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writes:I went to a party saturday with my theatre group, I havn't seen my boyfriend in a few weeks- well I have but we havn't been intimate in ages. At the party I stayed over and one of my guy friends started kissing me.. and I just couldn't stop myself. I don't think I like him, but I feel as if I have wanted to dump my boyfriend recently because I am only 16 years old- he is my first love, I lost my virginity to him, I'd never even kissed another guy till I met him. He has had other girlfriends, and he feels that we never break up, I can't help but feeling- i'm to young to believe in staying with someone forever just yet. It was strange being with someone knew, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I just don't know how I will do this or when to do it. I know it's going to break his heart.. and frankly, i think it may break mine too
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reader, Tammy1205  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 Hi,
You are too young to think you have found someone you will stay with forever. Trust me, I went through the same thing when I was 16. I met a guy and he treated me badly and we didnt have a very affectionate relationship, he was a horrible person, but I did lose my virginity to him. I didnt want to be alone so I stayed in this crappy relationship. Because I lost my virginity to him I felt like i HAD to stay with him, like there were no other guys in the world. I was with him for 2 years and as I got older I started to see he was a bad person and I didn't feel afraid of looking for a new boyfriend anymore. Well eventually we stopped hanging out and I lost feelings for him and VOILA there were other men I wanted to hang out with.
If your boyfriend isn't making you happy and fufilling your every need, break up with him. Life is too short to not have or be searching for extraordinary love.
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reader, Thoughtless +, writes (5 November 2010):
 u r very young & need to go c what's out there. do what ur heart tells u do a pros & cons do what is RIGHT for u not any1 else good luck
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