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writes:I have been with a man for close to 3 years after his divorce in 2008. He started to become violent but yet abusive in his own way towards me. I ignored all signs and continue the relationship. We moved in together and I began to see he was attached to his computer. Datings sites, keeping contact with X girlfriends while in the relationship with me and X wife became a problem. I have notice that after every fight he leaves for days turn into weeks. I had to contact him everytime to come home, as he made reasons why he left ect ect.Also, the pattern made me recognize that something wasn't adding up with him. I catch him e-mailing personal e-mails, X's X wife ect ect. Then days missing from work or off and not coming home until the morning he should be home IF he was working. I have confronted him all the times and got shut down with taking physical and verbal abuse, along with him destroying everything in our home. This became a pattern every time for him.All the sudden he stops the SEX and wanted to just sleep long periods of hours during the day and even on weekends. Igoring my 14 year old son, and myself was going through a lot of neglect and abandonment with him. Money got short, well as checks ect. One day things just came in the light to realize he had other sexual fanatasies besides me. Always into ANAL with females, and possibly male I asume base on his personality changes. Can you tell me what kind of man I ran up against.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2010): i once knew a guy just like this and i to was in denial he finaly dumped me and i was so glad to be free of what i would call a monster you to must be free from this living hell dump him
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (4 November 2010):
 Yes, why are you still with him?
As to what kind of man he is, well, worthless, that's what.
Surely you can do much better once you've given him the old-heave-ho, had time to yourself to think about this and to learn from it.......
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 November 2010):
A man you need to dump. He's obviously not there for the love or commitment. He's there for whatever he can get. I think you need to end it and find a guy who can offer you a lot more. And believe me, there are lot of other guys out there who are better than the one you have now.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (4 November 2010):
 A cheater?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 November 2010):
 I think you already know, you said yourself you ignored the warning signs and proceeded into 3 years of hell. Now you're finally seeing them and him for who he truly is. You were in denial for so long. So my question to you is why are you still with him?
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