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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I wait for him to make the next move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age - He definitely knows now that I'm interested in having sex with him. Should I wait for him to make the next move?... (23 words)

Do you think I am frigid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

31 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Well im 17 and my girlfriend is 16, i cant seem to pluck up the couraage to kiss her. We hold hands and she will get close to me in the cinema, but we have only kissed once (when i was drunk and she was not) we've been going out for 6 months now do you think i am frigid?... (60 words)

How do I get past my mum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - im12 and going out wid a 15 yr old boy i've never met i need help he wants me to meet him and i dont no how to tell ma mum and to meet up hhelp me plz ?... (39 words)

I am scared to try BJ again!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I was recently told I was awful at giving a guy a blowjob. I mean, it was my first time and all, and he knew that. He just simply told me I was awful at it. I asked him what I could do to improve and he just said "get better" while shrugging. I know I have to get better with ... (189 words)

I don't know if this is normal or not????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i really need some help... since my period (about 2days ago) ive had a watery discharge constant and soemtimes i can feel it like ive come on my period but i know i havvnt because it is watery and thin and clear/white. i dont know if this is normal or not???? secon... (120 words)

Not sure what to do! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know what to do. okay see theres this boy ans hes really kewl. he knows how to make me laugh even when i feel like crying. so hes basically like my best friend. hes in my class and seeing him everyday and flirting with him all the time i started to like him more than a ... (206 words)

He's giving me confusing signals. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6015 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I knew this guy about half a year ago from some classes we've been taking and even right from the beginning he kept trying to ask me out but I kept rejecting him. I eventually went out with him a couple of times and then once we went over to his place when he actually asked me ... (461 words)

He wants to be Friends with Benefits!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend wants to just date or just not be boyfriend girlfriend title but still wants sex. That went on for about a week and then he sent me an article from this site "Is my girlfriend needy or is it just me?" and says he wants space. Can anyone tell me what he wants ... (61 words)

He cheated on me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i am 13 years old and i have been having problems with getting over my ex who is 16 years old... he cheated on me with a girl his age. my bff thinks its because i wasnt giving him what he "needed" if you know what i mean. is there any way to get over him? or should i... (76 words)

All his ex-GF's are gorgeous. How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6006 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I feel so dumb and childish asking for help about this... My boyfriend's exes are all beautiful. Really beautiful. One of them was chosen the most beautiful/hottest of the class when he was in high school, the other one has tons of admirers, and some other non-exes (but gi... (406 words)

Am I too small?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

31 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 13 and my penis size is really small its is like 1 in soft and 3 in hard and i am very scared people will laugh at me is there anything i can do about it?... (38 words)

She broke off her marriage proposal, but still I feel insecure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

31 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in to seven year relationship with a girl, but year before she had a relationship outside our relationship with the guy in his office they got along very well and guy proposed her marriage, but maybe she realised that its not good and later confessed to me, which i ... (133 words)

I'm shy. How can I tell if she really likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 basicly there is the girl i like alot im not sure how she feels for me though i met her through myspace and we talk all the time on msn and text alot too ive only actualy met up with her once i am very shy so im not exactly good with girls she talks about sex alo... (84 words)

Should I call it quits with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - HI, im 13 and my boyfriend is 16... know that were out of school for the summer he hardly ever calls we've been out for almost 2 weeks and he's only called me once. and we used to go out somtimes.. and know i dont know what to do. he used to also kiss me alot and lately ... (91 words)

Does it seem like he wants me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey erm never done this b4 but im in such a messover it n need help... about a yr ago me n this lad was gettin on really well but then it fizzled out n he got wiv one of my mates since then they have split up about 3 months back n we have been txtin n ringing now he wants me... (171 words)

I think he is waiting for the right opportunity to leave me, as we own a property together. What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age - I have been married 7 years, my husband is 11 years younger than me, he suddenly is rejecting me and talks secretly to his ex wife, the mother of his 2 kids. His sister is best friends with his ex and always wanted them back together, and she hates me. I caught him call... (346 words)

Attempted sex with a new person for the first time in 2 years, and it hurt. Is it menopause or nervousness? Any idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

- Hope someone can help. I broke up with my boyfriend about two years ago. I have messed aroung with a few guys from time to time since then but have not gone all the way. Well, I tried to go all the way with someone a couple of nights ago and it really hurt. I am in my ... (99 words)

He is so nice to me and I'm afraid the only reason why I want him is because he won't hurt me... unlike the others...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - im stuck i was seening someone for a while and he knew that i had been abused very violently by this last person then a couple of weeks ago he assulted me and i got in touch with an old friend who is male and he has told me that he wants me to be more than a mate and i feel the ... (116 words)

I'm willing to have anal sex though I have no clue about it. Can anyone please give me advice?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has asked me to have anal sex with him, im willing to do it but i have never done it before. Can anyone please tell me does it hurt or any advice, tips, etc. Thanks xxx... (38 words)

I've shaved my pubic area... Now what do I expect? Is there a major risk of ingrown hairs or itches?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

31 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My question is simple guys - I've shaved 'down there'... Now what do I expect? Will it start growing back straight away? Is there a big risk of in-growing hairs? I'm really worried about those! Will it hurt and itch and never grow back the same again?!... (48 words)

Do married men ever leave their wives for the younger girls they are cheating with?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

31 May 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Do married men ever leave their wives for the younger girls they are sleeping with? in what circumstances. why? ... (22 words)

Do you think that my call could have been the beginning of a relationship or does he really means when he says "friendship"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6015 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - A guy and I met almost a year ago in a meeting. It turns out he's military and had to go back to his base shortly. Since then, we´ve being in touch by email as friends , share joke pictures, thoughts, etc. Last week he wrote me a note saying he´s getting deployed (not to Iraq)... (208 words)

He loves "woman on top" position but I never feel comfortable in this way, please give me some tips! How to make him climax in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all My husband loves me to be on top of him while having sex but I never get comfortable in this position.I am not good to make him come to climax in this either.Please tell me how to have sex on top of him. I would be thankful Soni... (54 words)

I was forced to lie because my boyfriend thinks even a simple hello to a former crush is something major!! How can I regain his trust?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I've got a problem. I know, though, that it's mostly my fault, really. See, my boyfriend and I have a troubled relationship. I broke the trust, and now it seems impossible to get it back. Ok here it goes... From the beginning of the relationship I knew he had a tem... (635 words)

I'm afraid that if I got into a relationship with him again he will dump me for somone else again, as it happened in the past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

- 3 years ago my ex dumped me for someone else. At the time I was heartbroken and it took me months to get over it. Now, 3 years later, he's dumped her and we have started meeting up occasionally and I have had sex with him a couple of times. He has told me that he hates hi... (236 words)

Falling for my best friend who I might never see again... should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

31 May 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I think I am falling for my male best friend.I've known him since the 3rd grade and we've gotten along great.The problem is I don't know if I should tell him how I feel.I don't want to ruin our friendship.My other best friend says that in 2nd period,he stares at me a... (98 words)

I changed my mind about giving him oral sex, so he flipped out saying I am playing with him! I'm not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys im 15, so i told the boy that im together with in the begining of the week that i wanted to give him head. then i thought about it and i dont want to rush things and be so easy. i told him that today cause i am seeing him later. he FLIPPED out like saying that i got ... (90 words)

Do I let them be happy together or what can I do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like to tell you the whole story and maybe you could understand better but it's way too long and you'll propably get bored but heres the basics : -Meet boy -Start dating boy -Loose virginity to boy -Two weeks later we brake up -I try everything to get him back EV... (221 words)

Is it possible that he likes me more than just a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - what am i supposed to do. theres this boy. and hes like my best friend. we basically tell eachother everything. he was there for me when no1 else was. buht like now he flirts with me alot. hes always touching me. like brushing my hand or sholder or leg. lol wellhes always ... (124 words)

Does he like me or was that a one day thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - it was 2 days before the last day of school.we were in 4th period about to take our exams.everybody was out in the hall.he came over near me and smiled.i didn't know what was going on so i turned around.i dropped my paper by accident and leaned over to pick it up.he puts his... (136 words)

I'm just wondering if boyfriends still remain boyfriends after boot camp?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6016 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my on and off boyfriend for two years just left for basic training for the national guard. Our relationship has been quite rocky these past years. We broke up a few months before he left, but got back together a month before he had to leave. That last month he was so ... (222 words)

I don't want to force him to break up with her, but I can't be involved with him while he is dating her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met this guy at my school about a month ago. He is a year older than me. I first found out about him through my parents - he is their co op student this semester and my mom was always asking if i knew him. i looked him up in my yearbook and didnt know him, but ... (583 words)

I stayed faithful, but he is ending our long-distance relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - After 2 and half years in a relationship (12 months long distance - not my choice but his) my boyfriend has decided that its over. He told me that if I was not able to be with him (re-locate overseas) he is calling it a day. He has been ruthless about living elsewhere from ... (588 words)

I wouldn't move on, but I want him to know I can stand on my own

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently wrote about how my boyfriend and I broke up and I needed my things back. Actually he was the one that told me I should keep in mind he has to do other things but never mentioned break up. It's been quite long since we spoke and i texted him recently how he is was. He ... (113 words)

I can't forget my ex. Help me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hey... i am with this great guy... so happy ... but i can't forget my ex...i don't love my ex but i can't get him out of my mind...verywhere i look... everything i do.... what should i do????? can anyone help me????... (46 words)

Am I becoming obsessive over my spots and blemishes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - hi - wondering if anyone can help. I have for a while been picking at my face - by this I mean I can spend long periods of time each day with a magnifying mirror, near a window for best lighting, so that I can pick what I think is all the spots, imperfections etc from my skin ... (351 words)

Her ex boyfriend called her. She is trying to re-assure me, but I don't know if there is more going on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, Ive been seeing my girlfreind for about a year now, and a few months back her Ex boyfreind called her up out of the blue and asked her if she was still single. She was with this guy for 4 years, and it ended on good terms she said. So, I only found out he had called ... (397 words)

Something happened while I was asleep. Should I end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - So i fell "asleep" on the couch while a friend was over with me and my girlfriend. I heard them talk about sex and then i heard masturbation noises. I woke up and the guys fly was undone. Then when i confronted my girlfriend about the whole thing she lied to me about it ... (77 words)

If he has a crush, would he just stand and stare?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - one simple question if a guy has a crush on u..he would definitely make an effort to talk to u..what if he doesnt but just stares and looks at u..what is it???... (33 words)

The ultimate revenge. Should I go for it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Today i was told by a friend about a girl at my old school who now works an escort. This girl was the worst type of girl and once she made a complete fool of me and embrassed me in front of a lot of people and it took a while to get some credability. After some research i know ... (92 words)

My sister-in-law is mad at me for what I told her parents

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My sister in law is mad at me for telling her parents that I hope that she and her husband have kids and that I hope they have a girl so that my 2 girls have someone to play with. Two days prior to me saying this, she told me on the phone that she and her husband were going ... (341 words)

One of my best friends is ignoring me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Help me!! One of my best friends at high school has been ignoring me on msn. Yesterday i phoned her to wish her good luck with her exam and spoke to her briefly on msn after she finished it. Suddenly today she wont say a thing to me. She was left a personal message saying ... (87 words)

I added him on Facebook. Now I need to tell him why.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I have sort of a question about whether to do something or not. I am a 17 year old girl who goes to an all-girls school. We have brother schools in which we are "supposed" to socialize with boys from. This is going to sound like a really silly question, but on facebook... (169 words)

He came home from working abroad and I think he is not as interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend who's moved interstate for work. He told me he's coming home in a few weeks, but has been booked out by his friends and family and wont have time to see me. I'm not upset that he's spending time with them, and think it's ... (159 words)

How do you make it obvious to a guy that you like them more than a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Havent been in the dating game for over 2 years. how do you make it obvious to a guy that you like them more than a friend? but you dont want to scare them away and lose them.... (38 words)

Teenage and pregnant, how will we tell our parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i am pregnant now by my boyfriend we don't now how to tell our parent about so how do we tell them?... (22 words)

I feel very ashamed and dirty after masturbation! Please help!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a female and thirteen years old. ive posted a problem like this before but didnt get much help tbh. the thing is after i masturbate and after i have an orgasm i feel really really ashamed and dirty and i end up hating myself i reakky dont understand it because ma... (78 words)

My partner is so unsociable and forbids me to go places... because "he's a man." If only he would spend the evening with me alternatively, but he won't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have 2 children with my partner and i'm finding it really dificult not being able to go out. At the moment i have 2 weeks off work and my bf just had a week off. I would love to go to a fancy dress party my friend's having, i haven't seen any of my friends for ages and i'm ... (206 words)

Is this very suspicious or am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - i was on the phone with my boyfriend yesterday afternoon..while talking i heard something so i asked--you have another call and he said yeah but it can wait..after a minute or two i said why didn't you take it? and he said it wasn't his brother or his house or his boss, it can ... (154 words)

Does a rape victim want friends/parents to freak out in their defense, or be quietly understanding? How can we help these people?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

31 May 2008 (F)

age - I am finding out that almost everyone I know has been raped, guys and girls. My daughter just told me she was raped over 3 years ago, in high school. My husband was raped as a teen, but we established early in our relationship that he was OK, and didn't need to talk about it. ... (376 words)