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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I wish we could come away respecting each other at least.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Well you could say I'm old enough to know better, but even though I'm way past adolescence I still want to know what he must think of me now. I live in a foreign country and sometimes give English lessons. Someone put me in contact with a diplomat from a different country who ... (757 words)

I like a boy...but how can I talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this boy who i realy like we started talking in january and then met (are schools are right by each other) he said to my freind that he liked me and i seemed like a nice person.but we have barely spoken since and i dont know really what to talk to him about i do fancy ... (87 words)

Boyfriend or girlfriend...who should I choose to please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I currently live with a boyfriend who I love dearly and a girlfriend I also love dearly. We all share 1 bedroom for everything. My problem is My girlfriend wants me to dress more sexy like her. Our boyfriend gets kinda jelious from the attention it brings us. So he wants us... (66 words)

What does love mean to you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

10 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This has more than likely been asked many times before but I don't feel like going through thousands of questions. Anyway I wanted to know what each of you thought love means to you.... (34 words)

Advice on laser hair removal.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - can somebody please give me any advice? has anybody had laser hair removal? im considering it, but i am worried that it might not work-i know it is not permenant removal but it reduces the density of the hairs...has anybody had this done? what area? how much did it cost? most ... (69 words)

My partner has skipped the country leaving me with a 5 month old child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've posted before so please bear with me. My partner and I were having difficulties back in January as he kept on upping and leaving me for several days at a time. In March we had a chat and agreed we would make a real go of things and he continued to see our little boy a... (202 words)

Why am I so scared of ending this relationship with my drug addicted boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i'm 19 and i've been with my boyfrend for over a year now, i met him at the beginning of university. I'm moving in whith him and a few friends next year but the problem is, is that i don't know if i want to be with him anymore. He does drugs and he always goes out and stay... (225 words)

I'm worried he will confuse my genuine interest in him with my usual attitude! I'm a natural flirt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very friendly with all my work colleagues with some calling me a bit of a natural flirt (to both females and males), however, I am worried that the new work colleague which I like will not realise that I do actually like him. Without saying anything to him, how can I c... (83 words)

Husband wants to leave me with no reason. He agreed, reluctantly, to see a counsellor. I'm so sad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 16 years has been unhappy for a long time. When I would ask he would say it is not about me and it is just about his job and to just be patient. It got to the point where he was falling asleep on the coach and over the last year not asking me to do anything. ... (240 words)

My family thinks I let his wife ruin our relationship too much, and I worry a lot...!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i wonder if my boyfriend will ever be just mine.I am 22 and he is 34. we have been together for almost 6 months and he is still married but is living with me. He also has 3 kids with his wife so i know he talks to her cause of the kids and divorce stuff. I worry a lot and ask ... (172 words)

I told her I love her but also to ignore the message! Problem is I do want an answer...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i'm a girl, and in love with another girl. She lives far away but we met in person and she was extremely flirty, alwyas touching me, holding hands, kissing me on the cheek, calling me love, slapping my butt, hugging me for really long, kissing my arm when i had it around ... (569 words)

My boyfriend has a fetish for black haired girls!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi this is going to seem like an odd problem, but its been bothering me awhile. I've always known that my boyfriend of 3 years has had a fetish for black haired women. It's not a problem, until i begin to think about it, or find something, then it makes me feel annoyed and ... (580 words)

Tested for STI's and came clear. How to inform my ex that I was mistaken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

- I was tested for STI's the other day. The doctor done a swab and said she had detected some cells that looked like chlamydia, she gave me antibiotics and told me I needed to inform my sexual partner. She told me I would need to phone the clinic a week later to get my results. I ... (228 words)

I speak to him and smile at him when I see him, how else to back up my conquest plans?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I would like to ask anyone reading this about advice, okay, so there is this guy I like however he is quite shy and hangs out with the 'popular' people, I speak to him and smile at him when I see him, but I dont know what else to do. I very much like him, but think h... (142 words)

I'm 24 and hugely in debt, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

- Im 24 and hugely in debt, around 13,500 pounds to various loan companies. I live at home with my mum but I cant stay for much longer. i work full time but dont earn alot to pay them all off so every month they dont all get paid, and then they start phoning me and harassing me. ... (252 words)

Are teenage girls so worried about pubic hair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

10 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I was talking to my girlfriend about "stuff" yesterday and turns out that herself and most of her friends are all a little worried about how their pubes look, like how they shave them or how they don't shave them. Can any other women confirm this worry? especially i... (64 words)

Am I having a miscarriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 7 weeks pregnant and I have been bleeding off and on for about 3 weeks. Well last night I passed a clot about the size of a quarter or bigger. I went to the hospital a little while back and they told me it was a threatened miscarriage, I really don't want to lose the baby ... (67 words)

I met a widower on a cruise and he was upset I didn't have sex with him! How can I get back on his "friendship book"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age - I am 54 just returned from a cruise and "met" a man on his own he wasnt looking for anything really but we palled up a bit and did some dancing but nothing romantic for 14 daysw at the end we just kissed on the cheeks and he said see you sometime -as soon as he got back he ... (465 words)

My girlfriend wants to move on but how do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (M) age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 3 and a half years just recently broke up with me. We started dating right when she got out of highschool she is now 22 and i am 25. We were each others first love and now she says she wants to be alone. She says she doesnt really know who she is and she doent ... (103 words)

Are there side effects to contraceptive pills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my doctor prescribed me some contraceptive pills to ease my stomach pain and shorten periods. I was just wondering if there's any side-effects? I need a bit of reassurance because i'm rather hesitant to take them. Thanks!... (38 words)

He asks my friends to do naughty things, should I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i chose a boy over my bf nd i think i made the right choice we r a lot more affectionate nd i luv him. But he is a bit of a naughty boy! nd likes to ask my m8's to do stuff, just like showin him their bra's. they hav always sed no but i dont know whether i should trust th... (107 words)

I don't miss him when we're apart, is this natural? Or a bad sign?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for 4-5 months. We get along really well, I fancy the absolute pants off him and still feel in that 'honeymoon' period even though we are settling into the comfortable phase of our relationship. When I'm with him I feel like I can't keep my ey... (329 words)

I've heard she likes me but not from a reliable source, do I pursue her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a very good friend who I would like to pursue a relationship with, but am unsure how to proceed, and if to proceed at all - I do not want to lose her friendship by making a clumsy attempt at romance, but I have had feelings for her for a long time. Before yesterd... (262 words)

We need help on spicing up our sex life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I need ideas on spicing up my sex life. My bf and I only use a couple of positions and sometimes I dress up in sexy clothes, but that's about it, and it's boring!... (34 words)

How to tell him I want longer sexual encounters without offending him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I tell my boyfriend I want him to last longer during sex without offending him? Also, how can I get him to last longer?... (26 words)

How can I show them I can be "fun" so they'd stop picking on me by nasty comments?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is sort of two questions in one. Ok, i'm in college and with a class of nice people, well generally they are nice but for the last 5 months i've been getting pciked on quite abit. Its mroe of verbal bullying actually, nasty comments, just making me feel stupid and ... (642 words)

Suggestions to spend QUALITY time with my boyfriend, not just stay together and ignore each other, for lack of better ideas...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need ideas to make my relationship with my boyfriend more interesting. We live together and spend most of the time with eachother but never spend QUALITY time. The only things we do together are watch movies and have sex/cuddles, otherwise we're in the same room ignoring ... (85 words)

She's hot and cold, what does she want from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I play in a brass band and a wind orchestra and enjoy it immensely and so wish to carry it on to a future career. The girl in question is a friend of mine ( not close) who plays in the wind orchestra. We have both said that we like oneanother. We have texted each other for a... (549 words)

Is this flirting? We have been friends for a very long time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - i am 15 years old. theres this guy that i have known since i was seven and we are good friends... Is he flirting with me or is he just being friendly. *he tickles me and pokes me *he always teases me and have special little nicknames for me *he'll shove me af... (175 words)

Is this really over because I think he still has feelings for me? It beaks my heart to think it is!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my Boyfriend broke up a few days ago, he said he wasn't ready to be in a relationship and we moved too fast and we've been together for 8 months, but it wasn't a horrible break up,and we talk on the phone like friends, and hung out for a couple hours. He told me he stil... (193 words)

I need kissing advice...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well you see im 14 and i have a crush on this guy firstly i dont no how to get him to notice me he is always (in a jkie wai) takin the mick out of me and secondly i think im frigid because i dont no how to french kiss a boy and im scared i will be bad HELP!! ... (61 words)

He wants sexy but I don't think I am...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone ok i need help from all guys. my bf wnts me 2 do something sexy for him and im not sexy one bit. im worried that he mite not like what i do. so thats what i need help on guys what do ur gfs/wives do that is sexy 4 u? i want him 2 remember this forever so i need ... (76 words)

Is he playing mind games with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 and i think my bf is playing mind games with me its so hard to describe basicly when i get angry i forget what is going on in every aspect my mind just goes and my boyfriend knows this i think hes using it to his advantage it just seems that no matter what i cant win if i ... (187 words)

I can't stop dreaming about my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant stop having dreams about my ex boyfriend and myself, I wake up in a cold sweat because They go back to about a couple weeks ago when we were still together and they are all about us being together. I wanna cry when I wake up because It makes me sad because the dreams ... (119 words)

My dad constantly fights with his girlfriend! Do adults fight all the time? I feel the only mature person here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well my parents are divorced, and each of them have a new bf or gf. My mums perfectly fine, and I live with her mostly, but whenever I visit my dad, all he and his gf do is argue. Now I know adults argue all the time, but what I dont like is how they bring me and my younger ... (263 words)

Masturbation Tips Please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, lately ive been feeling really horny, i dont want sex or anything as i am completely not ready but i do like masturbating and i was just wondering if there was a way to do that without a dildo or a vibrater or anything that could make it feel more like sex. anything ... (65 words)

In love with an older guy who may not be gay and moved away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im am a 15 year old boy that live n ohio. Im n love with this boy that i just met and rite after we met he moved to florida. We talked last nite and i asked him y he moued and he said cuz he was bein a dummy and that he wanted to move back soon but he aint have enough money for ... (114 words)

Does his reply to my text mean he likes me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, I like this guy, and I dont think he knows. I text him asking him a question ( general chit chat) and he just answered with the answer- I dont know if Im reading into this too much but is this a sign that he doesnt like me? He did put a ' x' at the end, and after a c... (93 words)

Penis Length Question

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - is my penis normal it about 7"long... (7 words)

What the heck is going on with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've posted before, my relationship with my boyfriend had gone sour, mostly on our miscommunication, we still love on another as we recently discovered, but many things have happened. nothing bad, just things falling apart. i've seen him once a month for the last 3 months. a... (315 words)

Fine except I'm scared to ask out girls...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 22 year old man, has a good social life, a good job, and am enjoying life. However, I have a problem with confidence which is affecting my ability to get a girlfriend. Every time I try to ask a girl out, I end up stopping myself because I think "the girl alread... (95 words)

Am I too mad or dull to get a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this isnt really a relationship problem, more a life problem but here goes.... every time I go out I am either very quite and shy, so noone likes me, or i have a drink and am embarressingly loud and people think (and i quote) "that girl is mad", "barmy", "wierd" i do... (103 words)

Am I getting off to quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I am not married. When I masturbate i get off in less than 20 seconds. Is this a problem?... (20 words)

Why did it take so long for me to ejaculate when my gf was giving me manual relief?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok wow.. got my first hand job from my gf tonight.. masterbating has been weird to me for a long time so i haven't gotten off for the longest till tonight.. but..... it took forever for me to finally cum.. she was sooo tired and out of it.. is there something wrong with me ... (89 words)

Is it because I refused him sex that he couldn't wait to get rid of me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

- About 2 weeks ago I slept over my bf's house. I told him before that I wasnt ready for sex, so he should not of expected me to sleep with him just cause i agreed to sleeping over...i just wanted to sleep in his arms, nothing more. Anyway, he wanted to have sex and tried fo... (283 words)

I think I'm in love with my ex-boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im 13 and im going out with this really nice,caring guy i mean hes not the best looking guy in the school but he loves me and i said i loved him but every time i see him i try to smile but i cant and i dont think thats love . on the other hand every time i see my ex (he ... (146 words)

I'm afraid that giving signals to them will depict me as a flirt-But I cant get a bf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very good looking female....but i dont get guys...i dont knw why...actually i am an image conscious person and will never love the idea of spoiling my image by flirting with guys but at the same time i want male attention too....so even if someone tries to come near to me ... (125 words)

My boyfriend is always so busy and never seems to make time for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfreind is always so busy and never seems to make time for me....It really hurts my feelings and makes me feel down all the time..It is really distracting me so what i am asking is should i just move on and find someone better. We have been dating for 2 years and are ... (75 words)

How do women masturbate and orgasm?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do women masturbate and make themselves orgasm? I have tried once (by fingering myself) and it did absolutely nothing for me! It was just gross and I had to wash my hands afterwards... I have heard you have to touch the clitoris but I cant really find it... I think it's ... (77 words)

What can I get for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6070 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - oK this is the one for the boys What are some kewl things you can get your boyfriend for a gift?? I need lots of ideas fellas!! He is a country boy, 18 and more importantly im on a budget lol All ideas are welcome thanks x... (59 words)

Should I move with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 28 and a successful engineer and have worked all my life to get this job that i love. im quite independent as i earn enough to live comfortably in the city. my boyfriend has asked me to live with him but in a town far from the city as he just got a job as an engineer in a... (208 words)

I'm pretty confused! Any advice as to what I should say or do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5959 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so theres this boy...he is absolutely amazing and he's my best friend. He moved away because he got in some trouble almost two years ago now. well when he does get to come home to visit he acts like were together. which really doesn't bother me because I'm interested in him a ... (166 words)

Everytime I see him I get so depressed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - there's this guy... let's say i had a "thing" with him kinda sorta. but he really used me, and i knew it. well one time he admitted that he had feelings for me but anyways, i really miss him. it's all screwed up now because of things and i hate it so much. whenever he'd want ... (244 words)

He dosen't have any ambition.

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10 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I'm scared, to be blunt about it. I've been with my boyfriend now for a year and two months. That might mean nothing to some of you, but it's my longest relationship. We planned on going to college together next year, and all that stuff, but now... He has no ambition... (372 words)

Does he love her or me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know something, it's kind of 2 questions. Well, first is, I need to know if my ex really does love his girlfriend. He never really acts like he does, and he beats her. He's always cheating on her. And the other is, I need to know if he's still in love with me. Ev... (92 words)

We kissed but I don't like him like that!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - we kissed but i don't like him like that... he likes me a lot and has for a while but i don't know.. i really just see him more as like a brother to me. but i don't know what to do. because last time i teased him or whatever and i can't be like eh i don't like you this time ... (71 words)

Ok now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok did I over-react this time? I was ignored by the boyfriend yesterday after I sent him text asking to clarify the some things about us - He NEVER responded from 9am Thursday till 2:30 this Afternoon - He said some people were coming over to watch the hockey game - He didn't ... (571 words)

Does She Like Me Back (she has a boyfriend who is my good friend too)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl and I have been good friends since 3rd grade. She has a boyfriend who is also a very good friend of mine. We have all the same friends and we hang out in school and out of school whenever we can. Does she like me? Whenever I touch her she pulls away and says stop... (84 words)

What can I say to make this guy smile?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - For the past two months i've been talking every now and then to this guy who i know from places, but have never met, but i know he's not a pedo or anything. The past 2 weeks we've been texting loads and i spent 3 hours on the phone to him last weekend. We're fairly close i'd ... (179 words)

My 15-month-old daugher is refusing to eat solids food!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

10 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a 15 month old daughter who for the last 2 or so weeks refuses to eat any and all solids, with the exception of her formula. I tried putting her on homo milk but she gets severely constipated from it. Luckily her formula has more nutrients and vitamins she needs, so the ... (411 words)

Am I bi-sexual? Why was my girlfriend so understanding? Should I confront my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

10 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently whilst sleeping around my friends, after a night of drinking, I awoke to discover him fondling me. I didn't say anything and just pretended to be asleep. The fondling progressed into him giving me oral sex whilst rubbing himself up against me. The problem is I find ... (241 words)