A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:its all about his feeling for his ex who he knew her since they both were so young, but she died, and that was like six years ago, since then he's tried to find her in someone else, lied himself its her, but he couldn't lie til end, so i say he never has had real love ever again. with me he said he knows im not her, he said he wants me to love him, he likes my feeling for him, he doesnt like me talk about other guys,he said he thinks he already loves me and has me in his mind.but he has to control his acting to me cos he doesnt want me to get hurt by him cos he's not bad guy and doesnt want tobe selfish. he said he does want to be with me but he can't, then again he said actaully he can, but he doesn't want to cos he can not. i told him to follow his heart, to be whith whoever he wanted to be with, he said he knew exactly who he wanted to be with but she's not here. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): He's way too emotionally distraught to be in a relationship right now. He's very depressed about his exgirlfriend's death, and if he can't get over it and move on, you shouldn't waste so much time on him.
Tell him that he can either be with you or keep dreaming about someone he literally cannot have. Tell him you hope that he gets some counseling about his problem, because you think it will really help him move on. Let him know you care about him, but you simply cannot continue to put up with this because it's hurtful to you.
Best of luck!
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