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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I falling for him or clinging to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex for 2 and a half years, and he left me last week. However there was this guy who was there for me and helped me alot.. I think im falling for him, is that possible? or am I just being clingy? ... (48 words)

How much longer should I wait for him to ask me out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been working with this company for 2 years. The man I am extremely interested in is a manager of a different department. He is extremely low key and shares most of my interests. He is funny, smart, quirky and very nerdy. I love that about him. Here's the thing. I ... (128 words)

Ready for a change - I want him to trust me when he's not there.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. About 9 months ago I kissed a guy and we have talked about that. He likes to go on Internet chat rooms and talk to guys and mess around with them through chat. He has never cheated on me. However, I, on the otherhand have ... (278 words)

Does my ex still have feelings for me? Or am I imagining it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have posted on here before and got some good advice. My ex bf of 3 years broke up with 1 month ago and started dating a new woman a day after we broke up. He met her while we we were out clubbing together and they had known each other on and off for 8 years. He say... (339 words)

I think he is head over heels in love with me, what about u?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Iam dating this guy he really likes me,infact I think he is head over heels in love with me.Iam starting to think he is obsessed with me.At night when Iam sleeping he sleeps really close to me and rubs against me and rubs my back or couresses me in some sort of way,every night ... (153 words)

My wife has a fetish for firemen and is causing 'accidents' because of it. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 25, and my wife is 24, we've been married for 2 years now. In the past few months and weeks she's recently been causing "accidents" - and I know why. I found a note in the kitchen when tidying up one day saying "must cause accident so hunky firemen come!" I'm no... (257 words)

Dad says "work it out for yourself" when I ask him a question

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - My dad often says work it out for yourself when i ask him a question. How do you work things out for yourself?, surely its a lot easier asking someone else.... (31 words)

What do men like? I feel I am socially awkward.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im a 20 year old woman and have never been on a date before. i wouldnt say that i am unattractive physically however i am very socially awkward and can come across as 'standoffish'. so any tips on how i can come across more likeable, confident, charming? also what ... (81 words)

She's my friend and I told her I liked her. Now she tells me to leave her alone after a huge fight.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a frined that I recently started to like so I told her that I liked her and we got into a big fight because she didnt like me and now she says to leave her alone and never talk to her again. If I had known she would have reacted this way I never would have sai... (114 words)

My wife discusses our personal problems with friends. I can't face them now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Can you help? I've been married for three years and everything as been going pretty well, but recently i've found out my wife as been discussing our personal problems with her friends, some of which are married to friends of mine. Now i can barely face these guys knowing ... (88 words)

Can you get pregnant from foreplay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I no this seem a bit unusual but can you pregant from having fore play?... (15 words)

I got a sore throat from giving a blowjob. Is it a problem?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently gave my boyfriend a blowjob for quite a long time. the following day i had a sore throat and put it down to the night of fun before. but when i checked, the top of mouth looked like my blood vessles had burst (like a lovebite but inside my mouth) can anybody tell me ... (60 words)

What are these stretch marks? Will they fade?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Roughly about 6 months ago i started noticing white stretch marks on my breasts, on my bigger breast ive noticed that the marks arnt that noticible anymore but on my smaller one i find them very noticible and am very worried that they wont fade. What i really want to know is ... (73 words)

My periods aren't normal, but the test was negative.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 i was late on my last period it eventually came but wasnt like normal. im now late again, i took a test earlier today and it was negative. But im kind of dissapointed, i know i wouldnt be able to support it but i guess part of me wanted a baby. i wanted a purpose n ... (97 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me and now I think I might have depression

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me because he said he didnt want a relationship. Hes all i had and made me so happy. Recently ive had sickness, memory loss, anger, stomach pains, headaches, and ive had a period thats lasted 2 weeks+. And i havn't ate properly since the break ... (71 words)

I fell for him, he's married - she's pregnant, now I'm heart broken

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.....iam 21 years and iam in a heartbreaking dilema...i started seing this guy ( @ the time 32) when i was 19.... The thing is that it all started so sudden @ work...you know the passing by the office..the eye contact...then one day he took me home because i needed a ride and ... (118 words)

I asked him out. He said no. What should I do next?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this guy and i asked him out and he said no what should i do ... (19 words)

She is pregnant and has a fiance but I am so in love with her! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am so in love with this pregnant girl im 18 and the girl i have fallen in love with is 19. She was in the year above until she left n i am now in my last sixth form year. She is 6-7 month pregnant and has a fiance. Everyone talks of her n girls bitch but I think she is... (235 words)

Should men pay on the first 'date'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

- Question #1 I met a woman on an online dating service. She suggested we should meet up for coffee and I agreed and suggested a time and place. When we finished she said she would go to the restroom while I took care of the bill. She didn’t offer to help with the bill as... (302 words)

Is it normal for a guy to have small white spots in his underwear?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible for a guy to have small traces of semen on his underwear even if he did not have sex that day. My boyfriend occassionaly has two or three white spots on his underwear but yet we didn't have sex that day. I don't know how to approach him with it and don;t want to ... (88 words)

One night stand...but I don't regret it, should I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, straight to the point! I lost my virginity on a one night stand, and it doesn't seem to bother me that I slept with a random boy. Am I stupid for not being bothered that I don't want to be involved in a reltionship with him? Please help, am I some sort of slag?? (so... (66 words)

This is just soo confusing! Which type of friends should I pick??!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Well skool is really differnt now.. secondary skool is such a stressy time for everyone... like everyone changes nice to mean, happy to moody etc i have loads of friends in skool even da geeks one (but they were my first friends) in yer 7 they were very kind and accpet ... (266 words)

I think my friends have spread rumours about me...should I forgive or plot to get even?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Today at school my friend really hurt me. Her and this boy went and told everyone that i am not a virgin. It's really affecting me becasue people are calling me slag and becasue i am normaly quiet and keep out the way people are saying "its always the quite and shy ones." I ... (111 words)

Self medicating with masturbation and hypersexuality to alleviate stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

- In addition to the obvious reasons for masturbating, I do so as a means of self-medicating myself and alleviating the stress and anxiety I feel in my life. I find that my life has only become only more stressful and demanding in recent years and given my career paths will ... (131 words)

Should I try to contact him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, sorry if this is long! I met this guy back in january this year when he was building my neighbours kitchen. I asked him for his number and we spoke everyday after he finished work and he wudnt leave my road until about 7 each night (finished work at 4.30). After he'... (202 words)

Should married couples seek outside help or try to work it out on their own?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Should married couples get help with their problems from third parties? Or thrash it out at home? One to one using their own brains.... (24 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want to talk about his past, which includes him being raped at age nine and then sexually active

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - HEEEELP my 3-month old boyfriend confessed to me that he was raped by hi's cousins friend when he was 9 years old. But thats not it. After he was raped the first time he was raped by more people, girls AND boys, as he claims He also told me after he was raped he was sexual... (167 words)

My long distance partner is confusing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all! I have posted a question here a few months ago about my long distance relationship. It has gotten better, still no flowers, but he calls a couple of times per week, we txt each other frequently as well as email. He is comming over again - his fourth time in the 8 month ... (402 words)

Getting closure from the person you thought was your ultimate soul-mate...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Sorry, the story below is a bit long but needed to explain my situation. Hopefully wont bore you too much! About 6 years ago (When I was 27) I had a long distance relationship with someone who I was crazy about. At the time I couldn't believe how well we connected and ho... (594 words)

I'm hiding something from him, because it'll make him angry. I'm confused, advice please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Sorry, this is long... My boyfriend doesn't trust me. I am to blame of this, in part. He has trust issues because of previous girlfriends and being abused as a child (I didn't know about this until it was too late). But the thing is, he's always been jealous. And when the mom... (1011 words)

Girls, would you feel neglected???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Girls: would you be offended if your b.f. or husband never called you when he was on his breaks at work, but he went online and checked his email, and looked at other websites when on breaks? I used to call my husband about once a day when I knew he was on a break, just to tell ... (444 words)

I keep thinking about what happened with my Ex..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically i broke up with my bf, who i was with for 9 months, and then we saw each other on/off for 3 months after. Towards the end of the relationship he became extreamly sour, stubborn, selfish...and i broke up with him. I thought that if i broke up with him, he would realise ... (238 words)

Did he ever really get over his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. i met my boyfriend in march and he had an affair at that point with a girl from another island closeby afetr he had just brokne from his ex girl which he was dating for 9 years..from what he said he wanted to move on thats why he was trying out in a new realtion... (243 words)

How are the chances of pregnancy in this case?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - plz tell me today on 13th, i sex with my girl friend not using any precaution ,she said her date was on 3rd may,plz tell me how many chances she get preganant,and now how we control this pregnancy, ... (38 words)

Problem with snooping - but it leads me to suspicious things, should I keep confronting my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with snooping, i will be upfront about it, but the only reason I keep doing it is I always find something, but not anything concrete and my husband always has a great story for instance I found a print out of a conversation between my husband and a woman, he ... (286 words)

Can you care about someone so much and it makes you so afraid of losing them, that you'd rather not be with them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A question to the guys: Can you care about someone so much and it makes you so afraid of losing them, that you'd rather not be with them? This is the line that my boyfriend pulled on me and bailed, after HE implied that we're in the relationship for the long-haul, ... (270 words)

I'm scared about losing my virginity and keep thinking he will pursue someone else if I make him wait longer... ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm about to lose my virginaty in a few days with my bf who i have been with for 1 year. Im so scared its going to hurt he tells me its going to be fine and it wont hurt and i know it will im so scared and when he fingers me im so tight he can get about 1 or 2 fingers in and he ... (129 words)

Can you tell me how I can truly know if he loves me or just really just wants to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - He says he just wants to be friends but he calls me every day. We are together every weekend. When I feel like we are getting close I can feel him back off. I love him. He wants me with him but he wont talk to me and tell me his true feelings. I am so frustrated. Can you tell... (80 words)

I'm afraid to fall in love with this woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this girl for a little over a month. We have this amazing connection, not just physical but intellectually. She's perfect, except for one thing; I can't seem to be able to allow myself to feel more profound feelings for her. I guess I don't trust her. She's ... (187 words)

He's asked me to hang on, but I don't know if he'll ever break up with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old, I met this guy 2 months ago, we talk everyday for hours and really like each other. He says he has a girlfriend in another country whom he can't marry for culture reasons and wants me to hang on. I dont know if he will ever break up with her or how soon he ... (74 words)

Men, please help me understand my boyfriend's jealousy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age - My boyfriend gets jealous when he sees me training another guy on my job. It's still dark out (5:00a.m.) so I understand men think weird things when it's dark, especially when my BF can't see us during this training, but why should he call this guy on his cellphone and find ... (130 words)

I'm scared I'm going to get hurt again, in this weird situation we're in...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I wanted to share my weird situation with you and to maybe get some good advice.. The deal is, me and this girl broke up some months ago, we've been together for almost a year. She couldn't continue seeing me the way it used to be cause she thought things didn't wo... (474 words)

How do I deal with my two-faced boyfriend? I've just been dumped...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend has just dumped me, for a girl who he said he's hated forever. How do I sort this problem?... (21 words)

I need gift ideas for my boyfriend who is starting a new job!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of months now. He has just got a wonderful new job that he will be starting in 2 weeks time. He will get a company car, will have to wear a suit + tie, be clean shaven etc which is a change for him but something his is kinda excited... (103 words)

What are your thoughts or experiences about relationships between people of different nationalities?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is about relationships with people of differing nationalities. I am Australian of english/irish heritage and my boyfriend is Greek but was born/raised in Australia. his brother is married to a women who is half greek and half anglo. The fact that he is greek is n... (134 words)

Is commitment really so different for men than for women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a question for the men around! I have read info basically saying that commitment is different for men and women. Apparently - women are looking for the RIGHT man to come along before they get married, whereas men are waiting for the right time of their lives to c... (163 words)

I'm a tired, sad mess

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

13 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - This is really hard for me to admit, but i think im falling into depression or something. I'm just young, but am in a long relationship and things seem to be getting harder and harder. the good times are so good, but the bad times can be awful. He's a great guy and loves me... (146 words)

Why do I always put down my husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I love my husband. Why do I always seem to put him down? I think that he is the most generous smart lovable good person that I've ever met. He is very shy, not real forthcoming with his feelings or affection for that matter. Doesn't like being asked any questions. Never... (110 words)

Is my boyfriend putting off proposing because he thinks I'm too young?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice from people who have experience in this area and know what they're talking about. I am almost 23 and my boyfriend is 28. We have been together for quite a while now and i guess i am hoping for an engagement ring in the next couple of months. My prob... (265 words)

He don't wanna say if he still loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sigh , i have this boyfriend whom treat me very good in the past , but as time past like 3-4 months , he started to change alot , he like no longer that i know from the start, then one day , we had a quarrel , and i went checking on him , i realise he fall in love with another ... (163 words)

I hate having sex. My home life is boring. Has love gone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age - i have been married for 20 years. I had a fling with a married man because I was so bored of my home life. My daughter has left home 2 years ago, although my fling happened when she lived at home. I spent more of my time with my daughter as we done everything together, ... (149 words)

Are my friends jealous of my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am feeling really down and disheartened about my friends reaction to my new relationship. I am almost 23, i have met a wonderful 28 yr old guy and we've been together for 2 months now, although we were seeing each other for a couple of months before it was official... (311 words)

He dosen't allow me to see my mates and makes me feel guilty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am a young female aged 17, i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are very much in love, we see each other every single day, and stay at each others house every night, we are very close, but i work through the day while he goes out with his mates but he dosen't ... (95 words)

Please don't tell me to stop caring, because I need answers for closure so I can move on

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

- This is driving me crazy! My bf broke up with ME about 1 month ago. One of his mates has made this break up like hell for me... The friend has been constantly messaging me and passing along things that my ex supposedly says. And he tells my ex anything I say. Anyway the fri... (348 words)

I aborted his child against his wishes-Is he still holding this against me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a lady aged 25 i had an abortion in feb 2006 against my bfs will.he really wanted the kid but i felt we were not ready for ababy at that time.he told me that we forget about the past n later that year i got pregnant again but gave birth to a boy who is nine months old.but ... (85 words)

Do you consider race a factor when choosing a partner?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I'm a African-American male that likes all types of women. The women I used to be with are Latinos. I do not really care about ethnicity because if you look for someone that understands your needs and your strives, that someone may not be your color and he/she really cares ... (79 words)

Have any aunts/uncles here ever met up and got on ok?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

- I was just wondering (seeing how everyone on here seems to know the rights and wrongs of everything and can give perfect answers to everyone) if anyone had met each other as agony aunts/uncles on here and were now in a successful relationship? [Moderator Note] Good point c... (51 words)

His ex-wife is now expecting his child-should I be happy for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now. We are so much in love with each other... it was love at first sight and we both feel we are right together. He was married (divorced in the meantime) and already has a 2yo boy. His ex-wife got pregnant from him right ... (234 words)

Do we have double standards whenever a woman "cheats"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) age - its funny that.....when men come on line asking for advice about cheating on their girlfriends, you never see many men being judgemental and condeming them. However, when you see a woman who betrays her husband, all the men are so quick to respond and the woman gets ridic... (113 words)

I am 16 and I am scared of having sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - the big question: sex? why am i scared to have sex?! i am 16 and i am scared of having sex, because i hear that it hurts the first time espeacially, and from what i see from movies, i know this will sound funny, bu when i watch movies where it happens that 2 are haiovng ... (124 words)

If anyone could help me please, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i was just wondering, if anyone could help me, plz! theres this guy i like...we've become very close friends...and i am now friends(and close) with his friends because of him, and now they text message me! But he doesn't! I mean all of his friends know that me and him are clos... (91 words)

Married long time, with new partner now, cant orgasm easily with new partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - This is the scenario: Married 14 yrs, getting divorced, since ex have not been able to orgasm easily with anyone, met someone now that is kind caring and still have trouble w/orgasm, have to use vibrator which never had to do with ex. Any opinions or has this happened to ... (63 words)

I know it is unfair for me but my heart has been ruling my head. What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I need your help. I believe you see clearer than me. It is a really long story. I have been here before. I once said I was and still am in love with this guy who twice my age and who is a divorced man with kids and an acoholic as well. But I was still a girl and ... (579 words)

Does he like me or is it just a game he's playing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im Leighton, I am 16 yrs old i met a guy that i instantly fell for and he seemed to like me aswell. He would call me to see how i was and to meet up with me because we lived close. Over a couple of months i fell in love with him even more as i got to know him better. But ... (230 words)

I am really scared that this might be the end of our relationship as it has gone so stale

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi if anyone can give me some advice i would really appreciate it. I am so confused at the moment. I have been with my fiance for 4 years, i am 22, he is 28 and we have a beautiful 18 month old baby boy together, and have bought a flat together. I met him when i had just ... (490 words)

My friend is pregnant again, what can I do to help her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, I am 19 years old and so is my friend. she has a young baby. however I have just found out that she is pregnant again. she said they her and her boyfriend were ''being careful'' but I suspect that they have not been as she has been talking about how much she woul... (268 words)

I can't seem to stop masturbating...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 15 year old guy, and I am a pleasure addict, I like to ''play with my self.'' I dont know why but I look up porno on the internet and masturbate, I do it like 5 times a day or less, I just stay at home and do it in my bathroom or my room, I've been doing it for a while ... (75 words)

Is masturbation murder?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well as u all know ''sperm'' is pretty mutch something alive ,i mean it turns into a human if u have sexual intercourse with a woman ,well if people masturbate is it a sin ,as my freind said it ''mastubation is murder'' then he followed on with''then i must be hitler '' ... (68 words)

Is sex safe during menstruation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I would like to know if it's dangerous to have sex when you are on your menstrual period, regarding an unwanted pregnancy or stds. When is a woman safe to have sex an not get pregnant? cause condoms are not that safe. ... (44 words)

Do I have a masturbation problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well ever since age 14 [15 now] iv been having irges to have sex so when ever i do i masturbate ,but the thing is i constantly do it like 3 or 4 times a day is that natural,also y does it come out in small amounts ?... (49 words)

Does taking Plan B reduce the chance of getting pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I let my bf come in me so many times. But I've taken PLAN B so many times. and now we are 22 and ready for a child. but its not happening. Does taking Plan B a lot reduce the chance of getting pregnant..? ... (46 words)

I'm 15 and I think I'm pregnant

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone help me? Im 15 and I think im pregnant! my boyfriend is 18 and ive told him but he says I should do what I think is right but last month I was 2weeks late and when I came on my period it wasent even a propa period and ive not come on this month and i keep getting ... (107 words)

She cheated, but I'm still in love with her. Will she do it again?

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13 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ON the 11th, was our 1 year anniversity, and she cheatted on me then and also on the 12th, that I know of, as that is all she told me. I'm still in love with her, and didn't let her know how much it hurt me, I just told her, that it's ok, and not to do it again. she had to g... (110 words)

My fingers are deformed and I'm scared it's putting the girls off me

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13 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, well Im 18 years old and as of yet had not had a girlfriend. I was born with a birth defect to my hands in which my fingers are deformed.The only relationship i've had has been an online one and she knew about my situation. I'm not anti-social. In fact, i know that i can ... (214 words)

Could a long-distance relationship really work?

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13 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - can a long distance relationship work if youre in different countries and only see the person once a year? and also if we broke up 4 times within the year is that a bad sign? ... (35 words)

I have trouble trusting him. How can I get these thoughts out of my head?

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok. I need help i have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Right now i am having major trust issues... i have no reason not to trust him but for some weird reason i think something up. Not much has changed about him but his presence feels different. I am probably ... (113 words)

I'm 17 and I'm in love with a 35-year-old

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a major problem...I am a 17 year old senior in high school who has fallen in love with a 35 year old player with 5 kids and one on the way...my problem is that i want to be with this man so much even though i know how he is....the problem is the age difference and he ... (178 words)

His cum tastes awful, what can I do?

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im sure many girls have this problem, but its really starting to bother me. I dont mind giving my boyfriend oral sex, but its the end that i literally CANNOT DO! the smell, the taste, just makes me wanna gag, ive asked friends and most of them say theyve never had a guy thats ... (110 words)

How do you stop feeling like your worthless, and that if you weren't good enough for your ex then you must be no good for anyone else?

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13 May 2008 (F)

- How do you get over caring about what an abusive ex thinks of you? How do you get over the feeling that you're a loser because your ex treated you so bad, used you and then dumped you because you had nothing of value to them left?? How do you stop feeling like your worthles... (263 words)

When a girl says she's falling for you, does she mean 'falling in love'?

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13 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everybody. I don't really know how to interpret this, but what exactly does a girl mean when she says she's falling for you? Does it mean falling in love or basically crushing? I would think it means falling in love am i right?... (46 words)

He said it was all in fun, and that receiving her messages and contact made him feel good.

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13 May 2008 (F)

age - I have had some personal family crisis problems in the past 3 months, and had not been very nice or very effectionate to my husband. In the weeks that I had my problems, he started talking to a 23 year old girl on line which was harmless at first, who he met through party po... (259 words)

I am a victim of trust because of her ex.

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13 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello all, thank you for taking the time to read and give your opinion about my situation.. i met my GF on the Internet, she lives in Japan and i live in Canada.. to make it short, her last relationship went sour when she open the door to a room to find her EX sleeping with a ... (347 words)

Any advice on vaginal dryness occurring during sex?

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so im 22 years olds and have had sex plenty of times but recently while having sex a couple of minutes in to it my vagina went dry and has been for for the past couple days why would this be? please help... (44 words)

Help! I need somebody!- Do you think he's sending signals or not???

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - (this is a combination of several of my replies to other users before I had my own account....now it's a question) I've known my english teacher for 2 years, last year when we would talk in passing and then this year when he was finally my teacher. Before this year he kne... (719 words)

Is it normal for a girl to like getting spanked?

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i like to be spanked during sex. whats wrong with me?... (11 words)

If he does these things does it mean he likes you?

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - -Stands near you, almost touching -If a part of your body is touching and he doesn't move -His pupils get big when you talk -Supports your ideas -Finds little excuses to touch you (appropriately) -Tease each other -Voice changes sometimes when you both talk -Gets fake... (61 words)

I'm not sure if he likes me for my body ...what do I do?!?

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so ive been dating my boyfriend for about almost a full 4 months and we kiss and stuff but to be honost he has almost no sexual interest. He will put his arms around me but he wont touch me or anything. I mean jsut last week we were at my house and we sat there for 7 hours ... (176 words)

Confused and madly in love with someone I'm not sure of

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13 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl that I've liked for a number of years now and recently we were at a party where people where talking about things and one of them upset her and caused her to run away, I went to find her and when I did she was outside crying, I sat with her and we talked for a ... (448 words)

I have liked this guy for a long time and it's beginning to get me down

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have liked this guy for a long time and it's beginning to get me down, but I can't move on because he's on my course and in my friendship group. I don't know what to do, in an ideal world I would cut all ties with him but I don't see how this is possible.... (56 words)

Is it just me or is anyone else feeling concerned about the amount of unfaithfulness goin on here?

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13 May 2008 (?) age 41-50 - Is it just me or is anyone else getting scared as hell of the amount of unfaithful married couples goin on here? This makes me super frightened to be married! Dosnt anyone believe in a commitment these days? No wonder the divorce rate is sky high, no one knows what marriage ... (129 words)

Why did he give himself a handjob when he has me?

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i sleep with my defacto and thought i satisfied him sexually but the other morning very early he i think handjobed himself twice and now i feel i dont make him happy what does it mean when a guy gives himself a handjob when he has a live in girlfriend he says i make him ... (79 words)

Why is it that I don't really make a lot of friends/

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13 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I have always been considered as a loner(and that is why my named myself as the lone wolf).I hardly have any friends and I have been in two relationships during high school. Those girls were pregnant by their other boyfriends and for what? To aggravate me?! Anyway, right now as ... (146 words)

How do I do break up without hurting her?

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13 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Does it seem like I'm thinking this through rationally, am I being an asshole, or both? My girlfriend of a year says she loves me, and is always good to me. We have fun together, but she never hangs out with my friends, and when she does, she doesn't seem to enjoy it. Sh... (157 words)

Are there any men who can settle for hugs instead of sex?

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13 May 2008 (F) age 26-29 - Okay this seems like a REALLY weird question, but...here goes. So I am really not into like, kissing or any of that stuff. I have thought about sex and come to the conclusion that I would like to remain a virgin and not ever have sex, for personal reasons I will not go into. Th... (168 words)

How do you cope with long-distance relationships?

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a relationship with my boyfreind and it is long distance..I see him every weekedn and it is fine and we are happy..But has anyone got any advise on what some things i can do to make it a bit easier when you miss them like crazy? we have been going out for nearly 5 months ... (104 words)

What is the sweetest thing he/she has ever said or done?

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13 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone! I have asked before and I got some really nice responses, but I know that there is more romance out there, so I want to know, What is the sweetest thing he/she has ever said to you? Or how about, what's the sweetest thing thet've ever done for you?... (51 words)

Is it a bad thing to ingest ones own sperm?

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13 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it a bad thing to ingest ones own "product"? My fiance has expressed interest in wanting to share a kiss with me after giving me a blow job. Just curious as to if there are any negative side effects.... (42 words)