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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Right now I’m in a 3 month relationship and everything is working out for the most part. He just got his license and is looking for a job. I have had both things for a while and started new job. Anyways our relationship started out great, we texed all day every day and were comfortable with each other. His mom drove him to my house and occasionally when my parents would let me drive to his house I would which was only three times. His family likes me a lot and my family likes him. One day he didn’t talk to me all day and I became worried. He told me that he needed space just those two days and I was sad because I thought we were perfect but I respected his wishes. Then we started talking again like normal but I still felt like something was missing. Now he has his license and is busy when I’m not busy. He has job searching and I work a lot of hours. Then when we do talk I feel like things are awkward between us and that he’s a little distant. Yesterday he was busy driving his sister and I was at college so I didn’t reply to his texts and it took him a while to reply to mine when I could text. We both thought that we were leaving each other. How come I feel like something’s wrong and he’s being really distant? Why am I really sad when we don’t talk? Do I need space alone even though it would make me sad?
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reader, syrop  +, writes (4 November 2010):
The only solution is Communication!! yes!! you should try talking to him. tell him how you feel without him. am sure he will try his best so as not to make you re feel the same. you feel he is being distant because the fact that you used to text each other every now and then, which now does not happen so, makes you feel lonely. but girl it may be that he is really busy. so just chill. if you try talking to him and he does not take you into consideration then maybe he is not looking forward for this relation. and remember your relation is just 3 months. 3 month!!! you can never know someone fully enough in 3 month. You feel sad when You don't talk to him because you love him but gradually you shall be used to it.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 November 2010):
 Ok well three months is not that long really for a relationship and if he doesnt contact you for a day or 2 then you shouldnt over react and wonder what is wrong, the honey moon period is probably over for him now were you have to text and phone each other everyday and maybe you are picking this up as there is something wrong, or maybe he just needs some space to himself because he thinks things are getting to much.
Sweetie you need to be honest with him and tell him how you are feeling or else you will end up driving yourself crazy. Just ask him is everything ok and tell him you feel like he is being distant with you and ask him what is wrong.
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