A
female
age
41-50,
*howstopper
writes:my sex partner has a babymom that comes to his house on the weekend. his son is 11 years old witch he loves and will do anything for.on the other hand he is involve with a younger lady which he loves to make LOVE to, he seems to care about the younger lady more than the baby mom. out of nowhere the baby mom wants to marry him. he's not ready but told her ok. he still wants to be involve with the younger lady if he decides to get married. the young lady don't believe in messing with married men but the feelings between one another is strong. the babymom found out about the young lady. now the babymom told the son about the marrage. the son is happy that they are getting married but dad don't want to dissapoint son now that mother told him about the marrige that he really don't want to happen. dad told babymom if they do get married, he will not change nor stay in the house all the time with her and still do what he wants to do. TELL ME WHY WOULD THEY GET MARRIED? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Drmks909 +, writes (30 May 2008):
The simple fact here is he has a kid, which he is willing to do anything for... even marry a woman he doesn't care for much anymore (he might, but it doesn't sound like it). You are the woman on the side, and it is your best interest to just step away from him and move on.... if not for your sake, then for the child, who you will keep from the potential possibility of being raised in a two parent household.....
Plenty of fish in the sea, walk away... he has already been hooked, lined, and sinker...
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): He wants to marry the babymom because he has a child with her, at at least some time in the past he was in a romantic relationship with her.
Why WOULDN'T he marry her and keep sleeping with you too, if everyone will allow him to do this this? He gets both girls this way. She's his "real" wife for his "real" family but you're there to keep things interesting for him.
...............................
A
female
reader, pashanoodle  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 I'm sorry honey, but whether or not they get married shouldn't be what you are worried about here! You are his bit on the side - yeah he likes "making love to you"..but is that all you get from him?? Sounds like he is giving you a very clear message that you are never gonna be more to him than sex on the side....and you sound like you want more!Even if he doesn't marry "babymom" - he will probably end up in a relationship with someone else....and you'll still be there for a bit of fun when he wants it....why would he make any changes to that arrangement?? It's win win for him!!I think you need to face facts and even if it will be hard and you'll feel heartbroken - get out of this mess and find yourself someone who will commit to YOU and not just use you for sex.
...............................
|
