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female
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30-35,
*oreverlove
writes:Im sort of in a relationship with someone. We have been like this for 10 months now. He's lovely and I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. But he does have his moment where he turns and just doesn't talk to me, blanks me and does all the of the stuff I really can't stand!Yesterday was bad so much so that I cried over it. I don't know what to do any more. My heart says that I love him so much and can't walk away from him because it hurts. But then my head says that maybe we will be fine later on and this will be in the past. Please help I don't know what to do!? Reply to this Question
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reader, LovelessAct1  +, writes (5 November 2010):
Communication, communication, communication! Does he know how this makes you feel? Do you tell him often that you don't like to see him doing those things? Chances are, if he actually knew what you were feeling, he'd try and improve upon things.
If you truly love him, you can't just leave before you even explain yourself to him and talk with him. Guys are oblivious. Very very very oblivious. We don't understand the female psyche as much as you might think. Explain to him what is going on with you and if he cares, he'll try and consider ways to improve his attitude for you.
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