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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is a blow job for a groom a tradition?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey sisters and brothers Just a funny one Just spoke to some friends ... bullshitting .. question was DO you think its a tradition for a GROOM to get blown at a bachelore party??? 95%guys said YES! So, how do you guys feel over here? Just an info .. I dont know an... (92 words)

How do I know if he's serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - what if this boy asked you out but you dont know if its serious and you told two of your friends and you dont know if he is still going out with this girl and your afraid that your not going out with him and his girlfriend might geet mad... (50 words)

Guys, any flirting tips for girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - guys, how do u like girls flirting with you?? and girls i can really use ur help! this guy i like, hes very open minded and experiences, but i have never had a bf, hes all flirting i dont know what to say back to his flirting...and i know u have to give some and take some, so ... (123 words)

I was happy sleeping with other men to please my husband, but he doesn't want me to anymore.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - after we had been married about five years, my husband told me he wanted me to have sex with other men and he wanted to watch. i told him i didn't want to, but he begged and begged me to do this and i finally told him i would. he brought home a sailor from the navy base ... (635 words)

I love her but my friends think she is ugly, shall I go out with her or leave it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I love a girl and im 90% sure she fancies me. All my friends are friends with her but they think she is ugly. If i go out with her they will probably take the piss. Shall I go out with her or leave it?... (46 words)

He's going to Peru for a year, should I wait for him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - well my boyfriend is going to peru for a year becuase he needs to learn better spanish (he's hispanic) and his grandmother is sick or something. im 13 and weve been together for 4 months now. i dont know if i can wait for him like that. cuz im going to high school next year and ... (72 words)

Was he flirting or just being friendly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - GUYSnGALS i need ur help...there's this guy i know before but im getting to know and talk to him very much...aswe were getting to know things about each other what we liked, disliked...he asked me whati like in aguy and viceversa...it turned out that we like the same things, ... (293 words)

My sister cashed a check in my name, what may happen as a result?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, my sister wrote a check in my name and she close her account but cash the check at a bank that i have a acount at. i don't want her to get in trouble but thats so wrong to sign my name and CASH it. please tell me what is going to happen... (54 words)

Talking about sex embarrasses me, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi im in my late 20s and have been in a relationship for the past three years but when im out with the lads and any talk of sex comes up anything at all relating to the subject i get really embarrassed and my face turns bright red i also get really nervous anxious and awkw... (151 words)

Bi and confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 16 year old guy who is Bi. I have a Girlfriend and i have recently started seeing this guy. I dont know what to do, i know i am cheating before anyone says it, and i know i am a horrible person. But what should i do. I am very confused... (57 words)

Should I not want to date other people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I met and started to date a guy 7 months ago. When we started dating I made it very clear that I did not want a boyfriend and was not interested in a relationship at that time, as I was just out of a bad relationship. I also was very clear with him that I was dating 2 others ... (181 words)

I'm worried about my penis... have I damaged it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this serious problem.The left side of the head of my penis has a bit of foreskin attached.After 3 years of vigorous jacking off it's taken it's toll.I now have this bruise like mark down the length of my penis where the skin is being stretched.Even worse is that the left ... (122 words)

I deleted nude pictures of his ex. Was I right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I turn to the Agony Aunts for everything! Today I'm writing about the following issue: My boyfriend brought up the topic of marriage a few months ago and we are already making plans. I work for him so I am at his house every day. We already act like a married couple-cooking, ... (350 words)

Why do some men wear a band around the penis during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age - Does anyone know why some men wear a band around the penis when having sex? Does that really help with erection problems or something like that?... (26 words)

Why don't I feel like having sex more often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I simply dont feel like having sex very often, maybe twice a month. My partner is a wonderful man and he means the world to me. It makes me feel bad that I'm not in the mood more. I've had the same problem with previous boyfriends. I know this cant be normal but is there anyone ... (64 words)

I'm 15, he's 25, is it illegal if I am with him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i just wonderd if u could giv me some advice really i lyk this boy and hes older than me well hes older than 25 and im 15 i jst wonderd is it illegal if i am with him?? and do u think its right?? wb x ... (54 words)

22 years later: is it the love or the pain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - i am haunted by a ex i had 22 years ago. i still feel hurt when i think about her and how it went down. she was the 2nd girl i ever slept with (i was 18 at the time, she was 16) and the first real regular sexual relationship i ever had. i was in a rock band playing at a party ... (518 words)

I tell him he's cute and sexy but that's not enough...any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend thinks that I don't find him attractive anymore, but I tell him he's cute and sexy and all that, but that's not enough....any suggestions?... (31 words)

Can anyone tell me why he wants me to move in with him? What ever happened to marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 43 yrs old and my boyfriend 42. I have been going with him for over 2 yrs. We get along well and have share the same interests. We both have been married and divorced under good terms with the ex'es and both own our own homes. We have no children just pets living in each ... (261 words)

She had sex on the job ... what kind of fun can I have with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age - We all work at the same place. My girlfriend had sex at work while on the clock with the guy I like. She doesn't know that I know, but he does. What kind of fun can I have with this? ... (45 words)

Am I throwing away a friendship to prove a lie?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I dont know what to do ! im feeling pretty low right now. I feel like im about to lose something i could of had, because of my friends. me and my friend wre talking in a conversation on msn. She thought i liked this boy that i have been talking with for a few months. And yes ... (131 words)

I cheated… Now what???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I cheated on my boyfriend last weekend, I was completely drunk out of my mind, not that that is an excuse. Needless to say the guy I cheated on my boyfriend of a year is our friend and was over for dinner the night before we had a party. I ended up leaving to go ride around ... (306 words)

Why does my girlfriend role play?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This may seem like an odd question but it deals with the relationship I am in. My question is, why do people Role play? More specifically online role playing with other people. My girlfriend does it like routine every night and she always seems to be too busy doing them ... (71 words)

How does a man act around his girlfriend after he cheats on her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age - How does a man act around his girlfriend after he cheats on her? What are the signs, and what is he thinking and feeling?... (25 words)

In love with a teacher and worried it's becoming an obsession...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

29 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I've recently realised that I am experiencing romantic feelings towards one of my teachers at High School. At first I thought that it was just a crush, and I'd forget all about him and like someone else in a couple of weeks' time. However, things are beginning to get way out ... (294 words)

I was wondering if it's okay to give my instructors a 'thank you' card and maybe some chocolate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i have jst recently left school and i was particulary friendly with one deparment in my school, i got flute lessons and singing lessons and i would lvoe to get my two instructors a crad saying thanks and prehaps a small chocolate thing? there men, what do u think? there ... (128 words)

Please help me, I'm still mourning my dog's death, I have exams and I'm not eating! I just feel that I don't care about anything.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me. I feel like I have changed so much, and I dont expect anyone to put up with it, or even care. I dont understand it but recently I just have been feelin that I dont care about anything and I just cant be bothered. And thats not like me. I like being by myself, ... (304 words)

I'm scared this guy will go to the prom with this other girl! Should I tell him I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this boy. Thats the basic! me and him have known each other since he was born, we've been through school togther as friends and now i like him more. We've been talking more and some of my friends suggested he liked me, but i saw him the other night and he was drunk hol... (118 words)

Should I tell him about this weird sex dream I had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Should I tell him about this weird sex dream I had? It was bizarre. My first lesbian dream. I dreamt I was in my bed, and his ex came in. We started talking as if we were best friends, and suddenly she put herself in top of me and started kissing me and feeling me up. I... (115 words)

Moody boyfriend, any tips for making the relationship better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone . I've Been With my boyfriend for about a month and a bit. Things started off great, but that soon changed. He would go in a mood with me for the stupidest thing. E.g The other day he asked me why I was acting diffrent all because i did not put "I Love Y... (284 words)

Any suggestions for raising a low sperm count?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

- Myself and my fiance have recently undergone tests to see if we can have a baby together. My results were clear but he has a low sperm count, does anyone have any suggestions on how if it's even possible to raise his count?... (43 words)

Argued with my best mate about liking someone, is it unfair on this person not to talk to him to prove a point?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - im so fed up ! i have just sort of had an arguement with my best mate. she accused me of liking someone when i dont. now i sed tht i aint gunna even talk to the person in question because they think i like him. i know this is unfair on the person but if i have to prove i dont l... (83 words)

How can I tell him I'm not interested without damaging our friendship or moving out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently moved in with a good friend of mine. I am obviously a girl and he is a guy. We both work the same schedule and can provide for ourselves just fine. The problem is with our relationship. We are like best friends. We have perfect honesty and trust between us, but I ... (170 words)

I told him I cheated on him to see how he'd react, since he cheated on me in our first month together. How do I fix this now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend cheated on me in our first month but he says he pulled away straight away and the other girl admits it was her fault. We have been going out for 9 months now and i told him a couple of months ago i cheated on him just to see how he reacted but because we had an ... (93 words)

I didn't want him to tell anybody we'd had sex, but he told his friend. I told mine, so am I just as bad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and i had sex but as i am 2 years younger i do not want him to tell anybody, but he doesnt mind if i tell people. He went against my will and told his friend. but i told mine so does this make me as bad. He didnt tell me he had told his friend but i knew he had and ... (91 words)

He wants to try a new sex position. Is he bored with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my partner of 9 months have only recently started to have sex. about 2 months but we use the same positions. He wants to try a new postioion does this mean he is bored? x... (38 words)

"Yipee my son is going to be a womaniser". Why do they talk like that?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Why is it i constantly hear women with young male children, speaking to another woman. OOOH he's a proper lad he's going to be a bit of a one with the women, then a beaming smile. Like whats this all about? Yipee my son is going to be a womaniser?... (52 words)

I never have an orgasm. Is he really having one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have now been having sex for about two months. Each time he cums but i never have an orgasm. Is there anyways to help this, as i enjoy it but i want to orgasm. does it help the guy if i orgasm? Also is cuming a guys orgasm as my partner never realy moans ... (62 words)

I have a crush on him, but does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have recently got a massive crush on this boy in a younger year than me at our school. I see him at least once a day at school and we go to an afterschool PE session at our school. I am so confused as to whether he fancies me back or not, here are some things he ... (99 words)

Long distance - he gets depressed and it brings me down. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5992 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya everyone, I'm in a long distance relationship with this bloke. We've been together for over a year (long distance) and I love him very much. The distance is very hard to deal with, of course. I get down and sad because I miss him so much, but I'm always able to pul... (287 words)

Can anyone help after my first night sex experience?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy in 3 months ago went on a first date who was the perfect gentlemen went home and ended up having sex. We contacted each other the next week, then left it for a couple weeks and then he asked me out again. I just said it was a drunken fling and was not that interes... (328 words)

I want my ex back. Help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to get my ex back...i know he doesn't love me...but takes me only as a friend..we still talk....but the reason he left me was due to my constant questioning about girls messaging him and girls roaming about with him..he didn't have had any affair with any girls....but i ... (405 words)

I have a working, open marriage. Could I have scared off a guy I met?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need some help. Here's the deal my husband and i have an open marriage. We love eachother, and this WORKS for us. I met a guy at the bar one night as i hung with my sister. He was an amazing looking man nothing happened that night. I told him i was married.... (203 words)

I'm playing hard to get. What is he expecting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age - Is he expecting me to make the moves on him? We have demonstrated to be attracted to each other. He hasn't approached me yet we flirt and flatter each other. Two years ago he wanted to go out with me but I turned him down because of another commitment back then. He was with ... (213 words)

He bled into me. Is this dangerous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my partner last night had sex. I was on top and becouse we are both new to sex, lets just say 'things up my end were tight' wich caused his penis to cut and bleed. He was in a lot of pain but we didnt realise he was bleeding so we continued. It turns out he had bled ... (109 words)

We are getting divorced, so why does he keep messing with my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - In 2006 i found out my husband of 11 years was having an affair with someone he met through work in a different country. We have since seperated and getting divorced. How do i move on when i still love him and would have him back? He is still seeing the other woman maybe for 6 ... (130 words)

Confused by my friend and my feelings about this incident...what should I think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i have a problem and i am hopin u can help me so here it goes rite i ave a friend who is so kind to me and she is always there and that and we have sleepovers and stuff and she is pretty and i think i fancy her a bit but not that much. and bout couple weeks ago wen she slep... (523 words)

I slept with my wife's sister and best friend, one is now pregnant...what can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all This is all a complete mess!!! I slept with both my wifes sister and her best friend and dont know what i can do now. They both came onto me and are so hot that i could not resist either of them... The problem i have now is that my wifes sister is pregnant and... (148 words)

Anyone successful at getting their ex back? What's the best way to go about it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6038 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am thinking of asking my ex back as she's single again, and I still love her so much, despite what she did. I'd like to know which readers of this site have been successful in getting their ex back, and what the best way to go about it is, without scaring them off?! ... (57 words)

What should I do? One of my friends is trying to embarass me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, ive been seeing a boy and one of my friends has found out about it and has taken it upon herself to tell everyone and humiliate me, when im around her she says stuff and takes the piss about it to impress other people in my group and if he is on the fone she will ... (94 words)

What can I say that will get their attention and not just ignore or delete my message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I joined this online dating site a few weeks ago, and i have messaged like 6 or 7 different girls saying something like, i would love to get to know you more" and they usually read my message and never respond (it says when they read your messages). my question is, is ... (77 words)

No experience and needing help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - thanks for reading this ill try to be really short basically me and my bf have been going out for a long time were both over the leagal and are both virgins lately we've been experimenting but i dont know how to pleasure him i dont even know how to 'talk dirty' or give a 'hand ... (77 words)

My husband is spending too much time with my dad, and he's neglecting me and our children!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I've become concerned about my husband lately, as in the past few months he's been spending too much time with my dad, and not enough with me and the kids (two boys, one is 6 years old, the other 8). When they first me, they got on great, and they still do now. In fact, th... (363 words)

All my friends have turned against me, and my problems just keep getting bigger. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old, and i have a very big problem. For tthe past 3 or so years, i have had huge crushes on other boys from my year even when i had a girlfriend. It wasn't so much of a problem, as i kept it to myself all the time. This wasn't a problem up until very recently, ... (462 words)

I'm in love with him, but he's going to be marrying the bride his family choses for him... I don't know how to cope with this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi..!! i am a 18 yr old girl..i strongly love a boy who is 11 rs older to me..we met through chat..never met b4 but seen each other's pics..deciding to meet within this year....we slowly and slowly had a close relationship and even promised to get married anyhow....but inspite ... (313 words)

He says the spark is gone, and doesn't believe that I love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend doesn't believe that I love him and he says the spark is gone, how do I change this?... (26 words)

How can I get the pictures of our vacation from him? We've broken up now and I've moved on, but would like to have them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice on what to do! Me and my boyfriend broke up about two months ago. He broke my heart but since then I've moved on. He's changed beyond recognition, he now smokes and drinks (both of which he never did much before) and has been really agressive toward... (268 words)

HOW can I finally get over my EX??????????????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - 9 yrs after divorce and I have been remarried for most of it. However,I still battle with being in love with my ex. I left him and he was devistated but I was young and went through something pyschologically where I just didn't like to be around couples, including my own of ... (307 words)

Can a dildo damage or hurt your insides if used wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can a dildo serious hurt/damage your inside if used wrong or to hard..? Please i really wanna know cuz iv used one alot and afta im really hurt and it stings 2 pee until the day afta i end up avin 2 get in the shower and put hot water on it 2 ages until its stops hurting...... (76 words)

Why is my period late? And my bf has blood in his pee yesterday, what's that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i think i'm one week late with my periods, (it happened to me before).me and my bf had sex more than two weeks ago, without a condom. that night he penetrated me and i cum but he didn't, he just was not that turned on. after a while (about 15 min) he also wanted to cum but he ... (124 words)

Read this break up email from my bf, and tell me what it means, please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I got this break up email from my bf. What do you think it means? I know obviously it means he wants to break up, but do you think I have a chance to patch it back together with him? I still love him and I know we've had some problems typical guy/girl commitment issues... ... (136 words)

Why do we find it so hard to move on from exes even after we have ended it ourselves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is it we find it so hard to move on after ending a relationship, even though we know they aren't the right person for you so you call a halt to it. I'm curious, as i ended a rollercoaster relationship of a yr and a half back in january. I dont regret it at all. Not one litt... (309 words)

How many couples out there break up because of some silly quarrel? I've never let him down, why isn't that enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i wonder how many couples out there break up cuz of some silly quarrel, or just one party got too tired of trying, or is it due to personality clashes, or a misalignment in core beliefs.....Let's not talk about obvious deal-breakers like cheating, abuse etc? Shouldn't 2 pple i... (164 words)

On again, off again with my online girlfriend, tomorrow night we decide what our status is... I need some advice to help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, umm.. i have a gf, well, i donno if its a "real gf", we met through a website called bebo, its similar to facebook and myspace.. i live in new zealand, she does in australia, i'm 18 in college shes 17 in her senior year. we've known each other since december 2006, ... (417 words)

Do many guys have this obsession with sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have never ever experienced anything like this before. I met a guy in 3 months ago went on a first date who was the perfect gentlemen went home and ended up having sex. We contacted each other the next week, then left it for a couple weeks and then he asked me out a... (172 words)

Is he giving me a sign that we can reconcile our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I dated a man for a year and we began a relationship, but shortly after we broke up. I was devastated because I felt that we were doing well being together. We talk sometimes when we see each other. He tells me that I look nice and he still has feelings for me and misses me. I ... (147 words)

Any tips on losing my virginity with a close friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

29 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi I'm nearly 18 and single. I'm still a virgin. I have this friend who I'm quite close to, she is same age. We always up for trying something fun. Whenever we drink we have good laugh. I think we now want to try sex. There's a few things though I'm willing to go really slow ... (78 words)

Do haemorroids effect your sex life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been suffering from haemorroids for a while but I have managed to find a really great natural product called H-Care Haemorroid Relief Cream. The range also includes new hygienic wipes- yeah. My question is do haemorroids effect your sex life??... (49 words)

I really like this guy in school and he likes me too but he has a girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) age 26-29 - dear cupid I like this guy at my school but he has a girlfriend and he flirts with me, we hang around with each other but when he's with his girlfriend he turns to me and smiles, how do I know if he likes me the same way as I like him. p.s his girlfriend is really hor... (99 words)

I've heard about strengthening your PC muscle by holding back when you go to the toilet but how do you do this?

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29 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there I've heard about strengthening your PC muscle by holding back when you go to the toilet. Apparently you can strengthen this muscle anywhere by tensing your PC muscle. The problem is i dunno how to do this :S Is it just kind of squeezing your bum cheeks togeth... (68 words)

I feel like I wasn't good enough to keep him and I'm having trouble dealing with this.

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29 May 2008 (F)

- I think my boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want to wait till there was enough trust in our relationship to have sex. He has a history of sleeping around and going out with girls who get into bed with guys within the first week of meeting the guy. I told him that... (227 words)

I'm so confused over my ex boyfriend...

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29 May 2008 (F)

- I'm confused about my ex bf and have a few questions. A week before breaking up with me, he started ignoring some of my messages which he would always reply too. he stoped calling and messaging me non stop and asking where i was and who i was with and waht i was doing. I tho... (473 words)

We're too different but he wants more than friends. drugs, smokes and drinks at 15.

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and went on holiday a couple of weeks ago for 4 days, whilst away I met a boy who was also 15 and lives 10 minutes away from me. We both hit it off and spent the last night just cuddling etc. However I am a total good girl, never smoke, drink, drugs, care about schoo... (212 words)

Married less than "2 years" and no sex life!!! HELP

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I am married for nearly 2 years, my problem is this, We have practically no sex life, it's like we are brother and sister or something just sharing the same bed. There is no passion, it's just a peck on the lips and then good night. There is no chemistry. ... (237 words)

Who do I choose? My ex or my new lover. The problem is the new lover, he is 15 years younger

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - 3 months ago I ended a 19 year relationship. For most of the 19 years I felt as if I should be grateful that my partner stuck around. He told me in various ways that I was not the type of woman he would have chosen (I was the hunter). I gave affection, told him I loved him ... (310 words)

How can I get my self-confidence back?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - CoNFIDANCE 1 thing i really dont ave and i ned help fast i feel drained i give up on everything because it dont work out the first time for me.. My heart wants 2 stand out and be different than every body and i really want to acheive the things i start but agen the end of ... (192 words)

Commitment? What is it really?

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29 May 2008 (M)

- We are often advised to commit ourselves 100% to any activity or relationship we undertake so that we can get as much out of it as possible and have no regrets. Some people also say commitment doesn't necessarily mean forever. So what does this mean in terms of the actions we ... (274 words)

How can I have a one night stand tonight?

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29 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Considering a one night stand tonight. I know you can't choose when and where these things happen, but tonight is a good opportunity. Anything I can do to make it happen? Thanks. p.s. It's been over a year since I last had sex, and I can't take it anymore. Desperate ... (66 words)

Does he fancy me? Are these the signs?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have known someone for a while and we are quite close. He always compliments me everytime I see him but never mentions my body or looks. He says I look well, am clever, ace, great etc. It's everytime I see him but when he says this he looks away or at the floor. He smiles a ... (146 words)

Advice on shaving please

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya I was wondering how to shave down there..as in which way because I do but it leaves black dots where the hairs are and you can still see them. Also if I shave upwards I cut myself slightly where the hairs are having little red dots of blood here and there. Any ti... (73 words)

I hate feeling this way, I hate how much this man affects me!!

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please, I could really use some help. I am so in love, infatuated, or whatever you want to call it, with one of my teachers, and now i can't sleep because of it. I'm so tired all the time, but I lie awake for hours trying not to think of him, yet desperately wanting to, so that... (227 words)

Are these signs that he's got the hots for me?

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29 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I need to know if a guy i know fancies me or is just being friendly. He tickles me, he'll talk to me loads, we sometimes have text conversations until late at night, but they're quite rare. He'll laugh at my jokes, and he teases me. He has nicknames for me, he remembers som... (110 words)

In my case, I hope curiosity doesn't kill my pussy......cat.

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29 May 2008 (F)

age - Just out of curiosity, please tell me if what I'm feeling is normal. I'm 51, by the way. This past year I've been feeling so very horny, I mean, I want sex all the time!! The slightest thing seems to turn me on. It could be triggered by something I'm watching on TV, relating ... (208 words)

He prefers to play his guitar than be with me, please help.

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my b/f were moving along very smoothly. It was getting even better, but then all of a sudden we got in this huge arguemnt. 1st of all he REALLY loves guitar. 2nd we both go to the same church. We were both going to go to youth camp together, but then he decided that ... (255 words)

Why does he act like that? I need advice.

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok.. So I've known my "bf" for a long time. We used to date about 2 years ago, stopped talking. And now we started dating again. We have been dating for about 2 months now. He is nice and everything. But he has a problem. He doesn't call me much. Like I call him and he is like... (309 words)

I want to spice up our sex life, any ideas would be welcome.

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is not so much a great dilemma, just some fishing for inspiration. My boyfriend and I have been together two odd years, love one another dearly, and we have been having sex for about nine months now. Recently, it's gone from long lovemaking sessions to a twenty or ... (127 words)

Been sleeping with my friends father. What do you think I should do?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi cupid, I am in a really hard situation. ok my best friend and I are really close we do everything together. I am 16 and she is 17. I really don't have much of a family of my own my dad left us and my mum spends more time at the pub getting drunk than at home. Once i didnt c ... (296 words)

We have already talked about everything there is to talk about!! Help please!

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29 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I talk 2 my boyfriend on the phone since we started going out.We have been going out 4 four weeks and 2dayz.The 1st week we started going out we had SO much 2 talk about.But now we have those "awkward silences".We have talked about everything there is 2 talk about.Some one help ... (54 words)

When should I get a pregnancy test?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i was reading what you guys wrote about the Pregnancy test. Well i just had sex with my husband and something happen so i will like to know, when should i do it? I hope to hear from you guys soon byebye thanks... (46 words)

Should I risk our friendship and how should I bring us dating again up?

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29 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay So I dated this girl 2 years ago for about 4 months. The break up was mutual and we kept in touch. Lately we have been hanging out alot. Right now we are both single and I still have strong feelings for her and i'm pretty sure she still has feelings for me. Well my ... (72 words)

How do you know your in love?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you feel when your in love? Is it diffrent for everyone? How do you know if someone is the one? I have never been in love so anyone in love please share how you feel about it. Thanks ... (40 words)

I think I might have over reacted, what should I do?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend (of 11 months) yesterday. I went through his cell phone (something that I really hate and very unlike me) and found msgs to other girls. I found the same type of msgs in January and confronted him about it. He said he was sorry, didn't mean to hurt ... (253 words)

Most guys do like cuddling or is it just a girl thing?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Do guys like cuddling? I'm seeing this guy but since he lives 2hrs away from me it's been a little difficult. We usually end up watching tv or a movie at his place for part of the time that we're together when I go to see him and when that happens we end up cuddling for qui... (136 words)

Dating and older man who is my grad-school professor!?

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29 May 2008 (F) age 41-50 - I am a 27 year old grad student and considering dating my 50 year old professor. I have taken 2 independent studies with him and 2 classes (undergraduate and graduate). Upon his recommendation, I am transferring to a top 10 university. To be very very blunt, I am very ... (315 words)

I like this one guy and I think he likes me, but his friend also likes me and I don't want to ruin their friendship. Any advice?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I like this one guy and I think he likes me. The only thing is his friend likes me and I don't want to ruin thier friendship cause of me. I'm going to ask the guy I like out and I think he will say yes. What I'm trying to get at is do you have any advice on how to... (93 words)

Relationship issues... he just told me that he wants to be just friends. Will he come back to me or should I move on?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age - Was dating this guy for 10 months, he has past relationship issues that scares him, but we did enjoy each other's company, we have a lot in common, and had planned to do different things this summer together. I saw him 2 weeks ago,then I got a message from him saying we can be ... (105 words)

My boyfriend is going to be gone for a year! I'm not sure I can wait for him like that, what should I do?

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29 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - my bf is going to Peru to visit his family for the summer but i just found out he has to stay there for a year. weve been going together for 4 months but i dotn know if i can wait for him like that. what should i do??... (49 words)

How do I politely turn him down and still maintain a good working environment?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Help!! I just started a new job and my coworker is clearly interested in dating me. I hung out with him and had a drink on the weekend thinking it was totally casual but it is clear now that he is interested and I am not. He keeps calling and of course I see him everyday at ... (75 words)

My best friend doesn't seem to care about me anymore... I can't just walk away!

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29 May 2008 (F)

- me and my best friend/ex used 2 be close ..we used 2 spend everyday together until he met this lad.. who edged his way in and turned him against me..well made him take pictures of me and him off his myspace.. mentally tells him to stop seeing me. they will only be on msn if ... (171 words)

How do you know the difference in really being in love rather than just being used to a mate?

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29 May 2008 (M)

age - How do you know the difference in really being in love rather than just being used to a mate? I sometimes think a fling is just a temporary thrill and not for the long haul. how do you determine the truth?... (41 words)

Any boys want to suggest anything that they like? Neither of us are very experienced...

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i are really good at communicating what we like and don't like to be done to our bodies. he tells me what he doesn't like, but neither of us are very experienced. he can't tell me what he D0ES like because he just doesn't know what he likes. any boys want to ... (60 words)

How do you figure out why your wife of 30 years is always against having sex?

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29 May 2008 (M)

age - How do you figure out why your wife of 30 years is always against having sex? She always has an excuse too tired, doesn't feel well, has to go to sleep you know the drill. Is it normal for women at 50 to get this way? I am finding it hard to even keep excited anymore to have ... (94 words)

She wants more experience, she's only 15 and isn't ready to have a relationship for the rest of her life! But it's tearing me apart...

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29 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my best friend started dating about a year and a half ago. Recently, she broke up with me because she told me that she isnt ready to have a relationship for the rest of her life. She wants more exprience with boys. I agreed because i want to see her happy but to be ... (157 words)

My body is hungry for sex! It's been a year!! Please help me!!

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29 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. I haven't had sex for a year now, as of this week. It's quite a depressing anniversary, and one that I have tried to keep off my mind, but haven't been able to. I really feel like I need sex again now, for the good of my manhood. I have made out with a number of girls since ... (178 words)

How can I cope with the hurt and anger about her emotional affair? It's like pulling teeth to get her to admit that what she did is wrong!

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a lesbian relationship of five years and my girlfriend started to fall for a male coworker. We went to therapy and it turns out she had inner issues about her parents not accepting our relationship because of their Indian values (she has been shunned). Although she ... (299 words)

Worried about this girl and my boyfriend... am I right to be worried?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone ok now i might just b goin crazy or im reacting the way i should! my boyfriend is going out 2nite 2 watch hockey with a bunch of his friends he couldnt find a ride(his car is crap) so he resulted in calling one of my friends well actually me n her dont talk as often ... (217 words)

Just found out that my bf has collected photos of women's breasts sent by email!

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29 May 2008 (F)

age - I just discovered that my boyfriend has collected photos of womens breasts sent to him by email. He met these women online and made the requests personally. I also viewed some messages that he printed and kept, telling a few of the women that he had a specific fetish for large ... (90 words)

I have a friend that takes things as her own ideas/opinions.

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I started drawing and was in this art class and she was admiring my drawings. Soon after she started painting. I was not angry at this because I felt that it was something we could enjoy together. Soon after we started painting on the walls in spare room. everything I painted ... (513 words)

What do I need to do about this married man?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Well what it is i met a guy and talked to him for a while and then found out he was married well i let him alone, but he kept calling me over and over telling me him and his wife was splitting up, so my bad mistake was that i believed him, he left his wife for about 3 months ... (157 words)

What are your opinions or funny stories about 69ing?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i would like to hear your opinions about 69ing with somebody. like if you like it or not? or if you have any funny or interesting stories about it!!! please write them if you have any!!!... (36 words)

What's the difference between making love, and just having sex?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - whats the difference between making love, having sex, and fucking? do you think guys know the difference or they just ask for one or the other?... (26 words)

Is it really so bad to want the "label" of boyfriend and girlfriend?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it really so bad to want the "label"? I've been dating a guy for about 2 months and things have been going well, but he's doesn't seem to have the desire to become exclusive. I certainly never had the need to rush into anything, but after dating for a while, we've bec... (173 words)

Can you 'make love' to someone if you don't love them?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - can you make love to someone if you don't love them? if you don't love the person why would you say,"i want to make love to you" ... (27 words)

How can I ask my best friend out?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to ask my bff out. shes female too. what should i say? ... (14 words)

How do I cope with this first time hook up? I'm completely and utterly disappointed in myself...

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I really don't even know where to start. I'm completely and utterly disappointed in myself and filled with regret. I met this guy Dan through a friend a couple of years ago. We really hit it off, but he was then deployed to Iraq. I haven't seen him in a couple years, but it ... (163 words)

She wants space and to date other people, I don't have a problem with that. Should I back off completely?

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29 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - im a 33 yr old who has a realtionship question--i met a girl on the internet--it was supposed to be only a friend with benefits--but we clicked the first night we met---after the 3 rd time of hanging out i was staying the night--we continiued seeing each other---as time went on ... (264 words)

We kinda have something but my friend likes him and doesn't know

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone :D k anyways, there's this guy. let's call him joe. he really likes me. he's liked me for a while and we kinda have something i guess, but we're like brother and sister. it's weird i know.. like we like each other but we're good friends also.. but i have this ... (131 words)

Is this a good sign, or is he having doubts?

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29 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a new guy about a month ago, and we just hooked up for the first time last weekend. Ever since then he has talked to me everyday by phone, and a few times a week we'll hang out. Just the other day in front of his friends, he wasn't afraid to be affectionate and would hold ... (169 words)