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*aydee V
writes:I'm in a weird situation, I've been with my boyfriend for 2years and I trust him but I don't trust other people. I don't like it when he looks at other girls because i'm scared he will leave me for someone else... I really don't know what to do x Reply to this Question
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reader, Dr. Reality Check +, writes (28 May 2008):
 He looks at other girls and you are scared he will leave you? Doesn't sound from that like you trust him at all, but what I would say is this: just let this fear go - it will consume you and ruin the relationship otherwise. Good luck.
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Hi sweetheart
Like waterloo says it happens to everyone at some point, But everyone does look..I cant help looking at a beautiful guy or girl its a natural thing like looking at a beautiful painting or landscape...But you no he cant go off with a painting eh!!!!
http://www.womensselfesteem.com/index.html
I should have shares in this link, But it is amazing if your having self doubt and your confidence is down hunny there is everything on there to help you...TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): You really do have to get over these feelings in time. I know what you mean, i have been like this in the past, but more so when i was young or in a new relationship. My bloke looks when when i catch him having a bit more than a look, more of an ogle, then i have to give him a nudge. Sorry, but i just think it is impolite and not nice for the person that they are with, quite disrespectful. But we are all the same. I look if i see a good looking bloke and even if a gorgeous woman walks in a room, i have to check her out, then i check where my blokes eyes are. I happens to us all, but it is determined by how we handle the situation. Never blow up and have a childish tantrum, just have a word with him later and maybe he will take it on board. Ask him not to stare but looking is ok.
take care
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