I approach him about getting a relationship started?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so there is this guy and i really like him and we have dated before and we were so perfect together and then just one day it all fell apart i really dont know what went wrong to make our relationship come to an end. We were like best friends before we dated and after we ... (155 words)

He's only been in a relationship for a month and we are flirting. Should I express my feelings now?

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8 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay so I'm a bit lost with this situation I'm in so maybe someone might be able to enlighten me a bit. I've been flirting with this guy for a couple of weeks now and the flirting has occured back and forth from both sides, we've been recently making out daily and he keeps ... (160 words)

He wants to "cut back" on seeing me, any ideas on how I can cope?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my bf 19 months now and things have been great but all of a sudden afta spending about 4 days a week together it dropped to once because of his uni work load, so we talked about it and decided that once a week is good if thats all he can handle. it has been 3 ... (210 words)

Now he has a girlfriend and wants to be with me and I have a boyfriend and want to be with him!

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i need desperate help, i dont know what to do.. i am in love with boy we've dated 3 years on and off. The problem is last month i broke up with him because i needed time i think, i was so confused i didn't know if i really loved him. So i went on with another boy to make ... (109 words)

I am having trouble meeting my husband's sexual needs. Any suggestions to make him want me?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I can not seem to satisfy my husbands sexual needs, I am tired with work and kids etc. Trying to take care of myself to feel better about myself-which is starting to work. But I have no imagination for new ideas and am uncomfortable to initiate (always seems like the wrong ... (93 words)

Has anyone gotten divorced due to fighting, arguing, or losing love for the person?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Has anyone gotten divorced due to fighting, arguing, or losing love for the person? I am divorcing due to that, no infidelity, no spousal abuse and i'm dealing with guilt cause i dont feel its justifiable. We lived as room-mates at the end and i could not live like that any... (54 words)

He treated me MUCH BETTER than he treats her!! He still cares, right?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well me and my bf broke up and he now has a new gf. We dont really talk but once in a while we will. but anyways, he kept all my comments to him on myspace and they say how much i love him and all that. Why would he keep them on there, Everyone tells me that his parents ... (140 words)

How am I going to last 6 months without him?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We see eachother every weekend and only on the weekends because it's somewhat long distance (he lives in NY and I'm in NJ). I love every minute with him, but I miss him so much during the week. I never really thought that I ... (183 words)

I've fallen in love with him, how do I tell him without destroying our friendship?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a sexual relationship with a friend for about a year and a half. About six months into the relationship i fell in love with him. He makes me so happy and i really think that he could be the one for me. How do i tell him this without destroying our frie... (57 words)

He's fighting for his kids..but then again - is he just keeping me on the side while he sees if it is going to really work with her?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well i wrote about a week ago with the problem i had with my boyfriend not being honest.. well it just got a little more complicated!! I started seeing my boyfriend about a month after he had filed for divorce.. but him and his wife had been seperated for about a year, bu... (589 words)

I feel his response shows his lack of interest in me. What do you think?

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8 May 2008 (F)

- There's this guy who is in one of my classes at university and I kind of like him. He always sits next to me in class and we talk about stuff other then class work. He doesnt talk to any other girls in our class. He asked me to work on a project with him. He also remmeber... (237 words)

Is it bad that we both found people to get over each other?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend of two years have just broken up 4 months ago. two months after we broke up he found a new girlfriend and two weeks later he was saying that he loves her. I ended up finding a boyfriend a month after breaking up. Is it bad that we both found people to get over... (194 words)

I took 2 brands of pill within one month, could I be pregnant?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am on the pill (estrogen and progestin). I accidentally dropped one and since i had an unfinished pack (a different brand, same composition), i just took one from there. This was the 2nd to the last pill of the packet. I expected my period today but it didn't come. Could ... (55 words)

"If I am 16 and have relations with a consenting 15 year-old girl, is that rape?"

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I'm studing law in history, and one of the questions is, "If i am 16 and have relations with a consenting 15 year-old girl, is that rape?" Please help me answer this question...Thanks.... (37 words)

I can feel myself gaining weight. I have love handles like I've never had before.

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 116, weight 110 pounds. But i can feel myself gaining weight. I have love handles like I've never had before, obviously i want some hips, so i'm not a box, but not as much as i have now. What's the best way to get rid of it - that you know off, without using equipment?... (57 words)

I'd expect this from him when I'm old, but not now!

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8 May 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I just caught my husband masterbating to images on the internet. When I confronted him, he said he does this often. I am a 25 year old, 92lb girl, many guys say he is a fool! I'm a very mellow person, and I happen to enjoy porn a lot too, so I didnt freak out on him, but I'm ... (86 words)

I need some advice about taking the pill.

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to take birth control. My question is, do i take a pill and do sexual intercourse a few days later? and if i don`t do sex and i don`t take the pill (would that get me pregnant?)... (39 words)

How to get abs quick?

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8 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 15 and have a gut. whats a good way to get sweet looking abs quick, not useing any equipment?... (21 words)

I like this guy but right now we arent talking....

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - uh hi.. i like this guy but right now we arent talkin because i heard how he doesnt like me and he wants to try to mess with my head so i got mad. today he was so random he told me to come to him i was like oo0kie ..:S and u know what he asked me? "Do you Know a girl ... (312 words)

If a best friend acts two faced. do you ignore it?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - if a best friend of yours acts totally two faced. do you ignore it? Is it that big of a deal? and what if you cant confront her because you found out she was talking behind your back through her messages on her facebook.... (46 words)

Why is my ex acting so mean?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, me and my boyfriend dated on and off for two years, we were really into eachother. but we broke up about a month and a week or two ago and and the first few weeks he was mean, but then he apologized and we made up, we didnt go back out, but i mean we were friends and ... (224 words)

Am I doing the right thing waiting for him?

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8 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - So I met my boyfriend my fresh year in college. He had a girlfriend and I a boyfriend. Well my 2nd year in college, we both went to the same party and were both single and now have been dating 3 months. He leaves June 2 for Basic in the marines. WE discussed everything and i ... (94 words)