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writes:I went on a first date last week with a guy (who I approached with an email) and it was great. There was no awkwardness at all. I told him that I had two children, and he was totally ok with it. We talked the next day, but the conversations grew shorter so I let up, not wanting to seem eager. The problem, I really like this guy, and felt we hit it off. Should I ask him out again, or if he has no interest seeing each other... Or should I just let him go?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): You already did your part. The ball's now in his corner. If he's interest in you, he will ask you out. Don't be desperate. He's not the only man in the world. Don't set yourself up to be his mat which will surely happen if you hound him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2010): You give up too easily. You can tell him you look forward to seeing him again because you felt great the first time, OR
to be more direct you can say that because you asked him out the first time you are waiting that he pulls the strings for the second date, which you'll accept without hesitation. I am not a big fan of humour but in these cases it makes you feel more relaxed, and has the same effect upon the other, so why not try it. If you fear appearing too eager, you do need to be more relaxed.
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