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*NCREDIBLE ME
writes:I broke up with my b/f one month ago due his really bad temper. He has never hit me, but will break and throw things when he gets mad. Sometimes over trivial things. I knew it was best for me to leave him, which of course he threw a fit when I did. My question is this..seems like only 2-3 weeks after I broke up with him he started seeing someone else. I know this shouldn't bother me, but it makes me wonder how he could start seeing someone so soon. he was a great b/f in all other areas except his temper. Why am I feeling sick to my stomach at the thought of him with another woman? I know he didn't change in a couple of weeks, so I am sure she will experience exactly what I did, even if she doesn't stop seeing him for it. I need to stop this obsession I have over him seeing someone right away. Any feedback/advice is greatly appreciated.
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reader, INCREDIBLE ME +, writes (8 November 2010):
INCREDIBLE ME is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks...you hit the nail right on the head. We both know her, and she witnessed his temper first hand. Amazing what some women will do just to be in the company of a man, I guess. Personally I would never knowingly allow myself to be someone else's rebound, but then that's just me. :)
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 It may be he already knew this someone before you split up or hes in a rebound relationship.
You did great to get the courrage to walk away from your relationship with him. Your still feeling that way because you still love him.
Give it time, try to keep yourself occupied and mind focused on other things. If you can take a vacation then do that. If you have good friends go and see them.
It will get better but right now you need time.
You should start looking for new dates when you feel ready.
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