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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hiya me and my bf have been going out about a year and a half now and were plannning on having our first time together soon. I wanted to say something really nice before he enters me as he is really romantic and emotional. I thought I could say something like "I really like you (we've not said the L word yet!) and want us to go on for as long as we can, your the most amazing kindhearted and special guy I have ever met." anyway I'm just really bad at expressing my self do any help on anything nice to say would be appreciated. Thanks. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (4 November 2010):
Well make sure you both really want the sex first. Duh, everyone wants it physically, that's why its so fun, but do you both want this emotionally? Are you both in a place where you want to grow closer through sex, or are you just feeling that its about time?
Its good that you have waited about a year and half, that shows that you two have really worked to become closer before taking this step. If you truly think you're ready, say something like "I want this with you."
That shows him that you're completely okay with it and that you really want it with HIM and not just want it in general. Good luck.
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