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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I need help, I have just found out that my boyfriend of nearly 2 years has another girlfriend, he is the navy and away a lot, i thought things were great with us but he has been seeing her for 5 years so you could say that i am the bit in the side, I never had a clue he is everything i ever wanted and i feel shattered. I only found out because I got a text message telling me I should check out his facebook page, i am not a member of facebook bt got my freind to check it for me and sure enough he is on facebook with her his profile says in a relationship with and for how many years and they look like a great couple, I have also found out that she has cancer but it very well at the moment and they think they have caught it but I feel for her because she doesn't have a clue like me that the guy showing her all this support is a cheat and it gets worse because I am no the only one, he has the girlfiend of five years and me for wo years and at least another two who he is on/off with. I want revenge but don't want him to find out it was me, I have broke up with him but it makes me sick that he is playing happy house with his other girl who doesn't have a clue, my friend said I should send her a message warning her that he is playing her but I keep thinking about her illness and don't want to upset her but i think she has the right to know. What should i do?
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reader, Tammy1205  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 Hi,
The truth will set you free. She needs to know. Tell her everything you believe is important. Remember you have done nothing wrong. Your boyfriend is the one who will carry all the blame. Men like him give the rest of them a bad name. At least you found out the truth, who knows how long he could've strung both of you along. So just tell her however you can, phone would be best though. She has no right to be upset at you as you had no idea he was dating another woman.
And congratulations on your courage and breaking up with him. You are clearly a strong woman. I wish you the best of luck.
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