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writes:Is it possible to have feelings for 2 people? One is my boyfriend (who I love to bits) and one is another guy I met a few months ago (who I'm starting to fall for) Nothing has happened between me n this guy although I would like it to but won't do that to my boyfriend but I really like this other person. Reply to this Question
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reader, PurityChild  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 Yes it is definately possible, but if you love your current boyfriend then you wont do anything to put the relationship in danger. The best advice that I can give to you is to just be friends with the other guy and that is it but if you are admit that you want to be with him as oppose to the other guy then you need to tell your boyfriend how you feel before you hurt him and I'm sure that is the last thing that you want to do.
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reader, alice0110 +, writes (27 November 2010):
yes, its perfectly normal. at a young age, you are learning what sort of things you want you want in the future. maybe if you are feeling such strong feelings for the other man, you should have a chat with your boyfriend and make sure things are ok or maybe even see how he feels about the relationship. just remember you are young and its perfectly natural to have mixed feelings/emotions, just be honest with yourself
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): Since you would like something to happen between you and this other guy. Then you should end it with your bf before you get into a stronger relationship. (kids etc) Because you are only lying to your bf that he's the one for you!
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