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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I being paranoid because of his previous betrayal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok to cut a long story short my husband cheated on me once before and I forgave him. Its not been easy and I do not want any advice on something I want to forget. I just need to know if I am now paranoid or have the right to be worried. We went for a drink with some friend... (359 words)

Do these symptoms suggest that I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a pickle. Please help. I slept with a guy about 5 weeks ago with protection. My period last week was a few days late but very painful. I can't be too sure as to why it was late, but I believe this to be down to stress of my exams. I got tablets for the pain and ... (192 words)

It is getting harder and harder for me to watch this "love rectangle" go on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - As my friend Ashley said this instead of a love triangle this is a love rectangle: Kate is my best and roommate. On her boyfriend of five years, Tim's 21st birthday another one of our friends, Dave, told her that he was falling in love with her. In an effort to not make ... (330 words)

I only get to see my Gf once a week and feel lonely when we are apart, is this a problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Not sure if this constitutes as a problem but I wanted some input on this. I've been with my girlfriend for quite a while (around 7 months) and I only get to see her once a week, when I'm not around her I sometimes feel lonely, any advice on what I can do?... (53 words)

My divorced BF wants to take our relationship to the next level, how will I tell him I'm a virgin at 38?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I think my divorced boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level but i dont know how to tell him i am still a virgin at 38, what do i say to him as i am not sure how to tell him, i dont want him to think there is something wrong with me being a virgin at 38, ... (73 words)

Is there any way I could be pregnant without having full intercourse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hello. I am worried, and I know it is probably for no reason. I have never had sex. I am on the pill because I get really bad menstrual pains, but a few weeks ago I missed it for a week, and I have never been very good at taking it on time, because it is not for anything ... (153 words)

Kissing... a big problem. Any help with the tecnique?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have tried thousand times but till date am just a loser.though my bf have been very supportive and helped me but i just can't give him a smooch. Its not that i don't like his taste,though it was a problem earlier but now its been long time that i like his taste but still do... (142 words)

I want to try cunnilingus one day but I feel it's disgusting... how to get over this feeling? How to start?...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i want to try cunilingus one day because the i hear it's satisfying to ladies. but i feel it's disgusting. can anyone tell me how it feels like in your mouth and how it smells? i have this feeling there's a bad oduor in there. how do i start?... (50 words)

Am I being too picky? I think he's capable of doing some of this household maintenance by himself...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in my early 40's. I am an Aries and a giving person who loves to make others happy. I was married at 25 for 8 yrs, and divorced. I have since dated 2 men each for 3 yrs and the one presently now for 2 years. The first BF had a drug problm, the 2nd was a nice guys but ... (245 words)

Inflamed lip on vagina, what could this be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Anyone please help, I've noticed that I have an immflammed right flap on my vagina. I've had unprotected sex with my boyfriend because I'm on the pill but he is clean I think. What could this be? Please help I'm really worried.!! Thanks.... (49 words)

I am married, love another man who doesn't love me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married for the past 10 years. I married when I was 18.My husband is 12 years elder to me. I was doing my graduationwhen we got married. Now for the past 3 years , I have a relationship with this guy who is a colleague at the instituion where I do my PhD. He is not ... (178 words)

I want closure on this! He's making me out to be the bad guy to mutual friends. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I'm hoping that someone can help me with this issue that has been hanging over me for a while. Sorry it's so longwinded but I feel I have to tell the whole story, and if someone would take the time to read the whole story and help, I would be very grateful. My ex ... (535 words)

He said he still had feelings for me, but I think it was the drink talking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi I went out with a guy for 2 and half years and we were in love but I ended it as he wasn't around for any more, I changed my mind but he didn't want to get back together a wk or two later we spoke about it and he said he didn't love me any more. I didn't try and change ... (138 words)

She was drawn to me because of my guitar playing. Should I send her song lyrics, nothing too sappy, just light and funny! I don't want to push her away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - Hi, I was dating this girl for a couple months, doing the long distance thing while she was at college. When she came home from school she said she didn't think we should see eachother because she didn't want to get attached. I txted her a little more than I should have pr... (212 words)

How do we move to the next level? Need your help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi guys! i really like this guy and he likes me too we have fun together but i wish we could move to the next level,like a relationship,buti dont know what to do to get him to ask me. so i need your help.... (44 words)

My BF accepted his brother into our lives, knowing he was a nuisance! Can I even trust my BF now, let alone MARRY HIM?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for three years. He is Iranian, Last year his brother came to England. He stayed with us for about a year - my boyfriend had told me his brother was very good. I discovered this was a lie. He takes heroin and has also caused many problems in t... (298 words)

My husband insists that we have a MFM! Is he gay!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age - Why does my husband want to have threesomes with his long time male buddy and me? When he first tried to get me to do this by playing stip video games, I was very upset and went to my bedroom alone in tears. He continued to try to get this arrangement going with numerous ... (70 words)

Guy trouble! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i was with this guy for 12 days, however i still have feelings for him, he dumped me a few months ago. since then he never told me why we broke up or anything. everytime i try to talk to him we always end up arguing. it became really bad when he took a joke abit too far,... (343 words)

Knowing about her past makes me feel inadequate, but I love her! So why do I feel like running away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My problems kinda about jealousy... So i'm really, really close with this girl. we're not ''official'' but only because I wanna give it time, we do everything a normal young teen couple would do. My problem is with her past...It isn't that slutty at all but it makes me fe... (186 words)

I can't stand to see him any more, but our daughters are good friends. Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I split some months ago, after a 2 yr relatyionship from a guy. We tried staying mates because our children got on well. My daughter is a bit of a loner, but she gelled real well with his daughter of the same age. They are 11. But recently things turned nasty and i wont go near ... (120 words)

I got a present for my boyfriend! Should I mention it or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

- I got a present for my boyfriend. I'm so excited about giving it to him, but at the same time, I don't want to tell him what it is until I see him. Do you think it's annoying that I told him I got him a present but I can't tell him what it is? Is it better not to tell him I got ... (80 words)

He seems to have vanished, we go to the same college and have been getting to know each other. What's happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy from my college started contacting me on Facebook a few weeks ago, telling me how much he liked me/'missed' talking to me. I replied after a while and we started to see other around at college. He would tell me some very personal stuff and kept saying how much he loved ... (156 words)

I'm in love with a mature lady, the problem is that my classmates are making jokes about me! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear agony aunt, I´ve got a really big problem. I´m in love with a mautre lady. The problem is that my classmates know it and they make jokes about me. The girls in my class laugh and that makes me angry!! Why cant people leave me alone. I just want to live the way I am doi... (91 words)

'Truth or Dare' game leads to an awful revelation by my wife! Am I over-reacting?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been cruising this site on and off for a while. I like to read the questions and have even given my own advice a few times. Now it is my turn to ask for advice. My wife and I had a party last weekend. After the group dwindled down to 12 or so we started playing truth or... (365 words)

How do you get over an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my ex for over 2 years and fell deeply in love with him it was fantastic! I lost my virginity to him and doted on him. We split up last september due to their being an age difference and i was really depressed for 4 months. In April I met another guy who is closer to ... (121 words)

I'm having trouble trusting him completely after he cheated. I know he's been in contact with her because I snooped! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my b/f for bout 7 years. he cheated on me 3 years ago, i found out we broke up and got back together. ive been trying so hard to trust him again but just cant do it completely. i check his emails and he doesnt know this, i feel bad but cant tell him i do it. so i ... (192 words)

When we found out that we both liked the same girl, his exact words were, "let the competition begin". I'm furious with him!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend met a girl last week. He told me, "You two would really suit each other". I shrugged it off, he always says things like this, besides it takes alot for me to fancy someone. Im sure ive been a whole 2 years without liking a soul before. I met her a day later and ... (507 words)

He told me he can't trust me because I didn't tell him what friends and family were saying about him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a serious relationship for 3 years, my boyfriends friends and family have been saying awful things about him to me. he lost his job he has children and they call him worthless. I didn't tell him and we are supposed to be moving together and I told him because I ... (158 words)

Should I send him a "congratulations on your divorce" card to his parents to let him know that he has no power and control to stop the divorce, and to let him know that I am no longer his stupid little wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my ex was a horrible nasty piece of work and loves to control and is a power freak but since december (just gone) i have stood up to him and given him abit of his own medicine!! see how he likes to be abused although i only gave him about 1% of the treatment compared to the ... (271 words)

Will guys see me as a slut now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering if i was a slut. Its been on my mind for a while now. I am 15 and I am not in a relationship but lost my virginity recently. He wasn't my bf, but i really like him and don't regret it. Well anyway I did most things with him (bj, ect)so i was wondering am i ... (73 words)

What should I do? Tell her about my true age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - i met my girlfriend when i was 13 she was 18,i told her i was 16,im now 23 and she's 28 what should i do/how should i tell her? (p.s we never had sex before i turned 18) i would also like to know if iwas ilegal for me to like make out with her a hold hands while i was that... (65 words)

Any advice on dealing with my unreliable mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I hope you guys can help me out with this. My mother is really upsetting me! Not only is she one of those nagging mums, who get on your nerves and interfere with EVERYTHING you do! But it seems as though she doesn't care about me anymore. My life is full of disappointme... (501 words)

Is this rape or sexual assault?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5140 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem with my boyfriend - he wants sex and every time he tries to put his penis inside of me it really hurts. Last time we tried to do this he would not stop trying and I ended up crying - he then became violent and covered my mouth up with one of his hands to try ... (165 words)

My long distance GF is moving close to me but I recently started feeling that we are totally wrong for each other!...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my gf for 7 years. We began dating in college and continued to date through grad school but at that point it was long distance. I guess we have had a long distance relationship for 4 years. Now she is finally moving to be near me where we both got new jobs ... (142 words)

Why can't I stay away from this woman that keeps making up then breaking up? Why am I in this childish relationship?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - What a mess I have made of my life. I met the woman of my dreams 10 months ago. Tall, beautiful, funny, sexy, great career, an absolute dream. Things were amazing immediately. The chemistry was out of this world. After a few months of dating we talked about moving in together ... (1502 words)

How do you lose resentment and stop being angry with someone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you stop feeling angry towards someone? I lent my ex some money when we were together, before anyone says how stupid, it was suppose to be for 2 weeks until some money came through, i believed him when he said it was definitely on its way, and i'm not even saying h... (261 words)

I met my GF 6 years ago and to this day she is unaware of my real age!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - alright i have been with my girlfriend for 6 years,problem is when we met she was 20 and i was 14 but i told her i was 16 it was still young but not as bad i knew if told her my real age she wouldn't take a second look at me.im now 18 and she's 24.what should i do cause i kept ... (71 words)

I want to find my birth father - but I have none of his details... Any ideas?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I have a problem in that I know nothing about my birth father - except his first name. I desperately want to find him and I have tried everything from my birth certificate (which doesn't have his name on it) to friends reunited and facebook but with no luck. I think i... (144 words)

Why has he become so distant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My husband and Ive been fighting for some time. I think he cares more for his job than for me, he's assertive and attentitive more to his job. Like, he's emotionally disattached himself from me. Our fighting has really calmed down in which there is none, which is pretty ... (348 words)

If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies as early as 2 months, will it only get worse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

- If a relationship shows signs of sexual abuse, and controlling tendencies, as early within the first 2 months, does that mean it will only get worst??? is it best to end the relationship now before it gets to bad? ... (39 words)

Is it illegal for a 15 year old to go out with a 30 year old?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i just wanted some advice really im 15 and going out with a 30year old is it illegal?? ... (21 words)

I'm feeling neglected...is he being a bit selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm dating older guy (47), I'm 39. Things are somewhat ok. Lately, I feel neglected. It seems like all I do is play taxi/chauffer to him. All we do is go to stores and out to eat. How do I tell him I need more excitment than just going out to eat all the time, wihout ... (89 words)

He doesn't make any sounds when we make love...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a boyfriend.we have been together for a year and ahalf. When we make love he doesnt make any sound he so quiet that i wouldnt know if he is enjoying himself. Well i asked him why he's quiet? He told he he doesnt know and he said i also dont make any sounds of which i ... (85 words)

My best friend likes a girl and I'm playing cupid to find out if she also nurtures feelings for him. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, ok my mate(a lad) really likes this girl he's at college with. She seems like nice girl, i've spoke to her on the odd occasion but now we've started talking more i've got her msn. Thing is we are becoming beter friends and talking more so what would be a good way of ... (160 words)

We'll meet as friends but I'm hoping there's a chance to win him back, how do I play it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age - We went out on 5 dates, then he met someone else, but didn't tell me for a while. I didn't contact him for 3 weeks, but phoned him yesterday, and we had a really good chat, and said we'd meet up for coffee... but no date was arranged. (We do get on very well, so are only ... (89 words)

It has got to the point that my BF makes me feel like I am worthless, like I do not know anything, etc. Should I stay for the good memories??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok.. so I have a problem too.. I am 18 years old and I just finished my high school. Just when I was 15 years, 3 years ago, I started a relationship with my boyfriend, and everything went ok. He loved me so so so much and I loved him too. At that time I used to live with my ... (380 words)

What makes a guy try to pressure a girl into sex and think it's fine to not respect her boundaries??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

- What makes a guy try to pressure a girl into sex? What makes a guy not listen to a girl when she says 'no'? What makes him think its ok to not respect her boundaires? And what makes a guy so controlling? I know those are all general questions, but im just curious as why some ... (102 words)

What is wrong with my so called friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) age 41-50 - Hi i would appreciate any advice you all can give me. I have this friend, she had been going through a hard time in that she separated and i was there for her when she needed me we worked in the same company and go on very well (or so i though) Anyhow there has been lit... (311 words)

We are going to soon discuss our differences face to face, how can I tell him I am ready for more in spite of my young age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i have hit a really rough patch he is talkin about breakin up as i think the age diff between us is gettin to him (am 16 and he is turnin 22) i really dont want it to be the end but he keeps talkin about how he doesnt want to rush things cause am 16 and we're not ... (141 words)

Can a boy really change for a girl? Stop smoking, drinking, doing drugs etc?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can a boy really change for a girl? not look wise, but habbit wise, such as stop smoking, drinking and doing drugs and start trying to get a good education? i met a boy who i have known for 3 weeks, we are both 15 and he has told me he loves me and will change for me- i am a t... (195 words)

I just found out about my best friend indiscretion and I do not know if I should get angry at her or simply just ignore it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My best friend complains that i dont tell her things. She wonders why ! I have just found out that something that i did tell her , she went back and told another person what i said. and she wonders why i dont tell her things. I'm so annoyed . I dont know whether to get angry at ... (74 words)

Is cybersex classed as cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - when i was with my boyfriend i was having cybersex online with another man, is it cheating? ... (19 words)

We are expecting our first child but she did not want to stay together for the sake of the baby as she no longer loves me, I cannot imagine being intimate with another woman...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I split with my girlfriend 2 months ago, we are expecting our first child, she did not want to stay together for the sake of the baby as she no loger loves me. I feel very lonley very isolated, every night i dream of my ex and i wake up upset because they feel very real. I ca... (161 words)

I have not started my period yet and am worried...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am slightly worried i have not started my period yet and i am in year nine but my discharge has started going brown should i be worried ? i need some advice thanks ............ (45 words)

He left his wife and is now begging me to give him another chance, I'm confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year i got involved with a married man at work, yes stupid i know, anyway it went on for a few months before he decided that he'd made a commitment to his wife and he should give it another go, so we broke up. However now he has left his wife after realising that he made... (163 words)

Does his porn preferences mean he is gay or bi?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband, Does mean he is gay or bi? Been married for a few years and have kids together. He often watches porn and masturbates. I know he likes to watch 2 girls or threesomes. He really loves going down and swears he is a p...y man. But lately he has watched porno th... (174 words)

She's been dating someone for 6 months already, but I want her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've had a crush with this girl for 3 years in high school since my sophomore year. We both have several classes together during the 1st year and our chemistry developed pretty fast. We often glanced at each other but we both turned away abruptly as soon as our eyes met. ... (192 words)

She was perfect for me...but I still couldn't give myself to her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

30 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, my name is Daniel. I'm a 24 year old male from the Bronx, New York. A few years ago, I was 21 and dating a woman I knew from a college class. We dated for almost a year and connected in all sorts of ways: she was friendly, cared for me, we were into the same kinds o... (665 words)

How do I avoid getting sucked back into the snake-pit?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Just yesterday I broke up with my ex. It seems to have been a long time coming. We always (Me ending it) broke up.. over stupid little fights. All the time! But then he would not leave me alone for a few days and i would cave. He was the first person I ever rea... (163 words)

I don't think I am being unreasonable I just want to enjoy quality time with my man undisturbed by any one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I met my boyfriend last year on holiday and fell in love with him. He is a caring and loving person we have a lot in common and most importantly he makes me laugh. We live in different countries and I recently flew to his country to stay with him on a sh... (949 words)

I love a monster, I don't want to be abuse anymore, I need to find a way out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Read my other 2 question to know more about my situation,please any ur help. My baby father has done all he could to make me feel like shit. He abuse me in many different ways, but i still love him, and have hopes one day he will realized how much i love him. He is a sweethea... (371 words)

My ex has restraining order but is ignoring it and still comes round to threaten me!

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i recently had a child, who is a really wonderful baby and very good, and i love her dearly. the only problem is the babys father, who i recently split up with due to your advicein a previous question. first of all let me say i am very happy that i am not with him as he was ... (129 words)

He has a very high sex drive whereas my libido decreased after giving birth - it does not help that there is no foreplay before the actual sex! How to get my sex life back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend two years and our sex life is non existant due to me. It was fine before i got pregnant with my son over a year ago but now im never in the mood and i only do it to stop him bothering me. I love him and prefer cuddles and spending time with him than... (121 words)

We do love each other but we can't seem to get on with each other... when do you say enough is enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

- Hi there, Ive been with my partner for 3 yrs now and living together for 8 months. To be honest we fight so much I can't take it anymore. We do love each other but we can't seem to get on with each other.. when do you say enough is enough and walk away. I do love him but I d... (119 words)

After realising my foolish and impulsive behaviour towards my ex, I changed and repented completely, but he does not want to retie the string... what more can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to get my ex back...i know he doesn't love me...but takes me only as a friend..we still talk....but the reason he left me was due to my constant questioning about girls messaging him and girls roaming about with him..he didn't have had any affair with any girls....but i ... (638 words)

My husband always waits until I am at breaking point to say how sorry he is, the niceness then lasts for only weeks! I'm at my wit's end!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been with my husband for ten years, married six. we have 2 kids. sex was never brilliant, he has ed, but the first year was great, then it slowly got worse. i will cut this down for the average reader!!! I have over the years caught him watching porn, he denies it but ... (533 words)

The sex is unsatisfying, what can I do to save the relationship?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello again aunts =) I am having a little problem in my relationship right now. My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now and we currently live together. He is a wonderful man, but he can never seem to please me in bed. I bring it to his attention all the time and ... (142 words)

My BF of 4 years constantly cheats on me and does not even try to hide it...

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30 May 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend of 4 yrs ( within this time frame has been unfaithful over 6 or more times that I am aware of) but within the last year has been faithful until 6 months ago, but now is in another side bar relationship with a married women, I also know who she is but she is unaware ... (182 words)

Am I being unfair if left my long term GF in the middle of all these trials in her life? I'm in love with another woman, who is married.

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30 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm really torturing my mind now and I do not know how to move-on quickly and forget all this emotional pain that I'm experiencing. I have two (2) concerns. 1. I'm in a relationship right now with my girlfriend and we are already 10-years. In seems that I'm not... (275 words)

My question is, is it intimidating to a guy to know that I am a virgin at 20? What would the first impression be?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright heres the scoop: I am going to be a junior in college and I have never had a boyfriend nor have I kissed a guy. Honestly, there have been plenty of guys that have wanted to do stuff with me but I have not really liked any of them enough, and now im to the point where ... (218 words)

He drinks too much and abandons me in the weekends, should I leave him?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just wondering if anyone would know what to do if they had a boyfriend that was always drinking going out all weekend even though we have been together 6 years now and we have a 2 year old daughter and im 5 months pregnant and he keeps saying he wants to marry me but i ... (97 words)

Why do women believe married men's lies? So many seem to fall for them

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30 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been reading through posts about affairs and cheating, and there is constant theme that I keep encountering that boggles my mind. I am hoping readers out there could help answer this for me.... In most of the posts, where a woman is having an affair with a married m... (400 words)

Had sex with the ex and current boyfriend, both unprotected, now I'm pregnant, I don't know what to do?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I'm a 23 year old college student. My boyfriend broke up with me to go back to his ex, and by my own nature of not wanting to be alone I returned to my ex boyfriend as well. I was on my period for the first week that my ex and I started dating... Which was Apr... (224 words)

Is my boyfriend still in love with his ex, he says he is unable to commit to me, what should I do?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm going out with a guy who describes himself as "emotionally unavailable" and doesn't want to commit to being in a relationship. He said he's not sure what it is exactly but it could be a combination of some or all of the following: -He's still in love with his ex who broke... (276 words)

Can I forgive after he cheated and got a girl pregnant?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you forgive your husband after he has cheated. And made a baby with another women during your marriage.... (20 words)

Is my long term off again on again boyfriend a drunk? what should I do?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have been with the guy on an off since I was 17, we are now 40. we shared a house together in 2003 in which we were both in seperate relationships but both did not work out as we wanted to make the relationship work although he still since has lived a single l... (264 words)

Should I put up with my boyfriends bad behaviour?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I need some good advice. Well recently I've been doing not so well financially. This has caused me to move from my home into my fathers, then from my fathers to my boyfriends and his moms house. I couldn't stay at my dads because my stepmom is always arguin ... (236 words)

Is getting really wet bad/nasty?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am wondering.. is getting really wet bad/nasty?? like i mean really. i haven't been horny lately but i guess i was and this boy fingered me and he was like my fingers are so wet while he was doing it.. so is that a bad thing?? im really embarassed.... (50 words)

How long should I wait before I throw in the towel and just realize he's just jerking me around?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me, and I feel torn apart. I can't seem to grasp my mind around the fact that we are not together. I need help moving on, finding my footing again, and regaining the desire to leave my house. Perhaps providing some background might... (217 words)

What can I do to make him trust me again?

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30 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My partner and I are going through some tough things. We've been dating since Sept 2006 and I did wrong to him. I always said I would never cheat on him n I did. I kissed his best friend and talked to another guy behind his back. We weren't a couple after the 1st situation but ... (187 words)

She thinks I will cheat on her because she does not want vaginal intercourse, but I won't. Any suggestions?

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30 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My current girlfriend will not have vaginal sex until she is married, but will do oral and let me reciprocate. The problem is I am not a virgin in the slightest and have had many partners. We have run into some of my ex's together or seen girls hitting one me and always gets ... (247 words)

I want to feel an orgasm. Am I doing something wrong?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - okay--so i've been having sex for a while, and i still dont think i've "came" yet. i mean it gets really wet, but thats just an atomatic reaction. i constantly feel like i need to pee durring sex, and i almost feel like if i let my "vag" muscles go loose, i will pee. so i'm ... (95 words)

So, do I tell her, risk a very painful let down, or leave it, and let my friend go for it?

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30 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, So for months now I've been absolutely madly in love with a girl who I'm very good friends with... She's had a long term boyfriend who's just broken up with her, and I really want to tell her. Two problems: 1. She's way out of my league. 2. She's having sex w... (141 words)

Is it wrong for me to date my friends' brother even if she said it was ok?

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30 May 2008 (F)

- Hey everyone, Here is what is going on. I am really good friends with this girl, we will call her Erin. We have so much fun together and always love being in each other's company and everything. However, she has a 19 year old brother. I am almost 18. Anyways, her brother... (186 words)

When is my best shot at taking the plunge and asking her out?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this really pretty girl. She is really beautiful, no joke. I used to be on the heavy side, but after meeting her and becoming her friend, I have been motivated to lose weight and get in the perfect shape. I wanted to do the because I wanted to look good when I finally ... (216 words)

Don't know what else to do, looking for solution to get her back for good!

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30 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - my gf is 45 and i am 37 e have been together like 15 months and broke up many times she always doing the breakig and me falling to pieces and not giving the space she wants alway convincing her to give it another try this time she says she has run out of patience ad wants to... (172 words)

Emotions or reason? Which one to follow?

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30 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Emotions or reason? Which one to follow? I met her twelve years ago while traveling (became barely friends). I liked her and visited her once more few months later. I had decided not to come back. She was young (19 and I was 28), little careless, I had a job lined up and stu... (403 words)

Should I call or just wait? Help!!

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't talked to my bf for about 3 days. We didn't get I a fight but I was kinda mad cuz when I called him he said he'd call back but never did. Then we text that same day for a little bit but havnt spoken or texted since. Well its been three days and I don't know if I ... (130 words)

How do I get more confidence about sex? My boyfriend is getting bored!!

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend wants to do more in bed, But I usually try new positions with him every time but he still says it's the same old thing and it's getting boring. I say no to certain positions because im nervous after maybe the second or third time he asks I usually do it. but then... (109 words)

Is it wrong if I throw away my boyfriends' divorce papers?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - When cleaning house, I came upon my boyfriends divorce papers. Is it wrong if I throw the divorce papers away myself?... (21 words)

Does anyone have any advice or stories about how long it took to become pregnant after stopping birth control?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was on birth control for 8 years and I have been trying to concieve for 10 months. Does anyone have any advice or stories about how long it took to become pregnant after stopping birth control?... (37 words)

My girlfriend is not able to have kids and I want to. What should I do?

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30 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now. Just recently she had to have Hysterectomy done which means she will not be able to have kids. I love her to death but I also would love to have kids (my own biologicla kids). So, my question to you is what should I... (83 words)

He's 25 and I am 16... should I stay with him?

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm in love with this guy. we're in love with eachother. i'm 16, he's 25, almost 26. we're like, almost 10 years age difference. we wanta get married n 2 years, right after i finish highschool, i wanta take a year off after that anyway, and move with him 2 his place. it's ... (107 words)

I'm crazy about him but he likes another girl!

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - lately i've been crazy about this guy that i really liked but seems like he doesnt like me that way anymore. we stopped talking like he used. and he started hangin out with other girls. so im guessin that im just hurtin myself. but my feelings are very strong and he seems to be ... (74 words)

I want her so bad but don't want our friendship to end!

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30 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Im a male and have a good freindship with a girl that I find good looking and I was to do her.she flirts with me and I with her. I want to do her so bad I get hard almost everytime I see her I jacked off thinking of her about 2 or 3 time. I want to do really bad but don't want ... (73 words)

He treats me like a child and is controlling

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30 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i go out with this guy who i thought id really like. i had fancied him for ages as he's really gorgeous and kind. about a year ago we started dating. at first it was absolutely fantastic and the sex was the best ive ever had, but about six months into our relationship things ... (185 words)