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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it just me, or is anybody else disturbed by 10-13 year olds giving out blow jobs?

This question has 61 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been watching this board for a couple of days now, and I have to admit that I am shocked at the number of 10-15 year old girls that are asking questions about boyfriends, sex and blowjobs. Is this the norm these days that children start this young? I am not an old prude... (130 words)

Could it be his baby? He never went back after his vasectomy to have his semen checked!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 16 weeks pregnant but boyfriend had a vasectomy, but says he never went back to have his semen checked, can it be his baby? help me, please!... (29 words)

He used to be my friend, played a trick on me, and I know I shouldn't forgive him, and I want to be friends again but I'm afraid it will be awkward...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. well i used to be friends with this one guy, who i used to have a crush on. I liked him until last year when i found someone else. We were still friends though. Then, at a party, he txted my friend saying he liked me and she didnt believe him because he's the class clown. ... (333 words)

I have a question about what a girl feels when a penis enters her vagina!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - how does a girl feel when penis enters her vagina?? can they feel the veins and the rim of the glans(top portion of penis)?? ..how do they feel when the cums inside them? i would b happy if u explain elaborately:) ... ... (42 words)

What is a normal vaginal depth?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is about vaginal depth. You see. I met this guy last week and well, yesterday I asked him to my place. We were getting down to but when he . . .inserted his phallus it wouldn't go in all the way. [I wish I could articulate this better.] There was a good three ... (94 words)

He's asked me to have sex with him and I don't know what to say!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently just turned 16 and I really like this boy in my year. He is not the nicest looking but he is very nice to me and always complimenting me. I have liked him for a while and now he has asked me to have sex with him. I don't know what to say because I don't want to ... (111 words)

I still like my ex, but his friend likes me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

14 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I was friends with this guys for a while then he asked me out, I had known that he liked me for awhile, and i had liked him too but being the coward that I am, did nothing. One day we were alone together and he asked me out. I of course said yes. During the time that we were ... (244 words)

I want to talk with my ex about these feelings I'm having!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help i really need some advice as don't know what to do. Me and my ex split up about year and a half ago, it was his choice and although he never really gave me a proper reason for it he decided to go travelling not long after, which i think was the reason we split.We ... (301 words)

I don't know if he is serious or if he is playing with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I need your help here, I have been dating this guy for a little bit more than 3 months, we live a little bit far away each other and we both have very tight schedules, the thing is with the time we have both started to have strong feelings for each other. We maintain the ... (183 words)

Is it wrong to love my step-step-3rd cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My dad got married in June (2007). I was hanging out with my step mom and we went to her cousin's new house. I have never met her cousin, until that day. Her cousin, has a step daughter. I couldn't help but tellin her how beautiful she was etc etc. No one really paid to much ... (133 words)

I am 14 and I have never had a proper kiss

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

14 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I am 14 years old, and have never been kissed. All of my friends, and most of the people in my school have all experienced a 'first kiss' and I am one of the only ones who hasn't. Sure, I've pecked someone on the lips, but I have not yet had a proper french-kiss, and in my ... (310 words)

I'm scared to snog

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 11 years old and im going out with this boy called luke and i have never snogged and i want to, but im to scared to snog him. what happens if he does'nt let me snog him... (40 words)

How do I approach the subject of sex with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating someone for four months now and I do not know how to bring up sex to her. I do not want to pressure anything but I just want to bring it up as a possibility for the near future? Any help would be much appreciated.... (52 words)

Everything about my boyfriend annoys me, but I still really care about him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about 2 months now, and lately it seems like everything he does annoys me. I get annoyed by the way he drives, when he doesn't listen to me, when he lies to me, and even when we are cuddling he annoys me. I really like him and want a future with ... (80 words)

I kissed my best friend and now I feel awkward

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i need bit of advice. baically i been like best friends with this guy for most of my life. We both swim for the same club and have always been very close, in the wa we would have sleepovers together and nothing ever thought of it. but yeah recently i kept thinking i was s... (202 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me because another guy has a crush on me. It isnt like the feelings are reciprocated! Why did he break it off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My BF broke up with me and everything is so unfair, I didn't do anything!!! A couple of years ago I met this obnoxious guy, he had a crush on me, but he also had a crush on several more girls. Then i met my BF and we started dating. My BF was always jealous of this guy s... (144 words)

My husband always drops me if he gets an offer to go out with his friends. Why wont he put me first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i went away for a few days to my parents with the baby.My husband went out every night and behaved liked a bachelor-no problem with that .we talked each day and he said he missed us so much.I came back early and he said he was spending the night with me then his mate rang and ... (136 words)

Strange pimples, spots... Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP! I got back from school and felt my face and I had, what I can only describe as pimples all over it! Now these are not visable at all, but I can feel them all over and its horrible. They literally appeared in a day. I thought it might be heat rash but that doesnt real... (173 words)

I'm questioning everything I feel, for all these four men that have played significant roles in my love life.

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is something of a convoluted problem but I need some advice on how to deal with it.. I had a pretty strict upbringing (A lot was expected of me) and my parents encouraged me to marry a much older guy that I didn't really have a lot in common with. He was a bit of a creep... (433 words)

What am I supposed to say if I never loved him and always loved someone else?!?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I dumped my ex a day ago because I like my ex-boyfriend before him and I felt really guilty going out with someone I didn't really love First question...my friend told the one I really love that I do and now he is being really nice and cuddly is this just sympathy or... (137 words)

Who is my baby's father?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I started my period on Oct 3. I had sex once on Oct 4 with a man. On Oct 10 I got back together with my ex. I'm now pregnant. Who is my baby's father?... (37 words)

Help me please, should I trust her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi my names jon im going out with my girlfriend weve been going out for around 2 months and its all going great and then she tells me that this other person has told her he's in love with her, and shes going to his house next week !? she tell me she only going as a freind and ... (126 words)

Just found out my boyfriend has kids, after he told me he didn't! Should I dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out after six months of dating my boyfriend that he has kids. He told me he didn't should I dump him ? I have not talked to him for 3 days and he keeps calling and leaving messages about how sorry he is. Thanks for any input someone can give.... (53 words)

My family disapproves of my husband because of his race, now they want to come see our new baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My family does not approve of my husband because he is another race. I married him anyways because I love him and he loves me. I just had a baby in April and now my family decides they want to talk to me and see the baby. I have said no because I am hurt still for them not ... (74 words)

I can't figure out if I want a relationship with this new man or my husband. Should I tell my husband and his wife to get it all on the table?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age - I am married woman in a relationship with a married man for a year. We both have children and are in very unhappy marriages. It was very passionate and "forever" in the beginning. Things have waned a bit, so now we are trying to be friends. We really like each other a lot as... (158 words)

Inquiry about female sexuality...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) age 41-50 - what causes a female to have an orgasm? what hole in the vagina does the pre-come comes from? ... (21 words)

Have you ever masturbated with a friend, brother, cousin, etc.?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - have you ever masturbated with a friend, brother, cousin, etc.? i sometimes do with my brother while watching porn.... (22 words)

Girl problems... no periods since January!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Towards the end of last year and at the beginning of this year, I have been experiencing periods. At first they seemed to be fairly regular - I'd usaully come on every other month at the beginning of the month. I was always organised, and wore a pad a day before I was due on. ... (148 words)

Is my friend a lesbian?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - okay i think my frend is a les she told me she fingers herself and sometimes feels she wants to "do" a girl she is 12 like me is she a les or just desperate or just going thru girly changes... (41 words)

Help my bf is going too fast, how do I slow him down!!!! DESPERATE FOR ANSWER

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 12 and am dating a 14 year old he is really cool and i like him but he is moving to fast for me weve been together for about 1 week and he already wants to kiss and makeout and maybe even see me naked but says he doesnt want to "ball" me until much much later whatever that ... (154 words)

Did I allow myself to be put in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i was talkin to this guy and we were like almost the same. there was definitley a connection between us. and when we were around each other we got along great. i dont think that their was ever a dull moment. we went out and stuff but we were not bf and gf. even though he ... (208 words)

My overcontrolling mom is interfering with my relationship with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I have a big dilema. Its a long story. My parents dont approve of my boyfriend or my best friend. It is mostly my mom that doesnt approve, I havent talked to the rest of my family yet. The reason why she doesnt approve of my boyfriend is because he is mexican, he is 20 ... (473 words)

I don't want to give into temptation! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - why am i turned on by sleeping with another guy i met twice when i am perfectly happy in the relationship im in now? i hate myself for it!!!! and i dont want to give into temptation!! help!!!!... (39 words)

I'm feeling ignored and unpopular at school, and my parents don't believe me when I say I'm unhappy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I no I write to you a lot about this kind of thing. You have given me great advice in the past so I hope you can do so again. I'm getting really down. At school, No-one wants to work with me on group work. I never get in a group with anyone I really like. All of my best fri... (210 words)

What is going on with this friend? I'm confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I became friends with a guy through a good friend. Eventually, this guy friend would call his brother on 3-way and we would occassionally talk to one another. And sometimes we would all hang-out, my female friend, me and the two guys. Well, eventually I fell off with the fem... (394 words)

Straight guy turned on by gay porn!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm a normal, straight, 20 year old guy. I've had a couple of girlfriends before, and have one currently. Recently i've been getting attracted to gay porn. It turns me on much more than the straight stuff, so i'm beginning to wonder if i'm turning gay. I love girls and their ... (111 words)

What process do you go though when you are the one that cheated, how do you reconcile what you have done, do you blame your partner for driving you to it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife has recently cheated on me and we have seperated. She's asking for a second chance. My question is directed at women that have cheated on their partners and carried on. I'm a bit worried the replies will be aimed at saving a 'sister'. Please be honest with me, my futur... (123 words)

Any help from girls! Help, is this a period?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey hey, I started bleeding today from my vagina and methinks it may be periods but i thought id get your opinion.. my blood varys in colour from brownish to bright red is this right?? and i seem to have a continuous flow of blood.. is this normal will someone just giv... (73 words)

We're broken up yet still act as a couple...and I can't take this uncertainty anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have been broken up since March. We still act as if we are a couple. We talk everyday, hang out, speak on the phone, say I love you and still are 100%faithful to one another. However, there has been alot of ups and downs and uncertainty on his part. When i leave hi... (373 words)

He's never cum with me at all, and we've been together for 6 months!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend now for a good sixth months and we've had sex and I've given him oral and hand jobs but he just doesn't cum at all. He's been close but it's never happened once. I feel like maybe I'm not doing the best I could in bed but my boyfriend really... (118 words)

I feel like I'm a gay man in a woman's body, but I'm not transgender. Who do I talk to about this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive always had issues with my sexuality - I can remeber having crushes on girls since the age of 9, and then developing feeling for boys later on when i was about 12. I've always fancied boys and girls since then and went all the way through high school being bullied because ... (418 words)

I found explicit text messages on my bf's phone, and it's eating away at me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently went through my boyfriend's cell phone after an argument, and found some very detailed explicit sex messages indicating some oral sex acts he performed on her and how she wanted to do certain sexual things to him again. He does not know that I know. It has been ... (143 words)

I've been cheating. I need advice on how to move forward.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been cheating on my boyfriend of 8 years i have been unhappy for about a year .i have now finished with other man but despite this i am still in love with him .my boyfreind knows i cheated and left but i told him to come back and he did. i have 2 children what should i ... (60 words)

People say I'm gay and I'm not. How do I stop them saying it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i need help people say im gay but i dont think im gay what should i do to make them stop???!! ... (25 words)

Can I delay my period?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am going on holiday this summer and I don't want to be on my period as I will be in a bikini alot, maybe even skinny dipping, and will be having fun with guys. I have heard that I can postpone my period using the pill so I don't have it that week, but that is all I ... (81 words)

Spots, bumps, dark colouring, different sized labia - can someone give me some advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

- Im worried because I know its normal that one of the inner labia is bigger than the other one (i only noticed it bigger about 6 monts ago) But anyway my problem is that they look strange like made from bumps. The very tip of the minoria is a very dark colour. Whats this? Als... (82 words)

I met a girl and got her number, but now she won't respond

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl at a gig about 10 days ago. we start talking and after 20min chatting i asked her for her number and she said yes but only if you give me yours too. two days later i called but she didnt pick up the phone so i send a txt asking her out but i got nothing that ... (540 words)

I have lost interest in everything. Is this depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5189 days ago

14 May 2008 (F) age 51-59 - hi all, I think i maybe depressed. I am not sure as i just cant understand anything. Right i live abroad with my husband, dont have the language (trying to learn for the last 3 months) very difficult. Anyhow, i have lost all interest in doing things, like his friends b... (349 words)

Is he interested or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, im 18 and at the weekend me and my friends went away for the weekend. My friend brought this lad along with him and we started chatting. Im going to list what he said and did and i would love if someone could tell me if they think he's interested or not. •He asked... (189 words)

I think about girls when I masturbate. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5821 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

- Heya, Im a young adult who has had a couple of boyfriends, and im very sure im comfortable with my sexuality. However, sometimes when I masturbate I like to think about girls. However out of that situation, in my day to day life, I really do not find women attractive in that ... (69 words)

If someone cheats on you when they are drunk, does that mean it's intentional?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - If someone cheats on you when they are drunk does that mean its done intentionally? My boyfriend has cheated on me when he's drunk, but when he's sober he would never......what does this mean? Can people that have cheated change as well once they have realized their ... (50 words)

A part of me wants him back, but I'm in an amazing relationship now! I have no idea what to do...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry this will be abit long last year i started a relationship with a boy who lives a couple of hours away from me, we didn't really care at the time. but then we broke up because of it and it completely tore me up inside. we started to have a good relationship as friends ... (156 words)

All I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I am going to summarize everything and all I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this. My GF before she met me: Slept with 18 people, involved in group sex, cheated, had an abortion, stripped for coke, lots of one night stands, would get drugged up a... (208 words)

What are the chances that I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, just a quick question. I understand none of you are going to be able to give a definite yes or no answer, I'd just like your opinions. So, last night just before I went to bed, I went to the toilet and noticed that there was a little circle of blood on the tissue. Real... (219 words)

Do I follow my heart or do I just do what my family wants me to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, it has been six months since I talked to my ex. He called me last night and told me that he regrets letting me walk out of his life and that he would do anything to have be back in it. I still have fellings for him and he still has them for me. The only problem is that he ... (144 words)

Hurt, confused and broken....help.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i got married last year. me and my husband had a fairytale relationship before we got married. now we have spells of really highs or really lows. I got raped at fifteen, and his beginning to bring it up alot recently. we go through periods where we sleep apart and in different ... (136 words)

Can anyone offer any advice on how to cope with a difficult break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know whats going on with me. Ii hate and love my bf all at the same time so I have decided to leave him for us both. But what happens when they're not there anymore? After coming out of a 2 year relationship in which we are and were very close, what am I supposed to do? ... (107 words)

Part of me loves him and part of me doesn't. Am I just wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for sixth months now and at the start it was great, we went out and had fun and I really enjoyed being with him. Completely thought 'this is great, I'm falling in love' and unfortunately that's not the thought that I have now. ... (479 words)

I am pregnant and getting married, but now I'm not sure he loves me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am pregnent and is about to get married. I am in love but i dont think he loves me back. he tells me he loves me but he doesnt show it. he breaks all his promis he doesnt call to check up on me. i barily see him. he always say hes busy farming. pretty much he doesnt have the ... (113 words)

I Love someone I work with. Now she's moving away. Should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm quite confused on what to do at the moment. I realized a couple of weeks backs that I've actually fallen quite hard for someone I work with. We've spent a bit of time together both at work and outside of work. It seems like she has feelings for me as well but she may not ... (158 words)

I'm scared of failing to please him. Giving him oral isn't working.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age - I have recently hooked up with a new partner. After a certain amount of guidance from me he can give me fantastic oral. I have been told many times previously that my blow jobs were the best ever but I don't seem to have what it takes any more. Last time neither oral nor hand ... (150 words)

Why isn't she getting pregnant? We keep trying...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my partner have been having unprotected sex for 18months now! she is 19 and im 22.it may seem young but we are financially stable and want a baby! but she dont seem to get pregnant! is there a problem with either of us?... (45 words)

I'm taking care of everyone and no one is taking care of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of hard to explain so I'll just start at the beginning. My friend is seven months pregnant and throughout her pregnancy I have been taking care of her. I walk her to class, carry her books, talk to her when she feels down, tell her that she looks beautiful even ... (260 words)

My fiancé left and it's affecting my health. I need to know everything.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 34 year's old and my fiance just left me just under 2 weeks ago. I've never been dumped and I'm not dealing with this very well. I've lost alot of weight and I don't leave the house. I really feel he left me because he got involved with someone else. He denies it all the ... (102 words)

Is it possible she could lose interest so suddenly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - im so confused. theres this girl ive met who i really like. ive met up with her a couple of times at the weekend when we'v both been out in town. she says she would like to go on a date but ive asked about three times and theres always been an excuse. the excuses do seem qui... (227 words)

Should I go back with my fiancé or should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My Fiance and I recently seperated. (April 10th) We had been dating for 6 years. We were engaged. We were living together. We were bestfriends. We were soulmates. Planning to spend the rest of our lives together. We both had wedding bands. I wore mine with pride. I had a spec... (629 words)

I'd like to go on a date with her, but I think I might have been too keen. Have I made a mess of it all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I gt talking to a girl a couple of weeks ago from a dating site (plentyoffish.com). She said she was just looking for dating, nothing else. We messaged and texted for a couple days until I mentioned 'girlfriend' in a message. (I'd like to date instead of having a full-tim... (264 words)

I have a huge crush on my boss! I don't know what to do about it...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a 23 year old girl who has a huge crush and doesn't know what to do. I have had a crush on my boss since I started working at my job five months ago. He is about five years older than me and I don't think that's a bad age difference, but he is engaged to be ma... (215 words)

My wife cheated. Now she writes stories and poems about other men.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

14 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife cheated on me while we were dating. I forgaveand forgot and we got married two years later. After we were married about 3 years she did it again with someone else (about a year ago). She came forward and appologised and asked for one last chance to prove herself. I ... (107 words)

He won't let me meet his mother. What's going on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

14 May 2008 (F)

age - My partner and I have been together for a year and a half and during that time although he’s met my parents, he has deliberately engineered events to ensure that I’ve never met his mother – who only lives in the next street! We’re not yet living together but the old lady can... (727 words)

My boyfriend is insecure about me being smarter than him

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for over two years and I love him more than anything. I would consider him my best friend because I feel completely comfortable with him. I can tell him anything and know that my secrets are safe. We're very committed to each other and ... (477 words)

My boyfriend is in the army and I hate it.

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14 May 2008 (F) - My bf has been in the army for just over two years now and I hate it. I really didn't want him to join up in the first place but I stuck by him and his decision. I have never been overly happy that he is in the army and it is just something I have lived with but it has now got ... (291 words)

21 and I've never had a real relationship, how do I overcome this?

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm currently a 21 year old junior in college. I have never had a real relationship with a girl. Its not that I don't hook up with girls, I just can seem to make relationships work. I always get bored or over it once I start to hang out with a girl for awhile. Am i just scared ... (84 words)

My sister gave me oral

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14 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I woke up the other night to my own sister giving me a blow job! I thought I was dreaming it. I woke up I asked her to stop, but she said you must like it as I was ready to complete. She had been drinking I think. She is 5 years older than me. IT really freaked me out, ... (77 words)

My boyfriend only cares about himself. Where is his respect for me?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i know i am only young.. but i really would like an answer to this problem if anyone can.. ive been with my boyfriend a year and a half and one time when we had sex i didnt want to do anything because i wasnt in the mood and just wanted to spend time with him. for some reason ... (150 words)

Is it okay if I have sex with my friend?

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 15 And One Of My Girl Mates Wants To Have Sex And Where Not Goin Out. Is It Ok if i Do Or Will i Feel guilty After. Is it Ok if i do have Sex With her? ... (39 words)

I feel so alone knowing my partner loves another.

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14 May 2008 (M)

age - Hi I feel so alone knowing my partner loves another. She does not know that I am aware of this relationship as one of her friends told me and says she would leave in an instant for him. Our relationship has been rocky but good in places. We have been together on and off thro... (110 words)

Does he secretly want me back?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is, does my ex secretly want me back? My ex and I had a very close relationship off and on for about 5 years. At one point we were living together and engaged but the relationship ended on account of some growing up and dealing with personal problems on both of our ... (217 words)

Please help me, does she deserve another chance? Do I?

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi,Me and my girlfriend were dating for about a month and a half. There were many reasons for me to be somewhat untrusting of her because she has cheated on me twice. But the first time it happened i had no proof but i had A witness. She said that she couldnt remember what ... (378 words)

My parents have stupid rules about my girlfriend. How can I fix that?

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well tonight my gf came over and was outside with my friend and i who just got done with a run.. so my mom and dad say we need to go somewhere else to hang out bc my gf was there and "she's not welcome here" at my house bc of an unknown reason at the time.. well i was like ... (335 words)

I'm not in love with my husband, what should I do?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm not in love with my husband and want to leave but don't know how. He has become a perfect father and husband but I am not in love. We've known each other for 12 years and have been married for almost 10 years. Right from the start, he was in love with me and moved from a ... (503 words)

Tired of being hurt. What do you think?

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm only young, but have gotten turned over a couple of times already, what with girls cheating on me etc. I've kind of come up with this kind of theory there 'are no rules to life', other than avoid being the loser. For instance if you do the cheating you ain't going to b... (66 words)

I started dating a player, broke up with him, now cant get him out of my head, help me!

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14 May 2008 (F) - A couple months ago, I was dating a guy that went well for the first 2 weeks (infatuation phase), and then we got physical (kissing, hj, fingering. no sex). I enjoyed it and felt that he sincerely liked me (although he seemed like the player type, but normally girls go after ... (431 words)

Does anyone else just feel run down?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I have no purpose, im tired all the time and i find im short tempered all the time....I am happy i have a great boyfreind i just feel like im missing something in my life and i dunno what it is....Does anyone else just feel run down? ... (50 words)

My girlfriend is taller than me now, will I catch her up?

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and 5'9.5".I have only grown 1/2" since last August. My girlfriend and I began dating when we were 13 and I was the same height I am now. She used to be around 5'6" when we started dating. She started growing and is now 6'2". She always talks about how she loves being ... (119 words)

Is it o.k to date someone because they are only engaged?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My grandma is trying to hook me up with a waiter that she sees every weekend at a local resturant. She dragged me in thier and I met the waiter he was good looking and he seemed to be interested in me. But My aunt informed me that he was engaged. I was taken back by this My ... (103 words)

Does 'keep in touch' mean something more to him?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If he says he definitely wants to keep in touch with you, especially after meeting him only 2 times, and have being doing so since (for a year and a half now) I mean of course as friends, but he does actually. But, could he being saving something for a future, especial... (93 words)

Female Orgasm question!

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Could someone please name and describe the different types of female orgasims?... (12 words)

I want her to be my wife, not his!

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with my cousins girlfriend and they are engaiged. I want to tell her how I feel before they get married. I know my cousin will be mad but I can't live without her. what do I do? I know that she still loves me we dated two years ago and her mom told me that she said ... (123 words)

I want to believe him but I have doubts about his relationship with his ex!

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am having an incredibly hard time figuring out what to do about my bf and his ex. They are best friends, and although I love that, I have been having second thoughts. I recently asked him if he wasn't dating anyone and if ex would have him back, if he would date her a... (288 words)

Should I get involved with him?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - kay so this boy has just recently started talking to me. he seems really cool and stuff and i'm really starting to like him. yesterday, he kinda asked me out and i said yes and then he kissed me. i guess we go out now but i'm not really sure. he kissed me today in front of ... (221 words)

Could unprotected sex cause dizziness?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - havin unprotected sex with your boyfriend could that be a problem for the fermale a little bit of dizness each time they have sex?... (24 words)

Am I just allowing him to play with my heart?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - So m hubby and I had a misunderstanding. Few days ago--He said he would get online to talk to me, and I waited most of the night online for him but never showed up. I never got an email until the next day saying that "the internet was down, and his cell died etc" and i really ... (236 words)

Are my friends right in saying we don't have history because we weren't "boyfriend and girlfriend"?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OK so I've been talking to this guy for half a year now...but we no longer talk. But my friends say that we dont have wehistory because we were not boyfriend and girlfriend. How do they expect me to accept this. This guy has played a big part in my life, I can't just pretend he ... (85 words)

Why cant I trust the women I love? Does every man go through this?

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem , I cant seem to get this feeling of doubt out of my head with the women I love. I feel one day that she will never part with me, and the next just by a change of tone in her voice sends me thinking I have to look for some one new? I need some advice on how ... (100 words)

Does it get any better? Do I drop hints or tell her it was blah?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So my g/f (i'm also female) finaly returned the favor, but the first time it was blah. And it has happened like 4 times since then, but it hasn't gotten any better. What am I to do? I don't want to say something and offend her. And I definatly don't want to say some... (93 words)

How can you tell the difference between pre-cum stains and semen stains?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - How can you tell the difference between pre-cum stains and semen stains?... (12 words)

Did he lose interest or get scared?

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14 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I met this guy (24 yrs old) through a friend. We started dating right away and seemed to really hit it off. He was so funny and outgoing (great to make me laugh), but it took him many dates before he kissed me. (Guess he was shy? didn't seem like the shy type..) The night he ... (549 words)

She backs out at the last minute for whatever reason. Any ideas what's up?

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, here it goes... I have gone out with a decent amount of women and am puzzled by this one. Generally speaking, I would just chalk this up as a loss, but I'm not sure if I should. The two of us went to school together years ago, haven't seen each other in the past 15 ... (277 words)

How do you think he'll react if I called him?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I know a guy from a business meeting a year and a half ago, and we´ve being in touch since by email. He lives in another state so it´s like long distance. How would you think he´ll react if I give him a call? I do know he´s with someone else, but we are friends. How will he re... (121 words)

I don't have kids yet, but I'm considering quitting my job to be a stay-at-home mom.

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm considering quitting my job to be a stay-at-home mom. I've been working all my life. I don't have kids yet, but planning to soon. I heard it gets lonely. Should i do it?... (36 words)

He's leaving for Afghanistan, I'm terrified something will happen to him, and he wont know how I feel.

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm married to a serving British soldier. After moving to Germany with him, i ended up sleeping with a work collegue. I felt awful, disgusted and ashamed, and so i told him what had happened. About a month later he came home drunk and assaulted me for over 2 hours and atte... (123 words)

I regret hanging up on him and now he wont call me. I want him back!

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey please help. I broke with my boyfriend and we have had our fights. We had a very big one day. We called each other names and that is so not me. He called me after the fight, but of course i hung up on him and i regret it. Now he doesn't call me anymore. I feel stupid b... (146 words)

Can anyone think of a way to have this girl forgive me?

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm in quite a complicated situation and I need advice. This weekend i'm having a sort-of double date movie watching party with friends(2 boys and 2girls, one of the girls i'm setting up with my friend, and the other girl let's call her Red, i have had a crush on her sinc... (298 words)

I'm upset, because I think I've ruined my chances with her. Please help.

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I like this girl at school. When she was in my class she acted all girly with me and likde me to sit beside her in science. Then she had to switch out of my classes. Now she doesn't even talk to me. then it was this girl that i am totally just friends with who is now begi... (146 words)

Does she like me or him?

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I used to be somewhat of a social recluse, and one day this girl told me that I really needed to come out of my shell. So I started to and I began to like her. She is always asking me questions and seems to like it when I talk to her. She also points me out to people. Howev... (111 words)

Any tips on how to let the guy at work know I like him?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I like this guy at work. How can I let him know without being too foward or unprofessional? Any tip? I'm super shy around guys. (I've been turned down several times before) ... (32 words)

The prom is in a few days and I can't dance! Can anyone help?

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14 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - prom is in few days. I cannot dance and dunno wot to as Im going with a girl who expects me to dance. Any websites or anything that might help? ... (30 words)

Did he break up with me over sex?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ugh=( heyy everyone! I have been so stressed out lately, you see me and my ex split up about idunno 2 weeks agoish and drama seems to circulate me whereever i go. People have told me that he broke up with me due to me not letting him hit it...He knew from the start I wasnt li... (120 words)

Which one should I choose??

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years going on 4 and he's proposed to me and has my named tattooed on his chest i love him with all my heart. but we've been having problems and he hasnt called me like he should. i dont get to see him that much jus once a week and usually ... (203 words)

Is the saying 'true love never dies' really the case?

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14 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to re-unite with an ex after being apart for awhile? Is the saying 'true love never dies' really the case? I am apart from my ex and miss him dearly.....just wondering if anyone has some positive stories. thanks!... (41 words)