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writes:I've been on three dates with this guy and on our third and last date we finally made out. I know that in the next few dates it'll lead to at least oral sex if not actual intercourse. I'm very self conscious about my abilities for oral and intercourse because I've only done those things with one other guy whereas this guy is about 9 years older than me and has had 5 other serious relationships and that does not include any other random girls he might have been with that were not that serious. I'm nervous that I'll be really bad when I want to be really good and make him feel good. He's more experienced than me and I don't want to be bad.Do you have any advice of what I should do in dealing with him? Is there anyplace I could find some tips on improving my technique? Although I don't know how I could improve it without practicing first, lol.
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Talk to him while you're doing it - not too much though, don't bug him - just stuff like "hows that" etc. I'm sure he won't be too disappointed though as long as you keep your teeth out of the way. lol.
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 I would be more concerned if his oral skills were up to par! Most men are really easy to please in the bedroom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): Hey, all i can say is relax and have fun with it! Just ask him what he likes, im sure he'll tell you. Practice makes perfect! x-x-x
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reader, jonesen12 +, writes (28 May 2008):
the best advice i can give u is kinda stupid.. start out doing it your way and judge his response.. if u think your doin it good and he is responding (guys dont fake) then continue doing that..if he isnt responding (this is the stupid part) ASK HIM...who knows better of what feels good other than the person your doing it too...i have told my girlfriend what i have wanted and now i cant believe how great she is at it..so dont be shy... simply ask him want he wants u to do and learn from it.. u will do fine im sure Matt
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