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writes:I'm in love with a chinese girl and I believe she loves me also.She doesn't speak English. I don't speak chinese.We can only communicate through email, mobile and friends (interpreters).What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): Language is a MUST, you guys need to communicate with each other- Either she speaks English or you speak Chinese, otherwise no point to start, because it won't go far!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): Language is a MUST, you guys need to communicate with each other- Either she speaks English or you speak Chinese, otherwise no point to start, because it won't go far!
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reader, Natalie:)  +, writes (4 November 2010):
 I think it would be much easier for her to learn English than visa versa however I guess I am a bit bias!!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 November 2010):
 If you have an iPhone it has a translator app on it but that's going to take some time..I would do Rosetta Stone if she is worth the $ spent, or see if your local college or university offers Chinese as a course. Honestly, I hear English is the hardest language to learn because of all our grammar rules. It also stands out on your resume if you can speak another language.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2010): How do you know she loves you if she doesnt speak the same language as you? She might just be asking for software advice lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2010): I think,it s quite a big problem because understanding is based on the love so that it so important for u to learn chinese language. it will make a great impression,just only say "wo ai ni"
means i love you. If you understand your love enough,you will try to sacrifice to spend your time to learn another language.Best luck for your love.Love Beyond Frontier…
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reader, WhateverMovesThee +, writes (4 November 2010):
 Immerse yourself in the culture and learn the language. I know a lot of Mandarin because I listened to a lot of Chinese music and tv shows on youtube :p Look up Jay Chou vids they come with translations and some of his songs are very romantic :) She should do the same...Rosetta Stone rocks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2010): That's so sweet !. I'm the same. I love this Spanish guy that i have seen a few times when i have been on holiday to Spain. It hurts because we dont even live in the same country ( although i'm thinking of doing a foreign exchange in Spain so that i can learn the language and learn about the culture, e.t.c ) , and we cant speak each others languages very well. My brother has a villa there so i have seen this guy when i have stayed there. I dont get to go to Spain on holiday very often though. He also likes me, and we kissed last time i saw him ( but nothing else happened ). I havent seen him for quite a long time, but i really want to go back there !.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (4 November 2010):
 I'd say you've got a problem. Either you need to take a crash course in Chinese, or she'd better take a course in English. I dated a Japanese man for 9 years, and he spoke English well after having a private tutor, but there will still alot of misunderstandings because of the language barrier. Start studying! Get books, cd's, cassette tapes, take private lessons, anything to help you learn. Rosetta Stone learning is supposed to be good, but its rather expensive. Good luck!
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reader, First  +, writes (4 November 2010):
 lol I'm in love with an American guy but I'm Thai. He doesn't speak Thai so I learn English for him. If you love that Chinese girl you have to learn her language!
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