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writes:i am going 2 a swimming party w/ my bf this weekend.we plan 2 hold hands, hug,and kiss. but neither 1 of us have ever kissed anyone b4 and i am really nervous.i dont know wut im supposed 2 do and nuthing is giving me good answers.plz reply soon!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): hey i am a guy and the same thing is happenin to me :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): Okay, so we all experimented and yes at that age we all felt the giddy excitement of fantasizing over our first kiss and our first boyfriend...But why are you in such a rush??? Honey, let him wait it out... in fact it'll be a whole lot more special if you both waited with and for each other... Find other things you can do that will keep you together for longer... your still at a very tender age... get to know each other as friends first, be each other's best friend... trust me in the long run you'll know the value of that first relationship and that friendship...If you must though... It comes naturally... but seriously don't rush it. You have an entire lifetime to explore that glorious art... :-)
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (28 May 2008):
 This is so sweet. Your first kiss, how exciting! I was 11 when I had my 1st kiss. It was akward (as most first kisses are) We puckered our lips too tightly, felt like kissing a rock. Keep your lips kind of moist, but not super slobbery. Don't be like me and bunch your lips together too tightly. Keep them kind of loose. I hate to say it, but it most likely wont be everything you ever imagined, you will be too nervous. When I kiss my partner, I gently place my hands on the sides of his neck, just below his ears, and softly pull him toward me. I tilt my head very slightly, to avoit bumping noses. I dont pucker too much, I'm lucky to have a nice, full sat of lips, so I open them a tiny bit, keep them loose, and when our lips meet, I ever so slightly close my lips on his. I kind of repeat this, while gently sucking (not like full blown SUCKING, but quick and soft pecks of sucking) on each of his lips, lower then upper, and so on. This is not a tounge kiss. Whan I introduce the tounge, I do it a little at a time, untill he catches on that I am ready to do that kind of kissing. If he just throws his tounge down my throat, I would consider him to be a bad kisser, and I back away to let him know I don't like that. I hope this has been helpful. I've been told that I am a very passionate kisser by almost everyone I've kissed. Try to keep relaxed, you will be so nervous that it will feel akward, but as time goes by and you get more confident in your kissing skills, you'll get better. Good luck. MUAH!
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reader, pashanoodle  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 My advice is not to think about how to do it too much - or you risk it feeling awkward and rehearsed. I don't really know what to tell you to do other than to not go in hard with your tounge...focus on a little lip sucking and a teasing touch of tongue...you'll relax into it if it feels right. Hope it's enjoyable!!
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reader, Tremor +, writes (28 May 2008):
 First up, know that you don't have to do anything that you don't want to. If you do things, do them because /you/ want to, not because people think you should.
Kissing is daunting the first time, but it gets better with practise.
Take it easy at first - a kiss on the hand or the cheek, perhaps, or of you're feeling brave, a quick kiss on the lips.
Keep in mind that he is probably as nervous as you.
It'll come naturally to you soon enough - no need to rush.
Good luck to you. =)
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