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*enc57
writes:I like this girl but I can’t seem to get to really know her. I have been with this girl for 5 months and getting any kind of personal information is like the most impossible thing I have ever done in my whole life. I just feel like I’ve told her everything about me but I know barely anything about her. we spend hours together every day and I can literally count the days we haven’t spent hours together (6days) I don’t know how you can spend 4 hours every week day and 12 hours every weekend together and barely getting to know a lot about someone but that what happed. If you’re thinking it’s because I dominate the conversation your wrong if anything she’s the only one talking. I do REALLY like her but I just always have this feeling that she still doesn’t trust me entirely which makes me really sad because I trust her more than anyone I have ever trusted before. Most of the time was together she always laughs or giggles and she’s always smiling so I just feel like we like each other but she doesn’t trust me which makes no sense to me considering we have spent enough time together to equal more than a full month. Can someone tell me why she might not trust me or that she’s just really shy or something because its driving me crazy trusting someone 100% and they aren’t even willing to tell you there favorite song.
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reader, benc57 +, writes (5 November 2010):
benc57 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks its jsut that 5 months is the longest relationship iv had so im jsut freaking out about every detail because its all new to me, thank you for the advice
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (5 November 2010):
 It doesn't have anything to do with trust..it's either about shyness or being too reserved, or having trouble opening up to people. Or she might not be that comfortable around yet, perhaps she wants to keep a little mystery. Do you ask her open ended questions? Don't question her like it's a job interview, just ask about normal things. If anything hang out together in silence, just to get comfortable with each other..you don't have to talk 24-7 or know every detail about her. If she told you everything there is to know about then what would you guys have to talk about the remainder of the relationship? It takes time, years to get to know truly know someone. Relax and take it slow, there's no need to grill her for personal information, it will come out when she is ready.
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