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writes:Well me and my baby's dad been together for 5 years, and a little after a year he started throwing things at me, yelling at me, now its kicking me, socking me in the side of my head and at times he does it in front of our kids and he only does it if i prove him wrong and he gets mad and blows up. most of the time he gets mad when i go outside, he says im just being a hoe and hes always put me down and sometimes he hits me so bad i get marks on me. my family hears things and they ask me and i used to tell them the things he does but now i feel dumb because am still with him. please help me and tell me what i should do because I am in love with him but i cant put up with the abuse any more. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tammy1205 +, writes (5 November 2010):
 You are not dumb. Get out of this relationship now. Love is NEVER violent. He does not love you and he does not respect you. You do not need him. He has no right to hurt you. Get away from him however you can. Remember there is EVIL everywhere, and evil is inside him. Get you and your children out. Call the police and they will tell you what to do. There are people who can help. As soon as you have called the police go down to the station, or maybe a police officer can even pick you and your kids up and drive you down there. maybe you can even press charges and put him in jail. Get away from this, you deserve so much better. No woman deserves to be hurt. A real man never hurts a woman.
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (4 November 2010):
 Try not to feel dumb. You're not dumb. You're also not alone. You do need to figure out how to get out of there and away from him, as his anger and violence will only worsen the longer you stay. I finally had to sneak out of the house with my teen age son, run to a neighbor's house in socked feet, and call the police when I decided I'd had enough. Please, please, please, don't let it continue. You are in love with the man he is when he's not intimidating and belittling you. There will come a time when you will no longer love him but despise him and be so mad at yourself that you wasted so much precious time and energy on him. Get out now.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 November 2010):
Go home to your family, report this man to the police for domestics abuse and get yourself and your baby away from him. It's essential that you put your child and yourself first. You do not want your baby to end up with a dead mother and an abusive father. You're not stupid or dumb. You're probably terrified, lost and tired of it all. So, pack a bag for you and your baby and just get away from him.
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