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writes:Question mainly for the guys but general opinion as well.If a girl who has never had a boyfriend and is in her late 20's, very quiet and shy, just goes to work and it easy going and doesn't have any real friends like from school or work would that put you off asking her out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): Elaborate on what you mean by "real" friends. Surely she's not completely alone all the time outside work? Does she mainly have online friends?
It depends on that girls personality and while the other guys didn't allude to this I think you get that we'd have to be attracted to her too. Although I suppose that's a given.
Quiet, shy and easy going are all good qualities but there's a limit. As long as she's not closed off, is open to new things and has some kind of friends then that's fine.
But I'm not going to know any of things about her really if I'm only asking her out, so yeah as long as I found her attractive and we could have good conversation I'd ask her out.
Saying all that I'm probably never going to meet her if she never does anything other than work.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 Yeh it certainly could, but really depends- if she's a great person and I think that her lack of experience/friends is unjustified then I might view her more as a diamond that just slipped through the cracks.
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reader, LovelessAct1  +, writes (5 November 2010):
In my opinion, the only thing I'd have to consider is how "clingy" that girl would become. If they got a boyfriend, chances are they'd make that person their everything.
Being close in a relationship is great, but being able to function well away from each other is always healthy. You want to have separate lives, and have them integrate, rather than just trying to become part of his life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2010): well i am still in highschool but what it seems your asking is whether or not being a loner is off-putting, I would say no guys dont really care about how many friends a girl has or had before, they mostly care about your personality, however if your very shy it may be harder to find a guy. Good Luck!!!
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