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writes:i have been told my boyfriend is meeting girls off the internet. how do i find out if this is true?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): First of all ask yourself all these questions before deciding what to do:
1, Is a really reliable source?
2, Why do they think this?
3, Would they have any motives for saying this to you when it wasn’t true?
Have you been told that he is just meeting up with them and talking… Or that he may be trying to work himself into a relationship with them?
4, If you asked him straight out do you think he would be honest?
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reader, a-g55 +, writes (28 May 2008):
 u feel upset that a guy u once thought so much about is finding intrest in other girls. and i understand u want to know if u are bieng mugged off coz im sure u dont want to be wasting ure time with a guy who doesnt realise that u can actualy be sum1 elses one and only!! so u asked the question "how do i find out if he is" the previous person to me who answer the question didnt answer the question so i will! download a keylogger on to his computer that logs all the times the keyboard is pressed. change the icon and make it discreet and hide the program on a secret folder somewhere. some programs will send reports to email of activity on the keylogger. if u see anything suspicious then bust his cheating ass!!!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (28 May 2008):
Ask him. You don't need to hire a private detective just yet.
Ask him why there are rumours about it and ask him to reassure you by showing you his email inbox, or not going out without you for a while.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): For some people, relationship is about trust.
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reader, nita  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 1st ask him if he trusts u.then ask if u can have his name and pasword 2 some of his accounts or profiles on websites bcuz u dont feel like creating ur own.then if there is a friends list on 1 of the sites and sum1 is online c if it is a girl and talk 2 them but act like u r your bf. if the girl says anything about ur bf being hot or sexy or anything like that then ask ur bf about the situation.maybe this can work out 4 u.it was the only advice i could think of so srry if u dont find it useful.
goodluck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): Talk to him and ask him outright. If you find out that he is then what next? Will you finish with him? Think before you open that can of worms.
take care
xx
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