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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why wont he go down on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this is embarrassing to ask but is it because of me that my bf wont go down on me or that hes not wanting 2? because hes told me that hes done it b4 and likes doing it but why wont he do it 2 me? i dont c why he wont i make sure i dont smell or anthing i take showers ... (116 words)

Why does he keep flirting with her,he knows I don't like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - me an my bf have been together for 8 months. an there is this gurl named nina that is always flirting with him. i think he likes her because he doesnt say anything when she flirts with him. i dont want to tell him to stop talking to her because they're friends but i dont know ... (85 words)

Am I doing something wrong because I'm not attracting girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Any night out where I receive no female attention always feels like a disappointment to me. How can I lower my expectations and just let the night flow? I haven't had a girlfriend for a while, so I'm on the look out, but as of yet I've had no luck. Am I doing something wrong?... (55 words)

Missing my ex and need advice on what he has done....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone... I feel down and just wanted some opinions or advice. Last year my friend of 2 years asked me out, and we were so happy. Anyway I was crushed this year when he broke up with me. He told me that he didn't feel the same way, but we should still be friends. I wa... (511 words)

Should I break with him or just take a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - the 11th is me an my boyfriends 8 month aniversary an he doesnt even wanna do anything but hang with his friends. and i wouldnt mind if he didnt do this on a regular basis. this is an everyday thing.i always ask him if he wants to hang out just me and him he'll say yes but then ... (125 words)

Does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - "I'm 14!I'm in 8th grade .There's this guy in a few of my classes. He's always teasing and constantly flirting with me and trying to make me laugh! He calls me his bestfriend even though i've only known him for 3 years..but acknowleged him for 1 year(he playin' aroung though) ! ... (252 words)

He told me he didn't want anything serious but his actions are contradicting himself. Is he playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I am 26 years olds, and i have been dating this guy for like almost 3 months, I like him a lot, and I have strong feelings for him, we live one hour and a half away, he is very sweet with me, he caring, we normally see each other on Sunday, but during the week we main... (166 words)

I'm starting to feel like he's just abandoning me! Could he just be busy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - im at a loose end here! a guy i have known for 8 years asked me out on a date, aparantly he has been wanting to ask me out for over a year. i went out with him and we got together. we were so in love! we have both had really bad relationships in the past and we both had our ... (420 words)

Should I tell him I'm still a vrigin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello My new boyfriend is divorced and eight years older than me, which is not a problem to me, what is the problem is that i am still a virgin and dont know if i should tell him this, and how do i tell him, or maybe he already knows. Thank you ... (60 words)

He says he is seriously falling for me but has a girlfriend? Where do I stand?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I really don't know what to do anymore.. I've liked this guy for over a year and hes likes me too. We were seeing each other a lot last summer nearly every day, was amazing. Only problem is hes got a gf... he was with her all last summer too. Sadly he moved away to br... (181 words)

I feel bloated after I eat and suspect the effect is due to the pill. Any advice on dieting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 19, and am on the dianette pill. for the past few weeks i seem to be constantly bloated every time i eat. my stomach is flat in the mornings but as soon as ive eaten my stomach gets so bloated that i look pregnant! could this be due to the pill? i couldnt be pregnant ... (73 words)

My boyfriend refuses to tell other people we have a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf is tell people he is NOT my bf!so people hate me and are tell me he is not my bf.but on MSN he says he love me so much. but y people hate me today 4 life one friend telled me i was to in LOVE to see he is not in love.he said i will tell people the thuet if i do a deal i ... (111 words)

We are having an affair, could he be really looking for love while being married...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman, having a affair with a married man. We just kind of fell into it and were clear that we both wanted more than what a affair offers but willing to see where this goes. Neither of us I suppose are ready to call it quits in our relationship with our spouses, ... (152 words)

My boyfriend is falling into drugs again, what should I do? I need help desperately.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This question seems so simple to answer from an outside perspective but for me it has been tearing me apart for months. My boyfriend and first real love is a drug addict. Since we first met he has had a problem with controlled substances,(benzos, painkillers, etc). I helped him ... (301 words)

I plan on having a threesome with my husband and a girl - how do I go about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i want to have a threesome with my husband and a girl. i've never done this. how do i go about it?... (22 words)

He keeps telling me he loves me but has a girlfriend! I like him, so what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I just recently fell for a guy who is absolutely amazing except his got a girlfriend and my friend likes him so i haven't said anything but he keeps asking me if i love him i said no and he looked upset but i do like him and we get on so well i went out with him when we were ... (76 words)

Any ideas on what to do other than give her the space she needs right now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend seems to have lost interest lately: not wanting to talk as often, not writing letters or wanting to webcam like we used to(long-distance relationship) and just seems generally distant overall. She says she just needs space for herself and I basically feel like I'm ... (86 words)

I discovered my best friend talking nastily about me in a message, how should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my bestfriend are really close, we share stuff and there's no privacy in between us cause we're open about everything and show each other everything. so i was on her facebook looking at something she mentioned in class and i was in her inbox and came across a mess... (115 words)

I told him that I needed to work and he got really cold, visibly annoyed. What should I think of his attitude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Its exams period and the whole year has been very stressful as its the last undergrad uni year and we are both ambitious. We've been out together for more than a year now and before we were best friends for a year and a half. I love him deeply and I know he feels th... (623 words)

Any ideas about what I can say when I call her? I just got her number...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I finally got this girl's phone number who I've had a crush on for more than 2 years... I said we should "catch up" and I'll call her. I know what I can say when I do call her, but I was wondering if someone had any input in this?... (51 words)

He says he needs space once in a while-or is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend said he doesnt want to see me 24-7. He says he needs space once in a while. Have I done something wrong? is this a bad sign? ... (34 words)

My parents hate her-help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a perfect girlfriend and we have been very happy together for the last two years. she is everything i wanted and i love her more than anything in the world and i know she loves me to. the problem is my parents hate her. she used to live in a very rough area so has alot... (196 words)

I think part of the problem is that she doesn't realize that I'm in love with her, or why

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend seems to have control of the relationship. Lately I've been impatiently waiting on her to call, and anxious all day until that point, while on the other hand, she seems fine without talking as often as we used to. I feel like we're drifting apart, and so does she ... (175 words)

Will this one last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend says she needs space. Not break up space, but just time for herself sometimes. We had some issues during spring break and when she left back to Minnesota(we have a long distance relationship) things have seemed different. We used to write letters back and forth, ... (215 words)

Should I lower my standards to suit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My ex broke up with me yesterday. Of course I'm sad, but at least I'm calm because I know I did nothing wrong, although he's very mad and hurt towards me. He broke up with me because he couldn't cope with my past anymore. Yesterday, when he broke up with me, he exploded in... (388 words)

Could my gay friend be bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My gay best friend and I were messing about on webcam the other night. We're dead close and have seen eachother naked before, and for a joke I was dancing around my room to music on webcam and it kinda turned in to a bit of strip tease which progressed in to both of us getting ... (165 words)

To who ever might be listening and may have or be in my shoes help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - To who ever might be listening and may have or be in my shoes help..... My fiance and I have been having financial problems for the last year, it has put a strain on us but I thought we could make it through. About a month ago I came home from work and I could tell somet... (315 words)

If he's not happy anymore with her I don't want to be the reason of problems between them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 30 years old and i met a wonderful man who is 36 years older.I am mature enough to understand that i am not in love with him but i feel very much connected.We like each other very much and i find him a very deep,emotionally intelligent person.When i talk to him i feel that ... (185 words)

I wax, have never shaved, but I have these ingrown hairs. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i wax my legs and i have never shaved them, but now i ave terrible ingrown hair which is soo depressing as i want to wear a skirt tomorrow how do i get rid of this??? thanks x... (40 words)

Did I creep her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys there is a girl who i met in the summer, and we flirted a lot, she was always touching me and staring at me and i cud bet my bottom dollar she had feelings for me...then she went back home...across the globe to her home, this was august and we talked everyday up unti... (439 words)

Am I over-reacting or is he just stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I really need some help. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now.I put up with alot like the fact that I havent met his parents who he says are racist whom he still lives with and other things.The big problem is I keep caughting him in lies. Most of them are small but ... (264 words)

What's up with her!?!? We broke up three months ago, and she keeps trying to stay in contact with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Its been 3 months since my ex girlfriend and I broke up. She left me for someone else, even though I treated her really well. Sure we had our ups and downs, but it was happiness for the most part. I'm trying to forget about her, but she continues to try to keep in contact with ... (231 words)

How should I react to my 'best friend's' behavior and treatment of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend showed me her true colors, after she has started working, she has changed. It was her birthday, and I arranged for her surprise party. I had to coax her by saying that it’s her birthday and she must buy me lunch. She was so irritated with the idea that she had to ... (908 words)

Why is he being so sweet? Could there be another reason?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone i have a question. ok my bf can be very sweet at times but lately hes been 2 sweet like if im in pain hed be thr askin me if im ok. and in the morning he'll wake me up and ill be right next to him and he'll say to me you look so peaceful and beautiful when u sleep. ... (211 words)

A husband's gripe...how can he talk with his wife without offending her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (?) age - The family tells her they want a certain brand of food, but she buys bargain brands that don’t taste good, a taste that requires another to kill the awful taste. She goes and buys supplies for building plotted plants. The fertilizer is such that produces pests, such as gnats... (245 words)

He confessed that he's been sleeping with his ex, should I call off this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 May 2008 (?) - dear readers, i have a small problem that i jus wanted some advice on i've liked his guy for a few months now, we swapped numbers about 3 onths ago n since then hae been txtin, callin etc. we have slept together a few times. the other nyt i was round his n we got tlkin about ... (166 words)

Will I have any problems with my penis I should think about before I have sex?

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7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Im 16 as you may notice in my name. I have a penis which is about 7-8 inches long (which i believe is quite large (don't mean to boast)). It bends slightly down when its fully erect and the foreskin does retract automatically, it will if I pull it back, though its quit... (120 words)

How do I stop thinking about this married man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - i need to stop thinking about the married man i have been seeing for the past 3 months. I'm going out of my mind ... (25 words)

I have a BF, yet this other boy tries to hold my hand and kiss me in front of everyone! What to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend and i love him to peices, i really do! But a boy I know has just asked me to have an affair, and i dont know if i should say yes. I really like him and before i went out with my new boyfriend i was always waiting for the boy to ask me and he never did, but ... (119 words)

How can I change his mind? My ex says he has feelings for me but does not want a relationship at the moment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I still see and talk to each other a lot, nearly every day. He has told me he has feelings for me and we are still very close. One problem, although he is attracted to me, he says he does not want a relationship at the moment (with anyone). How can I help him to feel ... (60 words)

My mum forced me to end contact with this boy because of his past, but I like him! What do you advise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, ive been kinda seeing this lad on and off for the past 7 months, but my mum doesn't like him because he has a bad past and i care a lot about what my mum thinks and me and her have a very close relationship. I really like this lad and i know how much he likes me b... (135 words)

My childhood friend slept with my BF a year ago; she keeps telling me she wants to be friends again, do I forgive her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My best friend since childhood slept with my boyfriend. It has been a year since I have talked to her and I dumped the guy. She keeps calling me telling me she wants to be friends agian. Should I forgive her? I'm afriad she may try and do the same thing.... (51 words)

Help, the love of my life is a wuss

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 6-7 months, who I haven’t seen in a while due to hectic work schedules, has been acting really distant lately and avoiding me for the past couple of weeks. When I finally threatened to break up with him he told me that I'm the nicest person he's met, and he's ... (181 words)

Should I confront him even though I violated his privacy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been back with my ex since March 4th now. I admit i do have some trust issues, which i allowed to take the best of me the other day. While my BF was asleep I did a very sneaky thing and checked his text messages. I saw a text from a girl on March 27th stating that she ... (267 words)

His mother is a cheater and liar - does he take me the same way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone My BF grew up in a broken family. His mother cheated on his father, she also lied couple of times. She tried to come back to his father many times (11years on and off), but only to use him and than go back to someone else. My BF stayed w his father, meanwhil... (356 words)

Can a guy remain friends after oral sex?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age - Can a guy remain friends with a girl who gives him oral sex? How does he control his emotions around her, or is this different than making real love? OK, you guys out there, let's have it!!!... (39 words)

I'm being used to make another girl jealous - I want to get even!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age - How do you get even with a guy for using you to try to make another girl jealous? This is happening at work. I'd love to sock it to him!!!... (32 words)

They're both amazing. Which do I date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, i was seein three girls recently, one was my girlfriends for a year who i have broken up with now, because i was havin trouble with the realtionship for many months and decided to end it...after i broke up with her i started to see someone, at first we only met when her... (283 words)

Is he not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - he doesnt look me in the eye when we are talking...but when i turn away he looks at me for a couple of seconds..and when i turn back he looks for like a second..and turns back away..i like eye contact!...is he not interested? ... (45 words)

How do I show him that I really care and am here for him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here goes... ive been seing this guy for about 2 months...and he messaged me yesterday saying that the two people that he lives with are moving out...and told him that they'll speak to the landlord to see if he can have the lease but all of a sudden are being really awk... (188 words)

Is he leading me on? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for 7 months and last month we had a massive argument, which stemmed from his ex girlfriend still texting him. Although i know he has no intention of ever being with her, I just overreacted and couldn't control my emotions on this occasion. I love him ... (157 words)

Romantic music for a wedding - ideas please.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, This is probably an unusual one! But I am looking for help in regards to picking out music for an upcoming wedding ceremony! I dont want anything too lonely as it will be lonely enough. But ideas of more romantic tone. The main one I am having difficulty with is the ... (65 words)

First time with her - did I handle it badly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19. My gf is 16. Recently she came to visit me from another town. We petted since her arrival. One morning early,while my parents were out for a while, she was still in her nightie and we were we were kissing, I pulled her panties down. She was wet and I penetrated her a... (127 words)

My wife gets too dry

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife gets dry too quickly. she gets really wet but after two minutes she gets really dry and i can feel goosebumps inside her so i pull out as i think she is sore. any advice?... (37 words)

How can I get in contact with girls for friendship, romance & sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi how i can get contact of girls for friend romance and sex.... (15 words)

How do you define a "long term" relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - OK here I go thinking again, ok its another question about peoples points of views. After reading questions on here about people in long term relationships...How long does a relationship need to be to be long term? I don't know how you would classify it as long term or not... (74 words)

I love her, but the attraction is fading and I don't want to hurt her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a girl for about 10 months now. She is possibly the most lovely girl I have ever met and I love her a lot. However I am becoming less attracted to her physically. She has quite a lot of issues - she is mostly recovered from a long, debilitating ill... (447 words)

Help with my little sister's project please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My little sis has got this project in which she has to interview grand parents and ask them how did they plan their summer vaccations and what kind of holidays do we have now??? seems interesting then feel free to use your imagination.even teenagers can go back 40 yrs and type... (62 words)

Can a man get an erection even if he doesn't like the girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this is mainly a question for the men out there, but womens responses are more than welcome too. Anyway, if a guy likes a girl he can get an erection when cuddling/sitting with her etc (normal stuff). If he doesn't like a girl 'in that way' will this still happen or will i... (94 words)

Can you catch diseases from lesbian love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey i am bisexual and i have never had sex with a female..if i do then i was wondering if it transmits any sexual diseases..i am soory if my question is lame but i have no idea about the lesbian world... (41 words)

I could not make love to her. Is she still seeing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age - my ex was is bipolor, and we was together for 2 yrs i looked after her in most ways loved her cared for her and much more but i could not trust her . we split up for 5 months and she contacted me to meet and it hit off , but a few days seeing her someone had text her mobi... (213 words)

I love him, but there's no sexual contact between us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age - Hi well I dont know where to start.Im in love with my fiance very much.We live together.But for the last 5 months we have been like friends. No sexual contact,2 kisses a day.I told him i was highly sexed when we met.we were ok.but then after we moved in it started to go.It was ... (182 words)

How to be friends when you still love the person and live far away from them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I were in a two-year long distance relationship (we met online) which ended very badly about five months ago. What ended it is that I was emotionally cheating, which I didn't know at the time, but which came out in a series of terrible arguments, where I initially ... (550 words)

The chemistry was great but I haven't heard from him since. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I have been single for quite a while now and i have been trying to meet men. Well I met this guy on the internet like six months ago and i have been talking to him ever since. We had made plans to meet because we live only like a half hour from each other. Well one night ... (298 words)

Is he interested in me or is he playing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a guy and am gay but not out. I've been going to this school for 3 months and there is this guy there that i really like, so much in fact that i get nervous around him when its just me and him around. He is in my English class and science class and never used to pay atte... (193 words)

My fiancé is a virgin and I need to build his confidence

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - The problem is that my fiance is a virgin and has very little self-esteem in the bedroom and so he won't have sex with me because he's afraid he isn't going to be good at it. Well, that's really only part of the reason. The other part of his reason is why I feel so bad for ... (336 words)

I have a higher sexual drive than my boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I love having sex all the time but my boyfrend doesnt. Im up for it anytime, anywhere. what should i do?... (21 words)

I want to write my husband a letter about how hurt I am due to his cheating and what this marriage means to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i have just found out that my husband was cheating on me for the last 3 months he has decided to leave the other woman and work things out between us for the sake of our marriage and for our 2 kids. i want to send him a letter telling him how hurt i am and how much this marr... (89 words)

Does the cup size decrease a lot when you lose weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

7 May 2008 (F) age 30-35 - I wanna get fit. I'm not really fat, actually, I'm in my normal weight range (I used to be overweight, just not anymore). However, there's still some flab around my mid section and my hips, butt and especially thighs. I want to lose around 10 lbs as I think that would do ... (165 words)

He likes me, but doesn't want his family/friends to know he likes fat girls?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for 6 months now and he doesn't want to introduce me to his friends or family. When I asked him why I havent met his family yet he said it is because I'm fat and he's not sure if they would approve. I've been ignoring him all this week. Should I give ... (62 words)

My boyfriend cheated with my sister, I cut contact with her but I am still seeing him. I keep justifying his behaviour, is this right?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my younger sister slept with my boyfriend. he admitted it to me, she still hasn't, well she did but in a round about way but then quickly took it back when i asked her did she do it rather then " i know you did it, why?". when she found out he confessed to me, she called him ... (698 words)

Fingering has not gained us much thrills yet, will stimulating the famous G spot be more pleasurable for her?

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7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf is a virgin and we just recently started fooling around.. she gets nothing out of fingering and i've posted about that on here before.. but bc she doesn't get anything out of that would her g-spot not give her anything either?? ... (43 words)

I caught my BF cheating with his ex of 4 yrs. He wants to get back together and I might be pregnant... what to do??

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - First off I will give a little background information about this very complicated situation. I (24 yrs) will call my most recent ex boyfriend Paul(27 yrs) and my other ex boyfriend John (24 yrs). I know this is a little long but it explains my situation as closely as possible ... (1632 words)

Vaginal penetration incomplete, did I lose my "V" card? What should I expect at full intercourse in terms of sensations?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - If only 1/3 of a penis penetrated my vagina for 10 seconds, did i lose my virginity? is this close to what it feels like when there is deep, full penetration for a longer period of time? Also, if the penis got soft once it was in, is this "intercourse?" or does it have to be ... (166 words)

How should we tell our families that we love each other and are happy together no matter what?

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7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm dating this girl that i've been with for over a year now.. and things are soo perfect between us.. she's everything i've wanted and she says i'm everything she's wanted only thing is that our familys don't like us dating.. i'm 19 she is 20 my parents don't like it mainly bc ... (239 words)

My llife long friend introduced me to her ex boyfriend, now we're a couple, and it's created problems...

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A girl friend i've known almost all my life has always been in love with this one guy. They dated a while but it didn't work out because they both realized they're better off frends. After they broke up, she has been crying about him for about 10 years, especially when she'... (289 words)

We have sex every week, secretly, and I'm falling for him, but I don't want to.

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a boyfriend but he's not with me. He only comes home once a year, and so me and friend had this moment of romance, but we're done having relationship...we make sex every week, in a secretly way... can you help me what should i do? I'm beginning to fall in love with him,... (64 words)

He says he can't handle my past, and he doesn't wanna lose me. He says I have to help him overcome this. My question is, how?

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7 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - Hello, I've been posting about my boyfriend not being able to cope with my past. Recently, he had broken up with me, today we got back together. Please, help me help him. When I went to talk with him today, at first, he didn't wanna see me. However, he agreed to talk. I st... (515 words)

Pros and Cons....is he worth it? He's changed a few things, will he change them all?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend, 30: Pros: Buys me flowers. Cooks dinners time to time. Helps clean house, dishes, tends the yard. Tells me I'm beautiful almost every day and that he loves me. Always calls me. Wants marriage, babies, the works with me. Good looking. He's a hard worker. Love... (423 words)

I really can't tell if we are just friends or if I mean more to him.

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with this guy for about 10 years. Over time I have fallen in love with him. He knows how I feel and has told me he loves me too. We hang out all the time alone and with friends. When we are out he acts as if we are together. His body language tells me ther... (147 words)

Was he having a knock at me by introducing me to his parents as being 'Black Irish'?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I just started seeing this guy and we are just getting to know each other. We both seemed to have been hitting it off. But i'm a bit troubled by what happened when he introduced me to his parents. He introduced me to his parents who are Irish and I am Irish as well but he i... (139 words)

He's nervous when he talks to me...why is he acting like this?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - For the past year, I've been running into a crush at a local bar. I've known him for a while through a ex-friend (I can't ask my friend about him), but I never sat down and spoke to him. I would always say hi to him, and he would say hi back and just walk away. Or I would say ... (199 words)

One partner wants sex every night, while the other wants it once or twice a week, what's the solution?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - One partner wants sex every night, while the other wants it once or twice a week, what's the solution?... (19 words)

How will I know which is the right condom to use?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know what type of condom is good to wear while having sexual intercourse?... (16 words)

He says that relationships are bad and that they never work out.

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Well i was just wondering if anyone could give me some much needed help. About two years ago, i went out with a guy for a few months, but it didn't really work out, but we stayed good friends and two years later he's now my best friend. The problem is that since we bro... (236 words)

I keep miscarrying, why can't I stay pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I feel like i'm about to just break down and just die it's tearing me apart that i can't ever stay pregnant, or get pregnant when i want! I was 5 weeks pregnant and i have no idea why i have miscarriages. Its tearing me apart, i dont know how much monger i can take... (101 words)

I think my husband is having a cyber affair!

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my husband is having a cyber affair from his work computer which I cannot access. He is on travel, and appears online claiming to be working very late at night. How can I go about seeing that he is telling the truth or not? ... (47 words)

How should I introduce the new man in my life to my teenage kids?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, how do you introduce a new man in your life to your teenage kids and how long should you wait before you do? I am getting divorced and have been separated for almost 2 years. I have met someone that is a great man. Thanks for your advice.... (51 words)

I never have a chance to get her by herself to tell her how I feel.

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7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I was thinking of talking to this girl I've mentioned in previous responses. The big problem aside from the others mentioned, because I only see her one to two times a day. I never have a chance to get her by herself to tell her how I feel.... (49 words)

How does one go about making out?

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7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I have a question about how does one go about making out? Like not with your girlfriend. I dont have one.(just broke up with last one on Saturday) I'm tired of the devotion. It's not very hard for me to be extremely devoted, but at the moment I just want to have some fun... (121 words)

Do you think he will say yes for going to our big dance? Answer fast please!!!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked a guy out today, to our 8th grade dance and did not get a reply yet. Do you think he will say yes? I am in madly in love with him. I AM IN LOVE WITH HIM...i can't believe it - wow, what a way to get that off my chest. Here are some signs that i think he likes me; He t... (111 words)

Why is he pushing me out of his life?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay my b/f and me broke up and now he wont even awknowledge that i exist, when we were together we got along like best friends. Now he has moved on and im fine with that but he acts like Im not even there and we sit at the same table! His friends and mine say that we will even... (191 words)

What is the sweetest thing that he/she ever said to you?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't really need advice, I'm just curious. What is the sweetest thing that he/she ever said to you?... (20 words)

What do you do when one minute he's saying he might, then saying he doesn't?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - When your boyfriend of almost two months tells you he might like someone, after having to confront him about it. What do you do when one minute he's saying he might, then saying he doesn't? All within 10 minutes.... (42 words)

I see her everyday, and it rips me up inside when she ignores me!

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7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl rejected me. It was unbelievable how much I liked her for over 2yrs. I treated her like a princess when I asked her out, and she rejected me. Because of that I started smoking marijuana. I needed something to calm me but i see her everyday and it rips me up insi... (64 words)

All my mates have got girlfriends but I havent!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've never had a girlfriend, although kissed a few girls - but no relationship. Am I looking in the wrong place? I'm 17 and about to finish school. Where will I find girls? All my mates have got girlfriends but I havent!!... (44 words)

There obviously is no room for "compromise" as he evidently wants no more sex than we already have.

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7 May 2008 (M)

- Myself and my boyfriend of almost four years have the problem of me wanting sex and intimacy a lot more often than he does. In the beginning this wasn't a problem as he wanted it as much as I did, but now he is less interested. It came to a head last night, and he says that... (179 words)

How should I ask a girl out..at night when the stars are out to make it romantic or what? .

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7 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi people, i just wanted to ask, how should i ask a girl out? Should it be during the day, at night when the stars are out to make it romantic or what? Should i ask out by a note or get a friend to ask her? Please help, i'll appreciate it very much. ... (56 words)

How can I convince him that we will still be our children's parents, after we split?

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in the process of getting a divorce and my husband just wont let go. We have two kids, 6 and 3. When he was a baby his mom didn't make all the right decisions, so now he thinks that it will be the end of the world for our kids too, and is trying to give me the pity trip... (104 words)

When I'm not around he's a totally different person.

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7 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband made friends with a co worker, all 3 of us work together, although I'm not there that much because it isn't my main job. He had been helping her move, hugging her, posing for pics, playing golf with her ex husband, and even had a secret handshake - only the two of t... (128 words)