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anonymous
writes:This is a strange question but please take it seriously and not be too patronising because it is a genuine concern of mine.I have only ever been with one guy and we split up a while ago. I have since met another guy who is nice and I feel I may come to the point of sleeping with him. The thing is, this guy is white as were all his girlfriends before. I am of brown skin - I have firm pert 34DD boobs, 24 inch waist and 34 inch hips so I think my body is ok in terms of the shape. But I have very dark nipples and dark bits "down there" that may be unattractive. I mean, white women's body are generally flawless and white while mine is....not...it is all sort of different dark colours and I do not know if it may be off putting to him. I also have a few lines of stretch marks on my bottom.I know people would say that he would know what he is getting into before hand as he knows what I look like. But well, I am sort of light skinned but you may expect my parts to be lighter....which i suppose makes even more of a contrast about how light my light bits are and how dark my dark bits are.Anyway, I am just concerned that the colour of my parts may turn him off - I mean, I have a good self esteem etc but I havent slept with many men (only 1) and do not know how men woould feel about these things - esp as he has zero experience with a brown girl.Thanks
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (4 November 2010):
Your skin colour is irrelevant quite frankly. You have the same features as every other woman which work in the same way.
If someone is put off by a different skin colour then it is them who has issues not you.
Be proud of who you are and what you have, there is nothing to worry about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2010): I'm really glad you asked this question because I used to have the same fears when I was younger. I would see naked pictures of white women (I'm a very light skinned Indian woman) and think that white men might find it hard to get used to the darker pigmentation. This isn't true at all. If a man shows any interest in you, you can be sure he has already imagined you naked 50-100 times in his head. So he has already imagined you with accurately colored parts.
White women do not at all have flawless skin. I am bisexual, and trust me, they have just as many tonal changes on their bodies as we do on ours. The only really difference is that white women tend to have less noticeable stretch marks, as they simply blend in with their natural skin tone.
Again, I'm the same skin tone as you, with some stretch marks, and no one ever notices. Or cares. Don't worry about it at all.
My boyfriend is white, had no previous experience with a brown female, but was well aware of what to expect. It's one of the benefits of pornography, it can be oddly educational about the things we don't think to talk about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2010): If this man or any other man truly likes you skin colour he wont see he will only see what a beautiful sexy woman you are,my girlfriend is brown skinned and her colour tone makes her more sexy than plain white flawless skin,even my sisters have tanned skin yet they were born white
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (4 November 2010):
 First of all, white people do not generally have flawless skin. I doubt anyone truly has flawless skin. Personally I think your doubts and fears are quite irrational. I am of brown skin and I have never encountered anyone who finds a distaste in it. Remember that thousands of people, mostly white people pay money to get expensive tans. You are already brown in colour and I am sure that it will serve you well. Do not be afraid of this man's tastes, a relationship should be about who you are and not what you look like.
I hope that helps.
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