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writes:DearCupid. i know this is relationship advice but i don't know who else to ask. Lately i've been feeling really sad and lonely and it's not my personality at all. i keep getting stressy and my friends; having low self esteem, being extremely lazy and not doing homework etc, and just basically feeling sorry for myself.i have ADHD and i'm in my last year at school and i'm reeally struggling to keep my concetration going i.e. i say to myself 'i'm going to concentrate this lesson' and then the next thing i know is i'm like staring at something on the wall that grabbed my attention, and thinking about the weekend or something. i went to my college open evening today and got really upset because i can;t figure out what i want to do and even though i have a basic thing in my head of ether performing arts or child care i can't pick and i'm worried because i wont know anyone and that's not like me at all to be worried because i go to cadets and i meet new people on courses like every month and i make close friends on the first day.i get up on the stage and sing and play guitar so why am i feeling so nervous now?? i'm just really scared and worried i wont make new friends and i don't know why but i got home and started crying because it's just hit me tht im leaving school in may and i don't want to. Everything is bothering me at the moment. firstly, my brother has just got out of prison and so therefore my family is constantly arguing; yet there being extremely supportive about this whole thing with colleges and what i want to do; i'm just getting so stressed, my mocks are next month and i think im going to fail them. Also i have really low self esteem at the moment and every time i walk past a guy i'm like don;t look at him he wont take a second glance. where as before i used to be really out going and i could talk to alot of guys and have fun, but at the moment when my friends ask me to go out i'd rather stay in and sit on my laptop, and i don't know why all this is happening. lately i haven't had a lot of sleep and i find it so hard to get on with homework straight away and again; i don't know why. Please Please if you could tell me what's wrong with me and why i'm acting like this it would really help!! or just tell me something that could help me get organised and actually concentrate at school !thanks xx
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reader, Tammy1205  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 Hi,
Everytime you get distracted, remember you need your education. Learning is a gift, so focus with all of your mental strength you can muster. You and you alone have control over your mind. Put it to good use in the classroom. And you have plenty of time to figure out what you want to do in college, so dont stress over that.
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