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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We're both getting pretty upset about not being able to spend more time together, what can I say to comfort her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with this girl for over a year now. And it's a long distance relationship, We live about 3 hours away from eachother. I try my best to please her, but I either have work or whatnot when she's free. I try to see her as much as I can, but I haven't seen her in like 2... (99 words)

How do you have sex? what do you do during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey i am about to have sex for the first time with my longterm boyfriend, but we have never engaged in any sexual acts before other than kissing. my question is how do you have sex? as in what do i do as he is inside me, writhe around? roll over? bounce up and down? please help ... (92 words)

Has he just used me or it is because he is scared about Iraq

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i just need some advice although i worte my story on here before xmas i might need some extra advice. I had been with my boyfriend on and off for 18 month andwe split at xmas we have been kind of just close since we split and recently decided to get back together. i Have l... (284 words)

Is she interested or have I lost her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i met a girl on a night out two weeks ago and have been texting eachother since then. we really hit it off that night and i asked her out on a date. she said she couldnt make it but asked if we could meet up for a drink on the weekend when we were both out. we met up... (373 words)

The class clown might have a crush on me, but is it a joke?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6065 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i wuz at a party and since it was so loud, everyone ended up txting each other so we could talk. The class clown the txted my friend and said he liked me. She said to tell me and ask me out or sumtin, but he never did. Anyway, he knew that my friend told me and i asked ... (355 words)

Will he come back? does he still loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Will my ex boyfriend come back to me? he told me he loved me and he used to call me 24/7 he was happy being with me. however we started fighting because of his jealousy and anger problems.. i broke up with him however he never stopped calling me asking me to get back with hi... (152 words)

I don't feel I can talk to my Mum about anything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. I cant talk to my mum about anything! And I dont know why. Shes lovely and I always felt I was close to her but.. well things like I started my period last september and STILL cant face up to telling her. I dont know why! Its normal and everything but I cope ... (199 words)

Should I stay or go....internet cheating???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently got back into a relationship with my ex. We've known each other for 3 years and were apart for 6 months. We've been back together for 3 months and everything was going so well until I looked at the cookies on my computer and noticed that he has gone to over 40 ... (181 words)

I am in love with my cousin. How do I attract her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am secretly in love with my cousin. Even though I have only seen her a couple of times. She lives in the states and sometimes my mom and I go visit our relatives. I can't stop thinking about her; so many nights spent fantasizing what it would be like to be with her. Even ... (189 words)

How do I know if I am "moving too fast"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - my question is how do you tell when to make the next move? cause i was hangin at her house watchin a movie. i put my arm around her for a bref second and she sits up to take a sip of her drink. but she waits intel i move my arm to sit back again. am i moving 2 fast?... (65 words)

I've been wanting to lose my virginity for a long time now, but.....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, i'm 14 years old and before i go into anything personal, i am very mature for my age when it comes to relationships. Like i've never had an actual relationship with any boys my age as i think they are too imature.(i prob sound like a brat or big headed but im not, lol) W... (163 words)

Should I be worried that my new partner of 6 months is or was bisexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've just discovered that my new partner of 6 months is or was bisexual, although she doesn't identify herself as this. Should I be worried?... (26 words)

Any tips on how to boost my energy levels please? I feel selfish and lazy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i used to be a pretty hyperactive person when i was younger, but as i've entered my teens, i never seem to have any energy. it frustrates me so much as i can't be bothered doing anything about it and feel so selfish and lazy, i try taking tablets to boost my energy levels and ... (216 words)

What do you think? Is he just being friendly or does he really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I really need your help because this has been on my mind for years. I really like this guy in my area but he's a lot older than me (20 years older and I'm 19). We get on really well and he's a friend of the family. I don't have any intentions of telling him how I feel b... (226 words)

I don't want to risk her rejection and put our friendship on the line.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and this girl have been friends for a while now and i'm starting to like her more, as in more than a friend. The problem is that i dont know if she likes me, and i don't want to ask flat out and risk her rejection and put our friendship on the line. Also i like her when she... (82 words)

How can my ex say he loves his girlfriend, when he cheated on her with me?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just recently broken up with my boyfriend of two years. We both are in serious relationships but I'm very confused because my ex said that he loved his new gf after dating her for two weeks and he cheated on her with me once (big mistake and never happening again) my... (86 words)

Is he playing mind games with me and hoping I will text him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) - I met a guy at work who came on to me. We started texting regularly even to the point if I was staying at a friends house he stayed up until 3am in the morning to have a very interesting conversation with me. Suddenly things seemed to have slowed down. I have mentioned a... (376 words)

I said No to a motorcycle trip with himbecause of his bad driving habits, and now he's mad at me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (?) - My boyfriend just bought another huge motorcycle. He wants to tour around the country on road trips. We are having a big debate about whether I will go with him or not. I am not afraid of riding on bikes but I am terrified of his poor driving habits, very unsafe, horrible ... (346 words)

There is a problem with our sex life, she is too loose.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year now and have gotten very comfortable with each other. There is a problem though with our sex lives; she is too loose. She was a virgin when I met her, and when she masturbated, to hit her g-spot she would use large toys... (154 words)

They say, visit a doctor, but I really can't tell my mum! What do you suggest?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me! I know discharge is normal but I get SO MUCH. I'm not sure if it's right. I have to put loo roll in my knickers all the time its awful. When i wake up, and then stand up, its realy heavy, as if its been 'collecting' overnight. I hate it because my pants are sodd... (116 words)

Sex with my girlfriend used to be great, now she doesn't want it at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i have been together for 6 years now, and sex use to be great... but know she doesn't want it at all. I have a 7 inch penis....and she said it hurts... what is the problem?... (40 words)

What do you do if your best friend is dating your brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do if your best friend is dating your brother?... (12 words)

After 42 years of marriage my husband unexpectedly left me for a younger woman.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age - After 42 years of marriage my husband unexpectedly left me for a younger woman. I really did not believe anything was wrong between us, i am totally and utterly heartbroken by his deceit and coldness. It is beyond belief the way that he told me, we had taken our grandchi... (151 words)

After a long relationship I want to finish it, but how, without hurting his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age - Hi All I am into a so-called "great relationship" for outsiders( friend who envy me) for the past 4 years. I am a bit manly in my thinking but a soft pity corner for him. I know at this point of life ,if i leave him i`ll be fine and maybe great. But i have never wanted to e... (275 words)

Gradually she started hating me...she didn't even give me time to prove myself better!

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5 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I love her since last 1 year but she hates me she doesnt even want to befriend me what should i do? i fell in love wid her when she had a bf. her bf betrayed her and i proposed her immediately. but was taken aback another friend of mine also proposed her. she was irritate... (222 words)

What should I do about a long term admirer? The scenario feels unfinished.

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5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I wonder what should I do about a long term admirer . He sent me a letter saying " I will always be watching you, remember don't forget the happy ending ..." . I was in a relationship at the time and so was he .Neither of us were unfaithful . Since the letter he still watches ... (119 words)

My boyfriend has intense feelings for another woman. Is this a big problem him having a picture of her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has had feelings for his old high school friend/my friend for the last 5 years. We've talked a lot about this situation, and the conclusion is always, I'm crazy and he doesn't know how to get rid of these feelings. I really don't think its crazy to be upset that my ... (141 words)

Why can't I find a woman who knows what she wants or what she deserves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I hear all the time from women (those I date and those I don't) things like "You're the perfect guy," and "you're a great guy," And "You're a good man," "a rare breed," and my personal favorite (NOT) "You're too good to be true," always the death nell--when I hear that, the end ... (128 words)

I love my husband although he is a cheater. How can I trust him again?

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5 May 2008 (F)

age - i've beeen married for 30+ years my husband has cheated on me several times. i've forgiven and know i will not forget. the last two time i left, but returned. i also had a relationship with someone and fell in love during our l 1/2 year separation. the other person i've known ... (160 words)

I normally know how to please a woman so what I'm I doing wrong here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - well i have plenty of experience when it comes to pleasing a woman.. i don't wanna sound cocky bc i am young and i have things to learn but we are very much in love and as you know in a relationship you want to please your partner.. well i know what pleases a girl i'm just not ... (214 words)

I found out he is married and still is in love with his wife even after he led me on! I'm devastated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - where to start i am a 41 yr old single mother with 2 boys been on my own now for 7 years . i went out with a friend of mine on a saturday night ended up in a night club . i met this gentleman who i was attracted to instantly . we ended up going home and having sex . next ... (297 words)

I'm depressed, bipolar, and people don't like me! Am I going to ever be able to cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im in my last year of school, im a guy, im 15, nearly 16 i know a lot fo you will say its to early in my life to make a decision but i truely believe that i am bisexual. i "came out" some time last year and well... everyone hates me i have 2 good friends who truely under... (149 words)

I have a little trouble with my skin, any ideas on how to prevent the peeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 13 year old femalee (: and having a little trouble with my skin. EVERYBODY admires it and thinks its lovely especialy for my age i drink a fair bit of water cleanse and always moisturise before i apply foundation but when i put foundation on in certain places eg. near ... (104 words)

I am a little overweight, any suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i would really like to lose some weight as i am a little over weight. i have tried to diet lots of times before but nothing seems to work for me and i am a very fussy eater. Has anybody got any tips of how i could lose some weight.... (50 words)

I want us to live together but how can that happen if he is reluctant to even see me?? He says he feels pressurised, I think he is not used to being in a serious relation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship for nearly 2 years now. He's 23 and i'm 22. I met him online and we met almost instantly despite me living in Manchester and him in London. 8 Months in to the relationship I decided to move down here to be with him. I don't live with him I live ... (314 words)

I feel powerless about arguing about his other dates as I am just a friend... with benefits! How will these feelings go away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Im utterly in love with someone i know isnt going anywhere and never will, it started off as a one night stand two years ago and then a few more since then we have become the best of friends going everywhere together holidays to festivals constantly phoning each other and ... (177 words)

Can anyone tell me how to get rid of this discharge?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im really really worried, the day after i have been fingered there is all this white gunge in my vagina. it doesnt smell, i just really dont no what it is and hate it!!!! can some one tell me how to get rid of it#?... (47 words)

We have a great relationship but in the past 3 weeks, I have been experiencing little to no sex drive. Could it be the pills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my Bf for a little of 3 yrs now, we have an awesome sex life. We have sex 4 to 5 times a week. I'm 32 years old, The past 3 weeks, I have been experiencing little to No sex drive. Before the past 3 weeks Even on the days that i'm not really into it, I get into... (250 words)

I feel rejected by my boyfriend. I don't know how to make him interactive with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i have had issues on and off since we met for various reasons. however we still keep coming back to each other and want to make it work. but im so insecure, and i think its my fault, but i keep getting hurt by him and getting really really stupidly upset which ... (260 words)

I'm a little confused about his "I like everyone" attitude!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, i met this lad about a month ago and i really liked him because he was such a nice person and always making me laugh. But i did not want to take it any further than friends at this time because i had just come out of a bad relationship i told him all this and at ... (150 words)

I've always liked him too, but I have a boyfriend! What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me, im so confused. Ive been with my bf for nearly a year but even though i love him dearly we have drifted apart a bit, and i dont feel like he loves me anymore. I got talking to an old school friend (male) who moved miles away, we get on really well, and... (129 words)

I'm afraid of being alone with my best mate, as he's a Sex Pest. Should I tell him he has a problem? Should I tell someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My best lad mate has become a total Sex Pest. A couple of his last ex girlfriends have told me that he tried to force them to have sex with him. This has really scared me. Once when i was alone with him , he was touching me inappropriately and i think he was trying to the same ... (146 words)

How do you know if you're in the "friend zone" with a guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - how do you know if you're in the friend's zone with a guy?... (13 words)

I can't stop cheating on him and I feel like a witch! He initiated the abuses, then convinced me not to leave!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been in a relationship for 5 years, with a man i thought was wonderful at first. I have a child with him and our own home. But since his father passed away, he spent everyday out with his friends, drinking after work. He had a major problem with alcohol and he was viol... (140 words)

It hurts more than it is enjoyable. How do I get the right way across to her without telling her she's doing it wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i'm not virgin i've been with many girls in high school but i started dating a girl that i've been with for over a year now and we just recently started fooling around bc she's a virgin.. i've got 2 questions.. 1 when i finger her it doesn't hurt anymore but she says she ... (138 words)

She did consent to what we did. But she was drunk as I, too, was. I feel tremendous guilt!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - There's this girl I've known since I was little and deeply care for and respect. This weekend all our friends went to a party and we came back to my place drunk. We slept on my bed and did pretty much everything except sex. I feel so guilty I don't know why I did it beca... (249 words)

Not sure whether I have caught this disease from my ex or by using somebody else's sex toy! I'm so worried and need a comforting thought.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

- I went to the sex clinic the other day and was screened for STI's. Afterwards, the doctor told me she had found some 'puss' cells inside me which indicate infection, though she didnt tell me exactly wot I had. She gave me antibiotics and told me tp ring the clinic in 10 days to ... (396 words)

How do you know when a guy no longer wants to be in relationship but is too afraid to let you down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (?) age 36-40 - I'm feeling stuck and sad. When it comes to my boyfriend, I can't figure out what he wants anymore. He's one of those people who HATES to hurt others. We fell in love 2 years ago. We hit it off so well. We could talk for hours and he was certain I was unlike any other women. He ... (673 words)

My date has little free time due to his job, should I demand more time with him or try to have a good time by myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6075 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - The man i am dating this year has a little free time because he oughts to be in a lot of social events because of his responsibilities. When we arrange to meet it's fine but when he can't i try hard to accept it. I feel that he doesn't really care although it isn't so but he c... (142 words)

I'm a bit tired of being the mum and dad, how do I get my partner to contribute??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Right i am in abit of a dilemma, i have been with my partner for just over for years and have 2 children 1 at 2 years and 1 at 1 year. Since the 1 years old has been born, and maybe before that i have done a lot of the house work and have tried speaking to her about it to get ... (144 words)

My bf of 2 yrs wants a break - to date other women! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of almost 2 years is requesting a break, but we're in an awkward situation because we live together and I just started a full time job (there is no way I could live on my own right now). He's not gonna kick me out or anything. We're still together. He said he still ... (474 words)

I invited my father to my house to support him through his recovery, only I just discovered he watches child porn! What should my next steps be??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Where to start... My father had a heart attack nearly a year ago, as he was living on his own I demanded he moved in with me, my partner and our young daughter, until he made a complete recovery. He moved in, retired from his job, moved out his rented house, and set up... (183 words)

Is my boyfriend an ABUSER?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

- I am confused about whether of not my bf is abusive. Please tell me what you think. We haven’t been dating for long (just under 2 months) so part of him is still putting on the perfect guy act I think, but I feel that maybe these little things that have happened are his true ... (1083 words)

There's one thing about him that weirds me out! He's 32 and lives in his parents' basement.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I went out with this guy for the first time on the weekend. He's cute,really nice and sweet, we have things in common and I think we had a good time. I felt very comfortable with him, coversation was good and it was really nice. I would like to see him again but there's one ... (271 words)

I wonder if I should jump ship before I get too attached, as I am skeptical about LD relations?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks now, and we're not serious yet, but I think we're headed in that direction. He's really starting to grow on me, and I think he's feeling the same way. But the thing is, he's going to be leaving to go to university in another state in 2 ... (204 words)

I love this guy so much, but I don't know where I really stand with him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do about him anymore. I have known this guy for three years now, he has not been in a relationship with anyone. Him and I always talk and we keep eachother company all the time. There is not one day that we do not talk. I fell in love with him a year ago... (423 words)

I dread when night time comes, because he always wants sex. But I'm in love with my lesbian friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 32 Y/o female. I got married in Feb 2007. I met my husband while serving in Iraq, he was in my same unit. we got back to the states and I got pregnant. we set the date to marry. I was't so sure. I so love this man, but it wasn't the same. My best friend is lesb... (177 words)

I plan to write him a heartfelt note to show I love him and how sorry I am for my past mistakes, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to write my bf a heartfelt note that will make him realize how much i love him and how sorry i am for all of the stupid crap ive done and that ill do anything to get his trust back! i dont know what to say to him to get my point across its not to convince him beca... (165 words)

How do I phrase it so he knows he is losing a good woman - does he even care??? Do I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6075 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Please give me some honest advice - I am with a guy and I have written before - we have been together three years this past week he has been acting weird - I was upset with him cause he was using the phone I pay for to text his ex-fiance - Anyway, I spent all weekend with him ... (304 words)

He's jealous of my past, is it because of trusted childhood?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

5 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend gets upset everyime he is reminded of my past. Not just the physical things I did with other guys, but if I was flirty with someone, even if we didn't kiss... all of that bothers him. I think it's a bit extreme, I mean, all I did was kiss some guys, I was ... (355 words)

I need to be more confident around the opposite sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - They big problem I seem to have is that whenever I really like a girl, she already has a boyfriend(or finds me repulsive). This has essentially decimated my confidence with the opposite sex. My question is, what can I do to become more confident... (44 words)

How do I avoid my ex taking custody of my kids again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i had an ex who put an ad in the paper and got custody of my kids while i was locked up. She had my kids stealin,prostituting,welfare fraud my kids got caught with her and another lady so facts intervened my mom was awarded custody of them my kids are not allowed to be arou... (112 words)

I feel so unfaithful because I think about other boys and even girls when I am with my boyfriend. Am I in denial?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I was the one who had a question about my sexuality and had a bf i loved...a lot of u said i love him and that im just over analyzing everything...well i got to see him this weekend and he made me orgasm:) woo hoo and i couldnt stop holding on to him, i just loved it...i get ... (389 words)

She said she loved me, then dumped me! How to get rid of this horrible feeling of loss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

5 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I am wondering how do i get rid of this horrible feeling of loss......my girlfriend dumped me Saturday at a Christian camp out.....the same day as prom. she just came up to me after like not even talking to me or hanging around with me for like a day and a half. and said ... (289 words)

We've been texting each other and are now ready to meet in person. Any tips to dismiss the awkwardness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - ok I've been talking to this guy that goes to my school. He is sorta cute. He's really nice and I'm pretty sure he likes me and I like him too. We have no classes together but have the same lunch and for about a week or maybe even two now I'm been texting and talking to him ... (103 words)

I still love him but I'm tired of being the part time girl and especially, of him being the part time father to our daughter. How do I go about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

5 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My daughter's dad is getting ready to head back home (out of state)some time in June 2008. He's been saying he's leaving for the past couple years however, I guess he's really leaving. I left him because of his deceitful ways, lies, etc. We have a daughter togethe... (262 words)

Only married a year, and communication has broken down, should I get a divorce?

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5 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a female in her early thirties, and I want to tell my husband that I want a divorce because at this point in our marriage I am very unhappy. He is a sweet person, but he is not willing to compromise about anything. We are communicating less and everytime I try to tell him ... (96 words)

I'm not sure she has a boyfriend, how do I find out and how to overcome the unpleasant experiences with dating so far?

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5 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, here is my problem. I really like this one girl, but the problem is that I'm pretty sure she has a boyfriend. I'm not absolutely positive, I've also felt as if she has been giving me mixed signals. I'm beside myself. I think the world of her but I don't know what to do. I'm ... (111 words)

How do I convince her she needs to grow up and work on this relationship with me?

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5 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid.... I have been with the same woman for 4 years and we are still living with her mother If anyone out there knows how tough that can be I sympathize. I can never get her to admit when she has done something that hurt me because her mother is there to back her... (233 words)

Should I let myself or someone else get emotionally attached if I'm moving?

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5 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I was wondering if i could get your opinion on something i have been giving a lot of thought. I recently just started a new job and for the first time since my terrible breakup with my ex girlfriend. i really like a colleague, however i am unsure whether i should make ... (132 words)

What am I doing wrong that I can't get a girlfriend?

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5 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi... I'm 20 almost 21 and and I have never had any girlfriend, nor have I kissed, hugged, touched hands... etc, etc... And it's driving me insane!... when i see the couples on the park i just turn around... I'm on med school, I speak 5 languages, I'm not that bad looking... (153 words)

I have a small ball underneath the skin on my vagina, what is it?

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5 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a small ball underneath my skin on the side of my vagina like were the panyline goes and it feels like a hard ball underneath the skin but if i irritate it pus comes out.. what is it and how can i make it go away... (48 words)

Do you believe that it is possible for us to continue to work at the same place despite the mutual attraction?

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5 May 2008 (F)

age - I've made a decision to NOT get involved with a man who I am attracted to at work, and he's attracted to me as well. Do you believe that it is possible for us to continue to work at the same place and just remain co-workers? Do you think these feelings will pass with time?... (57 words)

I don't know if I'll ever get over her and will I love someone else as much ?

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5 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, when I met this girl she had just broken up with her long term boyfriend but I was't aware of this, we then went on to have the most amazing 3 months together, then she began going back and forth breaking up with me to be with the ex and then doing the same to the ex to be ... (188 words)

What is the strangest place to have sex?

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5 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry for all the questions on here but I enjoy hearing everyone's comments on things, it makes you look at everything so much differently. The world is so diverse it is amazing. But as for my question. Where is the wierdest place any of you have had sex. And where are so... (82 words)

He says since all he could offer me was grief he could only really offer me nothing-what does he mean?

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5 May 2008 (F)

- I was with my boyfriend for twelve years and he ended a year ago. He was adament that we remain friends and I guess I went along with it as I thought something was better than nothing. We have not had a physical relationship in that time. He sent me an email today which said ... (119 words)

Can you tell me if he is giving signals or just being friendly?

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5 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so there’s this boy (lets call him A) who’s 1 year older than me who I have a crush on but is also my best boy mate. I havent known him that long about 4 months. Basically I’m confused about his feelings towards me. Yesterday me my best friend (G), her boyfriend (R) an... (220 words)