A
male
age
30-35,
*geek
writes:Hey my friend and I we broke up like a couple months ago. we only went out for about a month and a half. But we got to know each other pretty well. But I'm wondering how can get rid of my feelings for her? I feel as though I love her......I have for the past several months. But no madder what I do I cannot get over my feeling for her. I have tried hangin with friends. Hangin with other girls. kissing other ones going out with em and so on. but I always keep thinkin of her all the time. WE see each other prettymuch daily..........which dosn't seem to be helping. I know I wont be able to stop hangin around with her cause I just like being around her way to much for that. any suggestions?
View related questions:
broke up, kissing Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 May 2008):
 The bad news is that you can't erase your feelings for her, but the good news is that time may diminish them. Or is that bad news too? I guess my point is that recovering from a break up takes time, and if you're seeing her daily then you're reminded daily of your feelings for her.
There will eventually be another girl who comes along, and captures your fancy, but if you're not making yourself emotionally available, you're going to miss that chance.
I think maybe you should try to see her a bit less, not all the time, and don't cut ties totally as you do care about her. Keep yourself busy with other friends, and go out and find a new activity that doesn't involve her too.
The sad truth is that getting over a break up takes time, and you just have to accept that. Good luck!
A
female
reader, pepper27  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Hi Hunny
I guess this was not on your part the breaking up love..Its so very hard to come to terms with a breakup if you care so deaply about the person and thinking about that person all the time only makes things so much worse for you as you are in a vicious circle and you can not break it...Its like grieving love...You need to break that circle and get your confidence back...
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/relationships/broken_heart.html
I found this site for you hunny I hope it help in some way its got tons of information on...If you need a chat message me anytime Im only to pleased to help in any way I HOPE THINGS GET BETTER FOR YOU REALLY SOON WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
...............................
|
