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I can't help but think that I don't satisfy him. Please, it's ruining our relationship, what should I do?

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26 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 months now. I love him very much but every time he's alone he feels the need to watch porn and masturbate. 5 times a week at least. When he doesn't have his computer at his house, he even goes as far as sleeping at his moth... (287 words

I met this guy on the internet...should I see him again and can I trust him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am 15 year old female. I recently met up with this guy i had been talking to on the internet. I know it sounds stupid and that I shouldn't trust someone off the internet, but I really like this guy and I was wondering whether I should see him again?... (51 words

Am I just an obsessed teenager that magnifies and thinks about everything he does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really like this guy and he's my best friend's step brother. I live with my best friend, her mom, and her step dad. The guy I like's name is Jack. Jack comes up every weekend from college and we talk to eachother at night for a really long time. Over the week we talk to each... (177 words

Suggestions I've read just do NOT turn me on - maybe I just don't like it, but I might be missing the point...

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26 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 18. How do you turn on a girl, as in, sex-wise?! I don't really know how to kiss a girl either, like I do, but tongue or not tongue or how much tongue or what?! And what the should I do about dirty talk over the phone?! Suggestions I've read just do NOT turn me on -... (73 words

What should I do with my boyfriend's alcohol problem?

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26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year now. Our relationship is GREAT! We are so in love. BUT when he drinks, everything goes down hill. He just turned 21, and is now legal and I worry about what kind of trouble that may get him in. When he drinks he gets big headed a... (212 words

She says she wants to get back together when she is ready. Do you guys think I should wait for her?

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26 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi, Can anyone help me? Me and my girlfriend split up at the end of January as she got depressed because of her home life, and wanted a break from me as she was pushing me away, and she didn't want to hurt me. We have stayed in contact mainly through text, but she sometimes does... (251 words

We have great sex, however I would like a bit of attention. Is it bad that I feel like this?

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26 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hey everyone, just found the site and it looks interesting. I have a question about my girlfriend. We have been together for just over 6 months now and we have had sex. Thing is she hasn't done anything to me. It doesn't bother me much, however sometimes i wish she would d... (92 words

How should I go about appologizing to her parents

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26 May 2008 (M age 30-35 - I've known my gf now for over 2 going on 3 years and we've been dating for going on 2, and i'm so in love with her and she feels the same for me. High school sweethearts, planning to get married the whole 9 yards. Well on problem...her mother doesn't agree with us dating f... (301 words

I feel he is not treating me as he would a new GF, he's too relaxed with me and does not put effort into our relationship...

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26 May 2008 (? age 30-35 - This is kinda hard for me to explain... I've been with my bf almost 2 years, but recently, we've been fighting more and more. It's hard to explain, but instead of treating me like he'd treat a new girlfriend (sweet, caring, gentle), he's getting to treat me more like me, if y... (128 words

He is my ideal man but I really want to experiment with other men as I was a virgin before I'd met him!

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26 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hello, I am really confused at the momment, since I do not know if I want to be in a relationship, even though I am quite happy with my boyfriend. He is my ideal husband, but I want to experiement with other men before settling down, since my boyfriend was my first love, s... (122 words

I keep crying knowing that he hates me and believes I would want him to go to jail... but I did not mean to call the police, the row degenerated!

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26 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - My bf of 5 years broke up with me. A week ago we had a row about the washing load. It was such a trivial matter but the argument escalated and we started hitting each other. I asked him to leave my studio flat by which he kept refusing so to scare him I called up my mate and ... (521 words

Does this make me gay? If I am one of a kind, does that mean I'll be lonely?

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26 May 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hey! I am not attracted to genetalia of men nor women. The only thing I find sexually attractive in women are eyes and running my hands through their hair. The thing that really excites me is the thought of a man sitting on my face and giving me a hand job. Also I li... (158 words

He got sick after sleeping with me and now won't have anything to do with me, am I sick?

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26 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi My boyfriend want nothing to do with me cause he slept with me and got sick( had Drop).now he says i sleep aroud. i've never cheated on him, please help what wrong with me.Am i sick? where to ge help?... (42 words

How long till I'm good to masterbate again!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

26 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hey, I've been masterbating a lot lately (porn made me go a little crazy) and now I'm still horny but I feel like the tank is empty / my balls feel a little sore. How long till this feeling goes away and when will my sperm be refilled kinda thing? I mean I know I still ha... (71 words

How can I help him?

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26 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - I'm 24 and my partner is 26. We've been together for 3 years now, and everything's been good. In the last few weeks my partner's been refusing every effort I make to seduce him or to have sex with him and I didn't know why until one night 3 weeks later when as I was trying ... (154 words

My ex's cheating has left me insecure and worried about the size of my chest, can you help?

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26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend now for almost a month and we really like eachother, i have never had a good relationship before. the last boyfriend i had, he was my first serious relationship, the first boy i felt i honestly loved.i lost my virginity to him, not fully he ... (415 words

I'm confused about my sexuality, please help!

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26 May 2008 (M age 36-40 - Hey! I am 23 years old, still a virgin and confused with my sexuality. I do not find girls repulsive but I am much more easily exited by the thought of men. However, I am repulsed by the thought of a penis and anal intercourse. When I masturbate I think about a man l... (98 words

Please help, the long distance is causing lots of problems for us!

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26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I just finished my freshman year of college. My boyfriend in high school and I dated for 4 years and I went to college in Florida and he went to New York. To say the least, we didn't make it past a few months away from each other. I have been with three other guys, but i didn't ... (422 words

I am dating a younger guy but worried,,, please help!

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26 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi i am a 21 yr old women who loves my 17yr old friend. He said he feels the same way and has for 1 year now but i have only got really strong feelings for him over last few months. I am although concerned about his age and what my family and friends would say and its really ... (66 words

I care a lot for this boy but he doesn't seem to feel the same way!!

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26 May 2008 (? age 30-35 - I care so much for this boy. But i dont think he feels the same . Sometimes he treats me with respect, but other times , even if a say the littlest thing he flips. Does he have split personality? hurtagen xx... (44 words

Help... I fancy my friend!!

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26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I fancy my friend but I have no idea to say how i feel towards him... I went out with one of his best friends and that did not go well so I think he may think i might not want another relationship. I know he would never ask me out as we are not the closest friends in the worl... (87 words

He keeps saying that he masturbates over me in the Internet... can I take him seriously?

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26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi DearCupid! Derz This Lad Hu Used 2 Tease Me Alot And Was Really Nasty, But Now He's Being All Flirty With Me! And Keeps Saying That He Masturbates Over Me [On Msn] But I Just Can't Take Him Seriously! How Can I Find Out If He's Just Taking The Piss Or He Really does Like... (74 words

How can you tell when a boy likes you?

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26 May 2008 (? age 30-35 - Hello. How can you tell when a boy likes you ? hurtagenn x... (18 words

I called him on the phone after so long and don´t know what 2 think about what he said?

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26 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - A guy and I met a year ago, we did it shortly before he left to his home town in NC. We´ve being in touch by email since as friends sharing jokes, thoughts pictures etc. He wrote me a note saying he´s leaving for a job in South America, so I couldn´t help but to call him and ... (292 words

Should I take a chance with my online dater and really meet for the first time?

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26 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have met this kind and loving man over the internet he gave me his phone number and we have been talking on the phone for several weeks. I love him but i am not all that sure becuz its only been a couple of WEEKS.He is the sweetest guy i have ever known. But see there's this ... (265 words

How do I pleasure him?

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26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - i feel like im not pleasuring "him" so..other than the regular on top and hittin it from the back positions. what else can i do to make "him" more interested? what gets guys excited? and how do i keep then excited?... (41 words

After my sister left the nest, my mother became overprotective of me. How should I speak to her about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok, so my sister moved out about 5 months ago. My mom was having a hard time with it, but now she is perfectly fine. About 3 months ago when she got over her leaving, she started treating me like I was 2. Now she doesnt let me do anything. I want to tell her that I dont want... (114 words

My ex treat me badly and I'm compelled to tolerate his presence as he is in my group of friends. What can you advise?

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26 May 2008 (? age 30-35 - I can not believe it. I am still hung up on this guy that treat me badly. All I have been thinking about is that night. Now this is affecting my socialising. As my friends are all mates with him. And whenever we are out , we are out with him. Am i being selfish ? hurtagenn... (62 words

He's too attached to his ex, should I break up with him over it?

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26 May 2008 (F - Hi, Just need some advice on what to do. I've had been in a long distance relationship for about four years. The problem is that my bf had never stopped talking with his ex nor had he talk her that he is in a relationship with me. They are not sleeping together, but he keeps... (292 words

Should I ask my friend to help me lose my virginity?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5883 days ago

26 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - I'll be turning 32 in a few days. I am still a virgin in just about every imaginable sense (I've never even french-kissed). This is something I am supremely self-conscious about. I also have an anxiety problem which tends to leave me more fearful than the average person. I ... (240 words

Could I be pregnant from sperm on his fingers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok I gave my 1st blow job yesterday and my boyfriend went down on me, My question is, even though after he came, he wiped it all off his hands b4 fingering me, could I still get pregnant? My friends think im paranoid because its my 1st time, but if i can take a morning after ... (82 words

He's my first boyfriend and I'm not sure what to do, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I asked for advice before, the question was: ''I made him give me advice about dating a boy, without knowing I referred to him. Now that he knows, I'm not sure what to do next.'' Well, he's my first boyfriend, and I'm not his first. He knows that hes my first so he's t... (131 words

Every time I feel like I'm about to ejaculate, the sensation fades. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - i was wondering if there is something wrong with going 30 minutes and even 60 minutes not been able to ejaculate?it depresses me because i want to have a orgasm but everytime i feel like im about to ejaculate it stops,does any know of any way i could get a girl to help me ... (55 words

I want to do something to really suprise him sexually, as he complains I do not like sex! Not true! Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - my husband is on a business trip and will be back in a week`s time. i want to do something to really suprise him( sexually). he complains i don`t like sex and sometimes he thinks i am a lesbian.well,i am not.i need tips on how to waoh him and set him on fire and wen is the best... (67 words

He called me by his ex girlfriend's name, should I be worried?

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26 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - ok...my boyfriend was with a girl for five years, aparently it was a rocky relationship and she broke up with him. He persued a couple of relationships since, then went two years without anything. he's been with me now for about eight months, and has made his life plans to ... (168 words

My work colleague often watches me and I recently got caught in a lingering gaze with her. Could she be attracted to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

26 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a colleague at work and am getting very confused by her actions. We are both women of the same age she is single and I am attatched. I really like her and have done for months. She is in charge of the department where i work but is not my manager. she helps me out ... (245 words

My wife says she thinks about the man she had an emotional affair with, when we are together. I feel used!?

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26 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - I am married fo 8 years and was a virgin when I married, My wife also said that even though she had affairs there was no physical etc. Now after 8 years she says that she thinks about the guy and his physical when she is physical with me and her life was roaring with him for ... (102 words

Is it too late for me to try and get his trust back? What should I say the next time I see him?

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26 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. I pushed him away from me. I've learned a lot in these last 3 months that I didn't know before. I've been going to church and attending bible study, not for my relationship, but for myself to change my attitude when I get into ... (293 words

My friends have spread a rumour that I like a certain boy, when in fact I do not. How should I tell him?

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26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - There's this guy in our class, lets say: F. Now my friends tend to tease me with F. I would like to emphasise that I DO NOT like F. (If you have friends, you will know what I'm going through.) So, now, rumours spread and now F thinks I like him. Which, just a reminder, I don'... (167 words

What's the best food to make you feel horny?

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26 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - whats the best food to make you horny ?... (9 words

Are oral sex and anal sex classed as "real" sex?

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26 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - is oral sex and anal sex classed as sex? some of my friends think that a blowjob or anal is no different than kissing someone,but i dissagree i think that they are different types of sex but when i tell my friends they laugh at me and call me an idiot,am i idiot to believe oral ... (60 words

How can I stop sweating?

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26 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - how can i stop sweating? i wear deodrant and it makes no difference... (13 words

I dream of a guy I met, and it feels like I'm cheating

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26 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Basically im in a relationship with a guy i love for many years, yet since i met this guy at uni i dream about him almost every single night! it ranges from kissing to hugging n cuddling rather than actual sexual dreams and its more intimate- i know its just a dream but i dnt ... (100 words

My first boyfriend. I need some advice on things to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I asked for advice before, the question was: ''I made him give me advice about dating a boy, without knowing I referred to him. Now that he knows, I'm not sure what to do next.'' Well, he's my first boyfriend, and I'm not his first. He knows that hes my first so he's taking... (118 words

How can I get over my paranoia about my girl going out of of town on a works night out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - my girlfriend is going on a works night out and because she works out of town and the night is at a hotel i said she should get a room. to which she replied "just imagine all the lads from work would be init" this just burnt my head out. i said if she respected herself and ... (92 words

He said we were back together but is now saying he doesn't know, what shall I do?

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26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok so im fifteen and i am in love. no lie. trust ive loved this boy for a year now we used to be together and it was the happiest time of my life. recently in the last 4 months or so ive met him every weekend and weve always been really close in the last month weve been closer ... (247 words

He is even more distant than before, is it over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

26 May 2008 (F - Been with my boyfriend 7 months. got together with him shortly after a very hard and hurtful relationship. He was there for me and lovely. fell in love quickly and were sooo happy for 6 months. he gone weird the last month and distant. MORE INFO IN A PREVIOUS QUESTION "My boyf... (393 words

Do guys think of girls they like when masterbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

26 May 2008 (F - I would like it if a guy answered this. When a guy starts liking somebody, do they masturbate thinking about them? please answer honestly thank you... (26 words

I'm 3 days late, am I pregnant?

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26 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - i can't take this any more i'm afraid. i just can't be pregnant!!!!!i have my whole life in front of me and my family and friends will be so dissappointed in me. me and my bf had sex two weeks ago. he took his penis out before he "cum". but he's penis was in me when i "cum". we ... (177 words

Will my boobs get any bigger? And when will they stop growing?

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26 May 2008 (? age 30-35 - ok so i had started devloping breasts, and then i just started my period, how will i know if my boobs will get any bigger! and when do they stop growing!!!??... (31 words

I have thought of asking my BF to shower with me and get him to masturbate me with the shower jet. Guys, do you find this odd?

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26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - This question may be a little odd for some people, but I was just wondering how many women out there have used the vibrate setting on a shower head to masturbate... I discovered this on accident when i was washing this area and once i tried it, i found that it was the best ... (280 words

Why this intense pain after we have dry sex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am just writing in to ask a question for the girls who are still virgins. My boyfriend and I make it a habit of having "dry sex", or dry humping...we do this as an alternative to having intercourse. when doing this, we both wear our underwear so as to make sure tha... (139 words

It's a stressful period for him, should I give him time and hope for reconciliation? I started nagging him about commitment and we broke up.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

26 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - I just broke up with my bf...together for almost a year and things were great. We are in our 20s-30s so mature adults here. Thing is we've had different expectations about marriage (I know this is a fundamental problem) and he's going through some stress in his life now. ... (198 words

Husband doesn't mind that I gor physical with a friend but not sure about my own feelings about it..

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26 May 2008 (F age - What are your opinions on this. My husband and I are both pretty traditional, but due to strange events, and alcohol we were with an intimate group of friends and become intimate with one of the women. She is close, and in need right now, both our hearts go out to her. after ... (108 words

He explained that he thinks he loves me but doesn't really know what love is or if he wants to spend his whole life with me!?

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26 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 3 years, we haved lied together for a year and a half and have a 6month old son together. I am very much still in love with him and simply can't imagine not being! Although we've had a lot of problems in the past, things had been going great for ... (474 words

I have been a loner most of my life. Is there any way to change this?

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26 May 2008 (M age 36-40 - Since I became an adult about 3 years ago, I have attempted time and time again to be more normal (enjoying going places, dating, hanging out with friends, etc). For some odd reason, these things are quite difficult for me. I have tried to alleviate my awkwardness by d... (222 words

Since our third child, my wife's sex drive has diminished so I find myself frustrated, what to do?

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26 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - hi im im a relationship with my girlfriend for 6 years we have four children and my problem is since my 3rd child my partners sex life has gone we have done it one it 13 months and now i am get fustrated and think its time to leave what can i do... (53 words

I cant stand this insecurity of not knowing what she wants!

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26 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - I had this relationship with a girl for almost a year. We broke up last december, a very painful brake up. 2 months ago she txt's me she misses me and want to start hanging out again. As i still loved her very much, I agreed on meeting up. We started to hang out again on a r... (312 words

How do I get my boyfriend to realise I don't like obscene language?

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26 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - How do I get my boyfriend to realise once and for all...I don't like him directing obscene language to me, particularly F-bombs? It gives the impression that we have a trashy relationship, which we don't! I never speak to him that way and I have already told him how I feel ... (96 words

Marriage break-up-Does anyone have any advice on how I can move forward and what is best to do first?

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26 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - Feeling pretty desperate today and would be grateful for advice. I am 36 and been married for 15 years. During my 20's my marriage turned sour but it was never bad enough to leave. There has been a lot of verbal abuse and overbearing behaviour on his part and I have retreated ... (446 words

When we talk about the future we see it differently

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26 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - Athough i have a good time with the man i 'm dating this year sometimes when we talk about the future i find that we see it differently. For example he insists that he doesn't want to get married. Although i try to be polite, this is something that irretates me. I don't want to ... (131 words

I hit my wife how do I make it up to her?

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26 May 2008 (M age 41-50 - I Hit my wife four months ago and can't forgive myself. We were in a heated argument and I lost my temper and slaped her in the face. I would never hurt her she is the best thing that ever happened to me and I love her and can't live without her. She said she forgives me but I ... (159 words

Am I pregnant or overreacting?

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26 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Ok, I've been taking Ortho Tri Cyclen Lo for over 2 years and my periods have been like clock work. I usually start Wednesday and go until the following Monday. I have also been sexually active with my boyfriend. Last week, I started 2 days late(Friday)...and it was ... (144 words

I am 13 and so confused about my sexuality...

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26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - ok I am 13 going into High School this fall, but i am sooo confused of who i am. I really like thinking about lesbian stuff and masturbate to it. But i don't know if i'm bi or lesbian or i don't know but i wish i knew what i am. any advice from someone who know their ... (61 words

After 6 months of dating this girl he still has feelings for me but I don't know what to do ?

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26 May 2008 (F age 30-35 - see there is this boy and we had a "thing" for about a year in a half. we never offically dated but we had really strong feelings for each other and it got to a point where we told each other we loved one another which i believe we really do. well he ended things with this girl ... (266 words

What do I do about the married man I have been seeing?

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26 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - I had went out with a friend one night and a guy approached me and started talking to me...i kept seeing the guy in the same place that we have met, and then come to find out he was married and has been with his wife for 10 years...I TRULY LOVE HIM...but he is still with his ... (108 words

My boyfriends ex-wife keeps calling!

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26 May 2008 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriends ex-wife keeps calling. They were only together for 3 years, but only married and together for 3 months. They had a child together, but lost custody a member of his family member, and a few months later were divorced. They have been divorced for several months, and ... (73 words

Do you think he is hinting about thinking about getting into a relationship with me?

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26 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hey guys, I was talking to one of my friends who i am really hot for last night. He indicated to me that he was thinking about wanting a relationship. Well he said that he was thinking about getting into a relationship. We also talked about sex and how we both like to be safe ... (105 words

Should I tell him I have been faking my orgasms?

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26 May 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. We started to have sex within the first year and it was great. But about into our third year... i couldnt have an orgasm at all. I have been faking it ever since. I dont know what i should do? Should i tell him or just try to ... (67 words

Are attractive women expected to be more aggressive with men than normal?

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26 May 2008 (F age - Are attractive women expected to be more aggressive with men than normal? Most women love to be chased, so are we intimidating to men, or what's the deal?... (29 words

I want to get him back..

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26 May 2008 (F age 36-40 - So i written before about me an my boyfriend/ex.... whichever it seems to be at times. We are on an off and have been for 3 years now. I know many people dont put up with it an sometimes everyone gets mad at me for going back but i really love this guy. He usually dumps me ... (151 words

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