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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Gaining this much has me scared to eat, because I look so fat.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, well this is kind of a personal question, but i think i'm about to start my period (this isn't my first time) but i have never gained weight like this before, and like i used to have an eating disorder, and it looks like i gained like 10lbs. (i may be wrong but i don't ... (120 words)

Can anyone suggest any cool 'tag lines' I can call my own at school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, well i am 18 years old..and i am in 12th grade studying in a school in the United Kingdom. I dont have a major problem, but there is something i want your help for. All my friends have their own line or something that they say all the time, so that becomes their line... (103 words)

How do I get my wife have sex with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - How do I get my wife have sex with me ... (12 words)

How do I get my mind off my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am having trouble getting my ex off my mind. It is strange because we haven't been together in over a year, and I don't feel sad about it anymore, but still I think of him all the time even though we don't talk and I am in a new relationship now. It was so hard for me to g... (310 words)

Is an 8 year age gap a major one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dating a boy 8 years older than me. Will this be called age difference? I mean relationship with major age difference or this is normal as normal as when one is just 4 years older??? Any comments??... (42 words)

How old do you think is old enough for teens to be alone with their boyfriends/girlfriends at home?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - How old do you think is old enough for teens to be alone with their boyfriends/girlfriends at home? I know if they really want to be alone chances are they’ll find a way even if parents don’t allow them but what are your views on allowing your kids to be alone with their ... (117 words)

She said she's been "attached" too long and wants to be single and have some space...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 4 years, everything was going well till year 3 when she wanted her space, at that time she never really got it and things went back to normal. Last weekend she just broke it off, she said that she has been attached to somebody ... (135 words)

How can I tell my mum I have a boyfriend? Are there any parents out there can help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really have a good relationship with my mum, and I really want to tell her about my boyfriend, he is 23 which I know is a lot older then me, but I wouldn't let him hurt me for the world. I know he is not perfect compared to my sister's boyfriend but I actually like ... (71 words)

What would you think if you found out a friend had punched his 3 yr old?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - If you had a mate who always bad-mouthed his ex girlfriend who has his teenage son, and always says it's because of her that he doesn't see his son. But then you were shown a neswpaper report which says, your mate years ago punched his child at 3 years old for breaking a xmas... (68 words)

Worried I won't "do it" right!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for a quite a few months now, and have never been in a rush to do anything. He knows I'm not ready for sex, and he's supportive of that. I want to wait untill i'm legally old enough, in a stable relationship and all that. The other day he asked me ... (146 words)

How can be both relax more so we can enjoy sex together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Right erm ok me and my gf have been together for 7 months and known each other for about 14 years ish. I stop over at hers most of the time and because her parents know me so well they don't mind that we sleep together. They trust us both and her mum has always been paranoid ... (346 words)

I don't have the guts to ask him if he's in this relationship just for sex. Can you help please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just started seeing this new lad.. Seems amazing..i don't know what to do though, as i have been messed around so much in the past. I don't want to be hurt again. I don't have the guts to face up to him, if he is just in it for the sex, or if he wants a relationship from it. ... (74 words)

I don't know whether I should throw everything away with my boyfriend to be with this other guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a relationship which has lasted a year and a half, suddenly i start texting this guy who's really really nice but i don't know whether i should throw everything away with my boyfriend to be with this other guy. I dont even know whether i still love my boyfriend, and i kn... (67 words)

Do I tell him she's cheating, even tho' I promised I wouldn't?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my good friends has recently started to date the guy i fancied. They seem good together, but i found out she had cheated on him. Do i tell him even though i promised her i wouldn't? Please help. They are both my friends.... (47 words)

My best friend is gay, but he wants to start a family with me, I'm confused. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So my aboslute best friend is gay. I'm a senior and he is a junior we met two years ago but we are incredibly close. He has been gay for quite some time (since middle school) and has had many many male partners and was against dating girls because they are gross. We are so clos... (179 words)

Is he giving out signals towards me, or is he just being friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, there’s this boy (call him A) who’s 1 year older than me who I have a crush on, but is ALSO my best boy mate. I haven't known him that long - about 4 months. Basically I’m confused about his feelings towards me. Yesterday me my best friend (G), her boyfriend (R) and A went... (247 words)

I recently found out he'd been looking at pictures of "tgirls"....

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm a 24 year old businesswoman and my husband is 26. Our sex life has become non-existent lately - every attempt I made to seduce him was refused, even when I wore sexy lingerie (which he used to love!) I recently found out he'd been looking at pictures of "tgi... (209 words)

Who does he like, if he's flirting with me and my best friend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If a boy keeps flirting, but is doing it really serious, and is doing the same to your best friend. Who does he like ?... (25 words)

Am I insecure...or is this a real problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know to a certain extent it is normal to try and interpret the actions of others but I guess I do not know what is healthy and what is not. The man I am seeing, who seems well-balanced, and is friends with some of my friends, so comes with accolades as a good guy. He was... (223 words)

In my mind, she shouldn't have cheated in the first place. Any advice on what I could tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I've got this girlfriend that's been married for 16 years, and just last year cheated on her husband with her boss for a little over a year. They've ended the relationship about 6 months ago. She fell in love with him and I am my wits end trying to figure out what to ... (89 words)

After 9 yrs my boyfriend left me and doesn't want me back...does he mean it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend left me and doesn't want me back. I asked him to collect his stuff from my house and go for good. He still hasn't been, do you think this means that deep down he doesn't want to go for good and just wants a break? I can't cope without him, we've been a couple ... (63 words)

I have no relationship drive...please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've got this weird situation...well, i just dont have a sex drive, i know this sounds normal, but its not just the sex drive im missing - its everything. I know when sombody is attractive, but i never have the urge to want to touch them, or like them any further than a frie... (152 words)

I feel as though he's having second thoughts about us, is he giving this guy a chance to be with him and pushing me away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am gay and in a relationship with someone that i love and care for so much. We have been together for a year. He was married once before to a woman but divorced after she found out that he was sleeping with a guy friend of his. Iam currently living with him, and a few mont... (302 words)

I heard that everyone on campus says my boyfriend doesn't take our relationship seriously!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he gets on well with my good friends, A, B and C who I've known for the same period. He plays and jokes with them so that they can feel free around him. But many times their play fights end in arguments (mostly between ... (233 words)

I'm damned if do and damned if I don't, so what do l do I now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I really have no one to ask about this. Okay, I'm 40, I've been married, had several relationships, etc. I'm not new to the whole relationship thing is what I'm trying to say, I guess. But, about 2 months ago, our office got a new employee. She's 26, very smart, funny, g... (308 words)

Is money getting in the way of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I split up last October because he announced he doesn't want a girlfriend. When we split it was completely out of the blue. He has his own business which he is struggling with and I thinks it's impacting his self esteem / self worth. I don't think it helps that... (287 words)

Why am I not getting any response from her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M) - Hello people, i need your help....again I like this girl and i would like to think she likes me. Anyway, i was talking to her a couple of days ago and we were having a laugh, now when i go to phone her she doesn't answer, when i text her she doesn't reply, and when i msg h... (106 words)

I shut down about a year ago and no longer want to be with him. How can I get him to understand it's over for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for over ten years and during this time he has let me down over and over again. He is irresponsible, a cheater (caught one time), lacks motivation and always says he is going to work on things. I shut down about a year ago and no longer w... (105 words)

I'm so deeply hurt and desperately need some wise advice.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I would truly appreciate some advice/opinions on a really upsetting situation that I have recently found myself in. You won't believe the unbelievable piece of bad luck that I and my girlfriend just experienced... I'm 31, my girlfriend is 28, we've been goi... (806 words)

I don't know how to tell my partner of 2 years that it's over.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my partner for 2 years now, but i recently found someone else that treats me better. I don't know how to tell my partner of 2 years that it's over. Can anyone help me?... (38 words)

We parted ways because he didn't seem to care about my feelings, or at least I think that's what happened.

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6 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help...I was recently seeing a guy and we parted ways because he didn't seem to care about my feelings, or at least i think that's what happened. He hasn't called or tried to contact me. I cannot get over this. I really liked him but i don't feel he is in the same fram... (99 words)

He tells me he loves me all the time, but doesn't show it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm really worried about my b/f, he has been funny with me and we have been together for about 8 weeks. He tells me he loves me all the time, but does not show me that he means it and everything. I really like him but don't know what to do, i think i need to be sexy for him,... (68 words)

How can I learn to calm my nerves so as I can pass my driving test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey all, I feel i have no confidence in passing the Irish driving test the third time. I've been practicing like mad, but i know i can do it - only i feel my nerves are not going to help. Please help, i'm trying to calm down but to pass would be a major step of inde... (58 words)

What's the definition of adultery?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age - Technical question - Are you committing adultery if you aren't the married person in the affair? If you are the girlfriend of a married man, are you still considered to be an adulteress? And would you only be his mistress if he supported you in some way? Or can you call a ... (69 words)

If I wanted an abortion would the doctor tell my parents?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a quick and really weird question but I still would like the answer. If I'm pregnant (still waiting for results) then I really don't want any one to find out at all. So if I went to the doctor and wanted an abortion what procedure would I go through and would the doctor... (65 words)

He's paranoid and depressed coz I'm going to college

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm in my last year of school, with only this week left of school till my exams, and then I'll be off to college in September. My boyfriend has been really depressed lately because we are in the same school and he's a year younger than me and soon I wont be seeing h... (281 words)

I was a carer. Now I have a relationship and time it's like too much time

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6 May 2008 (F)

age - For 5 years I have taken care of a grandmother and grandson. Now I've met someone love at first we live together my grandson's mom is back in the picture and my grandmother is being cared for by my mom. Everything just fell into place. My problem is however my boyfrien... (79 words)

I had a one night stand and he is the father of my baby. What will I tell my son when he gets older?? Please I need some advice on what to do!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When i got pregnant at 17 i moved in with the the babys dad. We ended up getting married when i was 18. And i had our baby. He was abusive and called me fat, a slut, a whore, and other hurtful names but he claimed that he was always playing around. He cheated on me and no ... (311 words)

My lover says he wants his wife to know about us but is too afraid to tell her, should I tell her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age - My lover has said he would like for his wife to find out about our affair. He is too afraid to tell her, he's afraid of losing his kids. Should I tell her? ... (39 words)

What is the etiquette regarding a casual relationship when one meets someone else and what does one do when love feelings skyrocket out of control?

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6 May 2008 (M)

- I had a bit of a cuddle and a snog with a girl I know from my athletics club on a group night out a few nights ago. We have done this before, about a year ago. She seems shy and we haven't ever spoken about it or taken things further. To be honest it wasn't exactly fireworks ... (248 words)

She says I'm all that she is looking for in a guy but that she still doesn't like me "in that way", why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, this is actualy a really odd situation im an incredibley feminine teenager infact im bisewxual (i know that doesnt necessarily make you feminine, i just happen to be) i only actualy have 2 friends in the whole world, and i have had incredibly strong feelings for one ... (197 words)

What and How to tell him I am sad and unhappy with his actions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help me - My bf logged in at a dating site again right after he was unhappy with me - He also has been texting his ex-fiance ( they have no children together) I pay for his phone and I am asking all of you how I should tell him I am concerned fed up confused - I am not ... (232 words)

My boyfriend asked me to marry him but his randomness in the past makes me very uncertain about him, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 9 months now. A while back, he pulled the "I love you but I'm not IN love with you card" but that very same night he showed up at my house in tears about the mistake he had made admitting that he was in love with me but he ... (489 words)

I don't want to tell him I like him. Not yet...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I really need some help. I kind of like this guy...He is soooo cute, tall, green eyes...He is also charming and smart, funny, etc... We have been flirting for a while but I don't know if he likes me too... I don't want to tell him I like him just yet...And I don't get t... (79 words)

I told my man I love him, and now he doesn't want me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Things started going wrong when i told my man i love him.......he now says he doesn't want to be with me anymore and I'm left wondering why and what to do. Can you help me understand this please.... (38 words)

My husband is abusing me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is verbally and emotionlly abusing me. With this I have been in depression for two years now cause if this, and it's getting way worse than better. I lead my anger and deprrion on food, that now I'm obese. He doesn't understand that calling me names and making fun of ... (115 words)

My husband avoids my calls. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I got into an arguemtent few days ago on the phone while he's away working and now he is avoiding to keep in contact with me. He will not pick up his calls, email, one in a while he just txts back but is vague to me nothing with "i love you or i miss you" etc ... (73 words)

Someone is sending messages. How can I find out who it is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - can anyone tell me how can i find from where someone is calling or sending annoying messages? I know the number but every time a call back is not ringing. For a year now his sending messages to my girlfriend and recently to me. I do not know who he is but i know that he knows ... (97 words)

True love never dies? She doesn't seem to want me now.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 32 and up until I was 26 I had never had a serious relationship. As I am quite a shy person and really didnt want to get hurt. I have had self asteem issues and never really thought that any girl would notice me. When I was 26 this changed, when I discovered that a girl I ha... (511 words)

I met a guy on a dating site. I'm nervous. Am I being paranoid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I am looking for some advice. My partner left me 3 months ago when I was ill and although I have my own friends, i joined an internet friendship and dating site for company and interaction but for friendship only. However I met a guy on there, one of... (664 words)

Why do I keep allowing myself to get drawn in by him? What can I do to end all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I need your help with something that's been bothering me. I've been friends with this guy for about 8 years. We've always been rather close and have fooled around a bit in the past. He has a girlfriend who he's been with for 2 years but recently he's been txting me and a... (219 words)

Older men always buy me drinks or ask me out but people my age don't seem that fussed. What's the deal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Whenever people are interested in me, they are always at least 10 years older than me. I can never get anybody who is the same age as me. I look quite young too, everyone thinks I'm about 18 when I'm 23. I was just wondering what men my age are attracted to. Im quite ... (141 words)

I think her BF is cheating on her, and I like her. What should I do, forget her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all Got myself a bit of a pickle. Last weekend i was out with my mates and we ended up in a nightclub. I met this really really nice girl there, we ended up dancin and talkin for ages. tho she was very shy and kept smiling whenever i looked at her. basically really... (243 words)

I don't know if by meeting him I would open myself up to more heartbreak, or if he really means what he says. Your views?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, split up with partner 4 wks ago. he said he never wanted to see my face again and hated me.i had to move out of our home. since then he bombarded me every day with texts and phone calls sayin he loves me and askin if we could meet up and try to work things out. i agreed t... (258 words)

Do you think he wants me back? should I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F) - Ok me and my ex have been broken up for over a month and we just started talkin again on friday because he was whingin to me askin why i don't talk to him anymore.. we met up friday just at a friends place and didn't say much to each other then i saw him saturday night at... (379 words)

How can I beat my nerves and meet someone on a night out??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been feeling very horny lately. This month means it's been a year since I last had sex, and I think that is what's bringing this on. I want to know what action I should take. I don't want to simply ignore it and hope it will go away. There's nothing I'd like more than to ... (137 words)

How can I get this guy in my class to ask me out??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a silly question but how could i get this guy in my class to ask me out...?... (19 words)

Does anybody have experience of getting back after splitting-up??

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6 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner left me in the fall of last year and since then I've been looking after her daughter and our 5 kids and I'm coping pretty terribly. The eldest three are teenagers so they don't really need any looking after but the younger three are 2-year-old twins and 7-years-old ... (221 words)

Why am I angry alot and how can I control it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am angry alot of the time when i think of my past and how people treated me. For some reason people turned against me, particularly women, any job i have ever had. I had two particular jobs where i worked solely with women, well one of the jobs, they were horrible to me, ... (373 words)

Is it over or can we save this destructive relationship??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

- Hi I'm in a situation and I don't know what to do. I'm going out with my boyfriend nearly 3 years and we moved in together last September, things have got pretty bad since we moved in together. I'm just not happy anymore and I don't think he is either yet I don't know what to ... (293 words)

Is there any help available to help stimulate penis growth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I cannot get married because I have a very small penis. Are there any treatments available to stimulate growth? All help apreciated. thanks.... (24 words)

I feel I'm not good enough at any subjects at school-any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im stressing about finshing grade twelve, I am not very good at any of my subjects, im more of a hands on person than a study person. But im afraid i will become nothing at all if i dont do well. Im a country girl and is very good with many things in that department but school ... (82 words)

The way I feel right now, nothing can hurt me more than I’m hurting right now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - 6 months ago i took a trip to Colorado to visit my uncle during my college break. My uncle told me and my family theirs a woman (my dads second cousin) who's related to our family we should visit. I met that woman’s daughter, she is my 3rd cousin. I only spent 1 hour with her. ... (1278 words)

Is there anything I should be doing to alleviate the discomfort of shaving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

- I recently shaved off all my pubic hair. Myself and my partner both like it shaved off however it is sometimes uncomfortable. Is there anything I should be doing to alleviate the discomfort? With my skin "toughen up" so to speak in time or will it always be like this? Thanks.... (51 words)

Would You Reply To This Email?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - alright to make a really long story short my BF of 6 years an i broke up more than a month ago. he sent me an email a little over a week ago accusing me of something i didnt do (obviously someone started some drama) and how i made a fool out of him... i didnt respond because im ... (194 words)

I can tell he cares about me but theres one problem his ex might be expecting his baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to this boy going on 9 months now. I really like him alot cause he treat me like a girl should be treated. I can tell he cares about me but theres one problem. His ex girlfriend is 5 months pregnant and at first she dont know if it is his or another boy but ... (110 words)

I want to gain confidence and lose my virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I haven't been in any relationships, had sex, kissed or even held hands with a girl before. I always get anxious when I talk a girl talks to me let alone when I have to approach a girl. I lack a lot of confidence and am very shy because of this. I have trouble looking strangers ... (118 words)

I love him with all my heart but hes in love with the fake picture of me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy and we talked online alot and we got on really well and he said he loved me and i loved him he asked for a picture a few weeks later and then after he saw my picture he didnt want to know he still talked but as friends and he started chatting up other girls i ... (156 words)

I'm afraid I'm going to scare him away, how can I stop this before it ruins my relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

6 May 2008 (F)

- Hello I really hope someone here can help me. I seem to be suffering from some sort of, abandonment issue of some sort. I mean, I am in a long distance relationship and if my boyfriend doesn't email me or call me for a few days I feel...panic. like I can't function... at ... (395 words)

She was my best friend before we started dating and I hope we still can be....but

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6 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - dear cupid. Me and my girlfriend broke up on saturday ( she dumped me) and I just randomly get this strong feeling of sadness and loss......I loved her. I essentially cried when she dumped me. But I thought I was like over the emotional parts of it by now......but again I'm ... (137 words)

My boyfriend always asks my friend to have sex, is he cheating?

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6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend always ask my best friend to have sex with him and he told me once that he dont have the desire to have sex with me im a virgin and im not ready so do you think he's cheating should i break up with he evening calls my cousin everyday calls her sometime before me he ... (71 words)

Is it possible for best friends to one day become more than friends?

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6 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a friend and she told me recnetley that she i am her best friend. I like her in a way that is more than friends and she knows this but she has a boyfriend. Is being the best friend a bad thing if i ever want to date her in case she breaks up with him or am i too close ... (96 words)

He said he doesn't believe in marriage but will he eventually marry me?

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6 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - HELP! I have been seeing a guy for 2 years now. He used to talk about getting married sometime in the future (neither of us was ready in the early stages) but now he has told me that he doesn't believe in marriage and he won't marry me. At this stage we don't live together ... (280 words)

My boyfriend says there are hotter girls than me. How can I feel better about myself now?

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6 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been going through a rough patch lately... I asked him if he was still with me just because of the sex (because it seems it's the time he enjoys the most when he's with me), so he said: "Look, there are hotter girls than you out there, if I only wanted... (178 words)

Should we get it on with each other while her fiancee is away?

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6 May 2008 (M)

- Hi, I have a kinda tricky situation here...Any advice would be really helpful.. I've got a female friend called Sam...she's 18..We've been great friends for 3 years now and we connect on everything so well. However shes engaged now...and back in late January this year... (307 words)

Any special risks pursuing much younger women for relationships?

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6 May 2008 (M)

age - I am a guy in my 50's and I'm most compatible emotionally, physically, and sexually with girls in their 20's. Are there any legal or other risks in approaching and having sex/relationship/love with women that are at least 18 years old(USA venue)? I know it's considered ... (75 words)

How do I ask her out if she already has a boyfriend?

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6 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi people,okay, so theres this girl i really like and well im pretty sure already likes me as well, the problem is that they say that she already has a boyfriend and well, im not sure ether to go for it or not. She really does act like she likes me and well i've planned askng ... (74 words)

Are we to young to get engaged?

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6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am only 16 but have met a guy that I have totally fallen in love. We have all these plains togethere and want to get engaged next year on our 1 year aniversary. Im just woride that no -one will take us seriously becasuse I will only be 17. Is it ok to get engaged young? ... (60 words)

Does it count to have indirect contact with the female breasts? Feel through the shirt?

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6 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am going to high school at a boarding school (yes, everything in my family is fine... I just thought they offered a good education), which has the obvious rule of "No genital contact." I am not yet ready to loose my virginity, but foresee that I will become ready while still ... (104 words)

What exactly should I shave/wax to improve my appearance?

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6 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This may sound a bit strange, but I am relatively new to the world of sexuality, and decided that this would be a good place to ask this slightly embarresing question (seeing as this is what this site is devoted to). But I'll cut to the chase. The appearance of body hair on ... (74 words)

I'm too embarrassed to buy a dildo so what do I do?

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6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok to tell you the truth i masturbate regularly but now its starting to not feel good and im not getting any pleasure from it im too embarrassed and shy to buy a dildo what should i do?... (44 words)

I want revenge on my cheating boyfriend! What should I do?

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6 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I were together for 2 years. I found him cheated on me in Jan 08. She was with him for 4 years. So he is cheating on me all the time. I forgave him once because he told me he broke it off already. Then, things happened, My bf forgot to logout his e-mail address last ... (108 words)

She says she is getting "tired down there". Is this because she is dry or her organ is fatigued?

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6 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question about fingering a girl. Theres this girl I've been fingering and sometimes she orgasms and others not. But the times when she doesn't she claims that after a while she is getting "tired downstairs" so I'm wondering if that means her vagina is getting too dry ... (56 words)

I can't control my ejaculation when she gives me a blow job. How can I last longer?

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6 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Alright I've got a strange question for you all. When my girlfriend gives me a handjob it feels good until it starts chafing obviously but then she might switch to giving me head or whatever and it feels good also but its not until she starts giving me a handjob again after ... (191 words)

I've heard rumors she had a crush on me so should I pursue her now?

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6 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have what may or may not be a fairly common question, but I am rather lost regardless. I am a rather geeky guy, I am good at math/physics, but am extremely bad when it comes to talking to others. In terms of friends, I do not have many, but am confident that I can rely ... (352 words)

I don't know who I am anymore...I think I must be depressed!

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6 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I believe I am depressed even though this isn't clinically proven. I hurt all the time and I get headaches daily. Today I decided to go for a walk and sat behind a pile of hay for quite some time before I heard a truck, then I ran home. Please help me, I want to be anorexic to ... (104 words)

We are dating and he wants to take things slow. What should I think about our status?

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6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am dating this guy. He says he likes me but wants to go slow...there for we do not have the status of in a relationship. What should I think? He has told me this several times. Since we started dating we have seen each other twice in a 5 days span. He says when he is ... (100 words)

We almost had sex but now I think there is another girl on his mind! Could he like me though?

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6 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Okay so theres this guy we'll call him Sergio that i really really like alot!. Well Sergio and I have only known each other for like 5 months but we have become really good friends. And everyone at school thinks he likes me too. Hes always acting all flirty around me and hes ... (322 words)

Is my penis normal?

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6 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok i am 13 coming 14 on 20 of may and my penis is 2 inches not hard, and 5 inchs when hard. I have pubes armpit hair and growing beard and mustache. i am sorta overweight but back to my penis is it normal?... (45 words)

I need space...now he doesn't want me back!

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6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years---we've been through A LOT together (car accident, stolen vehicle, living together for a month, etc) so there is that attachment. Back in October I told him I needed some space---I had a HUGE job commitment and told him I needed some tim... (166 words)

How do I ask my mom to go on this pill that stops you from getting pregnant?

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6 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im 11 years old... im in year 7 i have lots of mates in year 8 one of my mates in year 8 is called amy... she is on this pill...it stops you from getting pregnant if you have sex i want to go on this pill... but i dont know how to ask my mam... ple... (95 words)

How can I help my depressed friend?

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6 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This question pertains more towards a friend of mine than it does to me. I am very worried about her and hope to find any way to help her out. My friend was in a relationship with a man, where both had planned to make it long term and even began talking about marrige. A few m... (358 words)

I didn't know he was still married! How can I get clarity?

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6 May 2008 (F)

age - Over 1 year ago, I met a really great man, we got along wonderfully. A few months into our relationship, when asked about the length of time he had been divorced, he told me it wasn't final yet. I thought that within 6 months, it would most likely be final. Over 1 year ... (131 words)

She doesn't love me but I can't walk away from this...please help!

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6 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am suprised to see that their is so much people in the world that feels like me. I dont know how it happened but I love my 3rd cousin who i just met around December 15, 2007. Thats right, i didnt even know she existed until now. I am 20 and she is 19 years old. We have been ... (449 words)

I feel so stuck! What does my ex want from me?

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6 May 2008 (?) age 51-59 - Sorry, but this is a very long post. I guess I need to get some of these confusing issues out in the open and am glad for any advice that could help. Anway, I was with my ex for 18 years. From the first I spoke to him every day, and the longest I ever spent away from him wa... (988 words)