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writes:Ok.. So I've known my "bf" for a long time. We used to date about 2 years ago, stopped talking. And now we started dating again. We have been dating for about 2 months now. He is nice and everything. But he has a problem. He doesn't call me much. Like I call him and he is like I'll call you later but he doesn't. Or I'll text him and he won't text me back. I have tried giving space. Like I won't call him or text him for like 2 or 3 days. And then he will call. When we do talk he tells me he misses me and that he likes so much. On saturday I went over to his house and we were watching a movie. We were messing around. And then we went to his room and started making out and getting really into it. We didn't have sex, even though we have already before. Well while we were laying in bed, he told me that he has very strong feeling for me and that he loved me. And I was in shock.. And I ddnt tell him that I loved him back. Because I'm not too sure I do. I really like him a lot. But I don't know if its love yet. Anyways my question is he said he loves me but he doesn't really show it. Why doesn't he call me back or txt me. Also he has a facebook and I requested him, he never accepted me. And then he said that he didn't log on to it anymore, then a week later he changed his profile pic! I have had sex with him, so he couldn't of said it to get in my pants. What do you guys think.. If you got any questions or need clarifying let me know. Thanks..
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2008): it sounds to me like he was saying he has strong feelings for you and skipping the sex to make you think he is more of a nice guy or more intimate with you than he is...i think if you made sure to keep contact with him exactly like you do now and tried dating other guys (or at least letting him think you are) he will become much more interested very quickly. but you may find when you are dating the other guys that they seem better than what you have now.
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 He's either one of those guys who doesn't really show his feelings or he's not as into you as he says he is. Maybe he's really busy and doesn't have the time to get back to all your messages as quickly as you would like. Remember, you are only dating just now, you aren't official yet so you can't expect him to be purely exclusive to you either. Just ask him how he really feels and ask him why he doesn't show any of his true feelings to you.
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