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writes:I've been with my bf for 3 years and we are engaged but i have never really gotten over my Ex. And whats worse he i like my best mate, and hes friends with my bf. I love my bf to death, but i keep thinking of my ex, and everytime i see him i just want to drop my bf and be with him, i flirt and he flirts back!Help please!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): You're very young to be engaged.
You love your boyfriend but you are not 100% sure about the relationship, which you really should be when you are engaged.
Would your fiancée understand if you talked to him about this? It's risky though. Would you be willing to end your friendship with your ex so that you could concentrate on your boyfriend?
Why did the relationship between your ex and yourself finish?
I don’t feel as though we’ve been given enough information.
Ok… Try and think whether or not you would spend the rest of your life wondering of you should have tried again, should you choose to stay with your boyfriend.
If you broke up with him for your ex, would you spend the rest of your life thinking “I gave up a good relationship for one that had previously fallen apart”?
You really need to look deep inside your heart.
I wouldn’t suggest talking to your ex about this. If he said that he liked you back then I think it could lead to you making a more irrational decision.
I hope you make the right decision.
Good Luck. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): I'm on the opposite side of your situation right now. We're engaged but he still flirts with his ex.
It really hurts on my part and I believe that your BF may be hurting too or may be hurt eventually. If you really love your BF, would you like him to be hurt? And since, you're engaged, in my opinion, it's best that you think it over and choose one.
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