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*shepy
writes: i cannt cope with distance releationship and now im making the wrong decisions. cant stop thinking that he is cheating on me too. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2010): You will reflect your thinking on your partner. What you see in them is really what you see in yourself. Take a good look in the mirror and love yourself. Best of luck
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (4 November 2010):
LDR's are tough because once you start getting attention from someone else, you feel you don't need them. I've seen it happen too many times. You need to talk more. Talk a lot. Even if you have 15 minutes of free time, give him a call or leave him a message.Keep in mind the relationship is still young, but you don't want to be in a relationship where you'll only end up hurting each other. Talk about your wants and needs, make an attempt to communicate more. If you still feel distant, maybe a LDR isn't the best thing for you right now.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 November 2010):
So you're in a LDR and you have already cheated? Sorry dear, but that proves you cannot handle a LDR..and need to break this off. Not to mention your questioning the trust. They're not for everyone, there's no shame in admitting that.
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reader, miss troubled +, writes (4 November 2010):
iam also in the same situation dearie..itz really painful when the long distance relationships cant complete the needs. so what best u can do is have a long conversation with him about ur problem and try to solve it out together coz if u r in so much trouble may be he is also...
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (4 November 2010):
Long distance relationships are extremely difficult. You either trust him, or you don't. If you don't trust each other, the relationship will never last.
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