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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:do men really just move on or is it just a front. is he going throught the same hurt and sadness that i am going throught, why do men make it seem so easy to move on after a break up. And how do i move on when all i can do is think about he and that he is not calling and how much i miss him and that he is not thinking about me. i am hurting so much
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reader, yummyummy123  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 me an my guy been on an off for 3 years an well i know the pain it causes thats for sure. Heart ache sucks.
But i have read that men do a better job of covering up there emotions. Females tend to wear there emotions on their sleeves sometimes well men dont. Were more likely to cry well they can think about it but not be as upset. Yes, they probably are upset too but they are a "man". Suppost to be tough.
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Perhaps men do a better job than women of just saying to themselves, "look, it's over, forget it". After all, once the door has been slammed once, it's never really the same again is it. But everyone has emotions, and maybe you need to analyse the fact that perhaps the relationship meant more to you than it did to him, and that's why he is finding it "so easy" as you put it. That's tough, but it really is better to chalk this one off to experience than try to fix something that is probably never going to work. It's natural to grieve a little for the relationship that didn't work, but after a little while it's time to pull your head out fo the sand and just move on.
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