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writes:well ive been seeing this girl for about 3 weeks now, and i asked her last night about her thoughts on a relationship. and she said she wasnt ready yet, so to make things more clearer i asked if she was even interested in having one, and she said she was but she just isnt ready right now. but everytime we hang out we will kiss or make out, and weve even reached 3rd base once. now i bailed out on a relationship with her once already to be with another girl. and so this time im thinkin she just wants to wait a little longer to make sure its safe to move ahead this time.buuut then part of me thinks that she just sees me as a fling and doesnt want anything serious..what are some of your opinions?
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (27 November 2010):
 3 weeks isn't very long...She's dipping her toes in to test the water with you, and doesn't want to get burnt again. She doesn't have much trust in you that you won't leave her again. Give her time, show her you are committed.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (27 November 2010):
Just keep things ticking along and see where you end up. It is still early days and you're right she probably wants to take it slowly because you bailed on her in the past.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 November 2010):
It's simply too soon to tell. You've only been dating for three weeks, and once before that you ditched her for another girl. So naturally she will want to be very careful that you don't hurt her.
You've just got to take time. She doesn't sound like the sort of girl who would use you as a fling. If she was going to do that, she would have done it by now. So it's more about your proving that this time you won't hurt her. Date her, be a decent guy and whatever happens will happen.
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