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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm considering having sex with my longterm boyfriend, however I'm extremely worried about the pain!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - It's approaching my 16th birthday and Im considering having sex with my longterm boyfriend, however I'm extremely worried about the pain. The non-virgins among my friends have all said it hurt and Im really scared. Is there anything I do to help with the pain?... (51 words)

I've developed deeper feelings for this guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - ok so i really like this guy. but hes 5 yrs older than me. and im 14. he calls me and stuff and we and has become friends. but i've grown deep feelings for him wat should i doo? =[ ... (44 words)

Are these signs he might be opening more or that he likes me a bit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just made a trip to Japan so I emailed I guy I like and that we kept in touch for a while now, some pictures of my trip. And he said they're were beatiful pictures and that he hasn't had the chance to go there so he hoped I had enjoyed it for both of us! He never had adressed... (129 words)

She's going away soon - do I ask her out and risk the friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Lately i have been wondering if i should ask one of my best friends out. The only thing is i wont see her for 3 months when she goes back home for summer. A while back i took her out for lunch and had a good chat and from that point we became really good friends. Earlier... (258 words)

Did she cheat, or doesn't it count? does it matter? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - here is one for you all... I'm stuck on what to do. I started dating this girl a month or two after she got out of a nine month relationship with some guy she said she was in love with. I stopped dating her because I thought it was premature. She was in a circle of friend... (649 words)

Where do I stand with holiday romance turned long term thing?

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1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy on vacation who i really like...we've been back a few days now but he lives far away...he calls me all the time and says how beautiful i am and how much he misses me....when i asked him on vacation what we were he said "for now,having fun" he calls me all the time ... (202 words)

He is the perfect guy but he will not claim me!! He does not call me "his girlfriend." Should I keep my options open?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this guy since january. He is a real gentalmen. He calls me every morning before going to work to tell me to have a good day. He also says don't let those people stress you out at work. All the GOOD stuff. But for some reason he won't call me his ... (179 words)

I want to convince my ex I have changed, that I am no longer "clingy." Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I have a huge problem. I'm deeply in love with this girl who happens to be my ex from about two years ago. She's dated several different guys since our break up, and all of those relationships failed horribly due to them treating her badly. I have also been in several ... (149 words)

Is my grirlfriend planning to cheat on me in this vacation since she does not want me to accompany her?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I need desperate help. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half. Things have been a little down lately due to my side of the family issues accepting her. She plans on going on a business trip abroad, conveniently over memorial day weekend (for 5 days... (160 words)

Has anyone heard of linkng?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What does linking mean? Recently, boys having asking me and my friends to link them and none of us know what they mean? At first, we thought it meant to snog but we are now unsure and we are really confused. Is there anybody who could actually tell us what this actuall... (66 words)

I do not have planned parenthood clinics in my location, are there other alternative places for free birth control?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I live in North Dakota, and here we do not have a planned parenthood clinic, and I was wondering if there were any other clinics around here that you can get free birth control at.... (36 words)

He says he really likes me and insists that I do not forget him... but he is in a relationship already!...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy i really like and he likes me to and was afraid to tell me so and i was supposed to be his girlfriend but this girl ask him to be her boyfriend and he told her yes.. even if he is with her he often told me that he loves me and he wants me but i told him i will ... (116 words)

I feel very inadequate about my age as the exams are approaching. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 in a few weeks and I have my exams coming up, but i feel really weird as if im too young. I'm pretty small for my age (5"3 ish) and i just feel really tiny. For example, the other week i had to wear a size 18 dress for a drama production and get it to fit properly ... (179 words)

How can I show him I'm 'Dateable'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy in my year at college, I'm 18 he's 17 but it feels like we are both the same age, anyway age doesn't really matter. I really like him but I think he thinks of me as a little sister. Is there any way I can show him that I'm not and I am dateable?? I dont want to... (109 words)

Confused about my feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

1 May 2008 (F) - I don't know what i want or what to do! me and my ex have been broken up for about over a month now and we haven't spoken much coz i stopped talkin to him then he randomly asked me why i stopped talkin to him n i said wen i hav somethin to say i will talk. and now i keep... (341 words)

Girls appreciate me for my advice and maturity - but why then can't I find a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Why can't I get a girlfriend? Every girl I meet loves me because of my advice and maturity, kindness and I am reliable but no matter how much they tell me to stay the way I am and that the world needs more nice guys like me I can't get a girlfriend. They just don't see me in t... (239 words)

I have not met my dad thus feel weird among men, my friends suddenly changed and I feel overwhelmed by my problems. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - lately everyone seems to be falling out with each other, and i think its because of our exams looming ahead. but my two best friends have gone. with no reason at all. theyve both changed so much and that itself has been getting me down. as well as that ive been thinking of my n... (455 words)

Weight problems, period delay and suspect urine smell - what could be the root of my problems? Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay girls, if anyone can help me i could really do with some advice. I’ve lost in the past few months a bit of weight, 54kg to 48kg so now i’m considered as underweight. my period came last month okay, but this month it hasn’t shown up. urine smells weird aswell if t... (131 words)

I don't understand why he doesn't offer me oral any longer! Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and we've done everything. I love it when he licks me out but he doesn't do it anymore. He says he will do it but when it comes down to him actually doing it he doesn't want to anymore. I don't see what the problem is becau... (122 words)

He is going to college and I am so scared I'll lose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, i need some advice, some comfort. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and eight months, he is talking about staying together forever. I am ok with him talking about it, but what bothers me is he is about to go away to college he is going into his juni... (142 words)

I found out my boyfriend joined a sex dating site. I don't know what to do.

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hey all, where do i start, well im new to this but just so confused ,feel like i could talk to someone better, if they dont know me, than friends who give advice, not saying that we wont become friends on this site but you'll understand when i say what my problem is..here ... (209 words)

I said awful things to my boyfriend. Should I just let it go even though I'm sorry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend half a year ago and haven't spoken to him in a month. The thing is I said some awful things which I am ashamed of now. I had just found out that he had lied and cheated with lots of other girls the whole time we were together and I was very angr... (125 words)

Am I a slut? I need to know if this is normal for teenagers to do.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - when i was 16 years old i dated my brothers friend,i dint like him that much cause he wasnt that gorgeous and i dint like his nature either..he wanted to have sex with me but i dint agree as i said i dint like him..i did not kiss or make out with him either.the most we have ... (258 words)

When do breasts stop growing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - When your breasts start growing, do they keep growing till you're, say, 21? Or is it possible that they stop growing before that age?... (24 words)

Is my ex running a scam with my phone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was right in the middle of something at work when my cell phone rang....looking at the caller ID it was my OWN cell phone number. I didn't pick it up because I thought my phone must be acting up. I put it in my drawer and went back to work. Then I a few minutes later my ex (... (126 words)

I'm scared I might be pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - i take mycrogynon 30 contraceptive pill i had sex with my boyfriend he always wears a condom but it broke he didnt cum though there might of been some pre-cum there though will i be pregnant i am so scared i wolud like an answer sent to my email address thank you [moderator c... (80 words)

My wife wants to be painted nude. Is this normal?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age - Hi my wife would like to have a nude painting done of her and is quite turned on by that fact that people will see it. is this normal or what... (37 words)

How do I avoid bad relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

- Ever since last year I have been on like an emotional rollercoaster. I havent stoped feeling overly emotional and overwhelemed. It all started when I started dating my ex bf who was emotionaly abusive. I was with him for almost 1 year. I broke up with him thinking my life wou... (199 words)

I'm married, but my true love is back in my life. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have this problem i have been married for nine years now,which were not always happy times. 20 years ago i dated this guy in the 9th grade. i knew then he would be the one for me, but we some how loss contact with each other,bot never broke up. i thought about him on a regu... (186 words)

It's the same old routine every time. I need more foreplay.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Whenever i have sex with my bf its always the same routine. i toss him off he fingers me i give him head FOR ages! then he jumps on me and we have sex. And ive tried everything i can but i just cant come straight out with it, i just cant but he needs to understand i... (175 words)

My girlfriend talks to her ex. Are they really just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all! Thanks for taking the time out to read this... right...so, me and my girlfriend are very much in love and evrythings going great...however, shes still in touch with her ex and tries to hide it from me...I know some of you may think I've got a trust issue going here... (214 words)

My wife watches porn while I'm at work. Why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5149 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i recently discovered that my wife is watching porn when i'm at work. is this normal? is she doing it for personal pleasure because she is'nt satisfied by me?... (30 words)

10 years older than me and I'm in love. Is it a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Have a nice month to everyone!! Well what will you prefer most?: a nice relationship with a man or a woman at the same age with you..or with a man or a woman older than you? I like a guy which is older than me 10 years! I'm just wondering if our relationship will have a... (150 words)

A three year relationship and no sex. How long can it go on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Im Not sure what to do about my reationship. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years now and living with her for the last 2 yrs. We have never had intercourse yet because she is scared of getting pregnant and probably would like the security of marriage an... (310 words)

She's only doing because I want it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I've been having sex a few times. The problem we're facing here that though I give her every sexual satisfaction(and she herself says she's really happy by that), she doesn't feels likely of giving her head, a blowjob that is. I openly asked her and she does... (94 words)

He's gone grey and I'm embarrassed. How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - this may seem a bit like a dumb question but my boyfriend is gray/white at 30 and i'm finding it really a turn off and a bit embarrassing- how can i talk to him about it? because i think he needs to do something. I don't think i'm being unreasonable here, my bf and i always ... (404 words)

I can't stand my wife. Should I leave her for my lover?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my other half for 7 years now and been married for the last year.I have a job which takes me away for up to half a year at a time. My other half somewhat pushed the marrige on me before i went away last year and this time i've come back I just have no int... (330 words)

I've been dating him but discovered I like his friend more, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, there is this guy that ive have been on date with and he is really nice. but as ive got to know his friends i have started to like his best friend more. we get on a lot better and people have said that we go better together. what should i do? ... (53 words)

Do you have to be swept off your feet by a person right off the bat for them to be a great match?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you have to be swept off your feet by a person right off the bat for them to be a great match? I've been dating a guy for a few weeks now. I'm looking to start a serious relationship, so I don't want to waste any time with someone I don't think would make a serious candid... (215 words)

I want more sex. Is it his age and will it get worse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

- I am in a bit of a bind and don't know what to do. I have been in a committed loving relationship with a man almost 20 years older than me (I am 24). The problem is sex. He would be happy with once a week or fortnight while I start to not cope after two days. I have tried so ... (151 words)

We seem to be growing apart. Is he taking me for granted?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

1 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. I love him, but after a couple years it feels we are growing apart. He works a lot more than when we first met. I keep asking him to make dates for us to hang out, but he doesn't seem to be able to plan ahead for me. Wh... (438 words)

I want to ask her out but I don't know how to do it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i work at a pizzaria, and there is this girl who comes in alot to get pizza, well i would love to ask her out or get her number, but shes only in the store for about 2 minutes, and everyone is around so they would definatly hear me ask her out, which would embarrass me becuase ... (148 words)

Me and my best friend like the same guy. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well me and my bestfriend like the same guy, and its kind of hard to tell her that i like him, cuz in the last few days she has been really depressed, and i dont really want to be another reason for her to be sad. i really like this guy, and i think he kind of likes me too, cuz ... (153 words)

I need to get over him, but he's my boss. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! I need some advice. Ive read all the stories about married men and am past all of it, Im past all of the hurt...and am now in the realization stage that he will never leave her, or the newborn baby he JUST had. The problem is, in previous forums, I am reading that I h... (172 words)

Help me to get him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend(well ex now) have been dating for seven months. we both love eachother more then anything we broke up about two weeks ago it was a stupid argument and for the first week he regreted it and said he wanted to get back togather, but he really hurt me s... (182 words)

Am I over-reacting or just crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were hanging out today, and everything was going fine until his best friend's g/f told me that he cheated on me with one of my ex-friends, and i heard about it but he told me that he wouldn't do that because friends are completly off-limits. He said that he ... (190 words)

It's really bothered me that he didn't send me even a card on my birthday.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

- I have been in a long distance relationship for about 4 years now. My question is: Should I expect a B-day gift or something from my b/f? My b-day was on sunday and I was hoping my b/f will send me flowers or a b-day card, but he didn't. This is my first b-day that we are ... (200 words)

Trust me I love pain and pleasure, but with him it hurts so much, I cry!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are having sex, and I've had sex plenty of times with my ex's with no problems, but with him it hurts, like so badly I've cried. Trust me I love pain and pleasure, the two were made for each other, but I can't take that, it's so painful and it wasn't just... (72 words)

I feel this extremely strong love for her, yet extreme sadness at the same time. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question about my feelings for my g/f. We have been going out for over a month, and have been best friends for about half a year. I truly think I love her, but she has had sex before several times with multiple guys. The relationship she has and with me has supposed... (145 words)

What are some girls "turn on" spots?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm wondering what are some girls "turn on" spots? Like all I know with my girlfriend is neck, knee/thigh's, and ears. Are they're more that I could try out?... (34 words)

I was shocked when my friend told me she was no longer a virgin.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Yesterday my best friend told me a secret. She told me that she wasn't a virgin anymore. I was in total shock. I thought she knew better than to do something like that. I don't know how to explain it, but ever since she told me that she wasn't a virgin anymore I see her ... (85 words)

Does he have an anger management problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is normally a loving caring man, but once in a while he looses control of his anger and verbally explodes. He often does this over seemingly small things. It doesn't bother him if our 3 year old daughter is around, or if he is in a public place. It is always dire... (114 words)

I've totally lost my trust in her, and we don't seem to communicate. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I spent some time abroad because of some family issues, nothing to do with my wife. She was very understanding. Whilst I was there, she told me she started talking to somebody on the internet and he was just a friend, so I did not think much of it. When I came back, 3 months ... (279 words)

Why would a man who loves his wife and family keep me around? I want us to be together!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have known a wonderful guy for over 20 years -we have been having an affair for 15 years. I have loved him all this time. He has been married with kids all this time - I've been married and divorced twice. Although we have never discussed this, he will never leave his wife. ... (83 words)

He has lots of casual sex buddies, will I be different?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid Am stuck in a rut and really confused as to what is going on and what do i do now. I have this male pal whom we've been chatting and talking via phone for the last 6 months, at first we started out just being pals, talking about anything ranging from work to rel... (420 words)

Can this relationship work despite our troubled history?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's the thing. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. Both having experience horrible relationships in the past, we took it very slow to start, but were both ver afraid of being hurt again, so he ended it, hoping that we could still be friends, but ... (243 words)

How can I avoid having an affair with this woman at work?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age - I'm married and have a baby but I've been attracted to this woman at work for a few years, and I believe she is attracted to me as well. I don't plan on breaking my marriage vows, but I can't get her off my mind. Any suggestions on how to stop these strong feelings I have for ... (81 words)

Could it be something more than a crush? I think I'm falling for him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, i have this huge crush on one of my friends. He is very good looking, has a wonderful personality, and we have a lot in common. Everytime i see him I get a weird feeling in my stomach and i get all tingly. I think about him all the time. I am really nervous when ... (368 words)

He has tried to get away from his girlfriend because of how he feels for me but it hasn't worked!! She doesn't even want to have sex with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have history with this guy! A couple of years ago I had a one night thing with this guy i worked with at the time. It went pear shaped because, he had a girlfriend and I got over him! A few years later there relationship is nearly over as his girlfriend doesnt want any ... (358 words)

My boyfriend comes from an abusive background. Should I be worried if he abuses our cat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating over a year now and I couldn't be happier with him. But, he comes from an abusive background and that worries me. We have a cat that we bought together. He likes to put her inside the bath tub or shower because he says he doesn't want her to ... (78 words)

How can you tell when someone is moving on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6075 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i miss him so much. we went through too much bullshit though. but i love him, and he loves me, but im scared hes beginning to move on, how can i tell if he is. because i rebounded to a new boyfriend almost instantly for my insecureness. so, i cant tell the difference betwe... (71 words)

Could he be pushing me away and not realize it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i get the feeling that he is pushing me away but he doesnt realise it. we have been together 19 months and ive always had these little doubts in my head that sometimes something bad is happenin but ive always been wrong. i get this feeling now that he is getting over me...in ... (350 words)

I have three seperate problems, can you help me out please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

1 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am seventeen and need some help. I have several problems. First, i have really liked this girl for about three years now, but she says she doesn't feel the same. I understand this but can't get over her, because she wants to be friends and is so nice. I mix up her kindness... (202 words)

I get the feeling he's got past issues and comparing me to them.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

1 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Six weeks ago started dating this guy. He's not very cuddly i guess you could say. I noticed he wanted to move very slowly. That's ok....always seemed to do the things he wanted to. One night he took my vehicle and drove his son and girlfriend home, he didn't ask me to go and ... (160 words)